How to Rekindle a Marriage After Cheating (Even If This Isn’t His First Affair)

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Having a good marriage doesn’t come by accident.  Especially after finding out your husband has cheated.  You will not want to be affectionate with your husband at first.  Honestly, it will probably make your skin crawl.  But, after he builds trust in your marriage and you heal from the affair, you will begin to desire your hubby again.  It just takes special attention to rebuild after cheating.

Creating a great marriage after cheating is only done with intention.  When you intentionally do things that will bless your marriage, you create a healthy environment where love can continue to grow.  You want to create healthy habits that will naturally enhance your marriage and continually draw you and your husband closer to each other.   Consistency is the key!

Reconnecting with your hubby also doesn’t have to be time-consuming.   It’s the little daily habits that will drastically impact your marriage and draw you two closer to each other.

Here’s how to do that.

Be determined to love each other.

Remind each other that you are both in this for the long haul.  If you’ve made the commitment to rebuild after he cheated, stand by your decision and put in the work to rebuild.  Vow that you will both honor the boundaries you’ve created in your marriage that protect you from infidelity.

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Schedule some alone time where you two just getaway.

This can be a huge getaway or a simple walk in the park while holding hands and flirting with each other.  Alone time is needed so that you two can focus on each other.  This is a NO kid and no work zone.  Spend time talking and getting to know each other again.  The same way you did at the beginning of your relationship.

Gently tell him the truth.

You don’t have to be abrasive or harsh.  The truth has its own sting all by itself.   If you are harsh or aggressive in your presentation, you risk him shutting down and not receiving what you are saying.  Be honest about your feelings and what you need to trust him again.  Communication is important, but, it will destroy what you are trying to rebuild if you don’t do it properly.


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