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Aren't you ready to accelerate your inner healing so you can confidently restore your marriage and experience Happily Ever After?! Call us today!

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Lay the foundation to accelerate your inner healing from infidelity so you can confidently experience Happily Every After with your husband.

(even if you're still hurting from your husbands affair or sometimes question your decision to stay married)

The Elite & Empowered Wife is for you if:

  • You are a successful woman and don’t have time to add “divorce” to your resume.

  • Your husband has repented for what he has done and is fully committed to rebuilding your marriage.

  • You want to stay married, but, you can’t seem to overcome your husband’s indiscretion.

  • His infidelity now has you feeling a little insecure or second-guessing yourself.

  • Sometimes anger and frustration control your emotions causing you to say or do things you later regret.

  • You need to safeguard your marriage so negative behaviors no longer occur and outsiders no longer overstep boundaries.

  • You may also realize the walls of protection you’ve placed around your heart are also keeping you from enjoying your marriage, so, you are ready to mentally and emotionally break free.

  • While you are on this journey of healing and dynamic transformation, you want support and the reminder that you are not alone.

And that's exactly why you are going to love The Elite & Empowered Wife

This program is dedicated to the mental and emotional well being of wives that have experienced trauma due to infidelity.

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Gain access to this prolific mentorship designed to guide you through the process of accelerating your inner healing and experiencing the marriage of your dreams.

I'm going to be very direct with you....

It's time you stand up in your full power and BREAKTHROUGH so you can:

❤️ Finally experience feeling the peace of being whole and healed.

❤️ OWN YOUR POWER ALREADY. Confidently pursue your love, trust YOURSELF, and lean into your faith because the God in you has waited long enough.

❤️ Get off the emotional & mental roller coaster so you can enjoy a healthy, loving,  and balanced marriage where you get YOUR needs met.

❤️ Embrace intimacy and closeness, tighter bonds, and more authentic marriage because vulnerability is your gift and you deserve love.

❤️ Breakfree from your crippling fear of what “could” happen and fully trust God to restore your marriage.

❤️ Become your BEST version of yourself, break generational curses, and teach your children the power of true LOVE.

❤️ FREELY GIVE & RECEIVE LOVE as though your life & marriage depends on it..because it does.

You can make these changes in your life right now!

But, YOU have to take the first step.

"This program helped me experience clarity & peace. My children and husband keep telling me how excited they are about the drastic change they can see in my emotions. We are laughing more and truly enjoying quality time with each other! I'm no longer on the emotional & mental roller coaster that consumed my thoughts. Working with Arrettres reminded me of how powerful I really am and I don't have to be a victim of what has happened to me."

Jordan Blackstone

It's time for you to heal from emotional & mental trauma so you can experience your Happily Ever After.

We will discuss topics like:

  • Proven strategies to assess your relationship and determine areas of improvement and how to safeguard from future offenses.

  • The groundbreaking blueprint that accelerates your healing process faster than ever.

  • Powerful steps that will create ongoing healing and restoration in your life & marriage.

  • Transformative mindset shifts used to remove the emotional and mental roller coaster.

  • Uncover actionable steps that safeguard your emotions so that you are constantly experiencing peace.

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The Elite & Empowered Wife WORKS!!
HERE’S THE PROOF.

Having a lady such as Arrettres come into my life to help guide me in the right direction, helped to build my confidence within myself, and to never give up on the gifts that were within me all along. I really thank God that I came into connection with her. She has given me great insight on how to go about not only being a successful wife, but, also how to balance being a mother, student, and woman of faith. I have accomplished so much within the year and I know I needed that support and guidance from her.

Dee Marlow

My goodness, working with Arrettres completely changed my perspective. I feel more in love with my husband than ever before. Plus he's been more intentional about leading our family well. THANK YOU, FATHER!!!❤️
The amount of peace I've been experiencing is amazing. I'm no longer triggered and the memories no longer affect me. I feel completely whole. My confidence has increased so much that it's made my husband step up his game and treat me like a queen.
Thank you so much Arrettres!

Stacy Patterson

One benefit that I didn’t expect was the anticipation of my coaching sessions. It felt like the days between could now be handled because of what I had learned. It also gave me something to look forward to.
I was able to stay more focused. There were issues I really wanted to discuss with my husband, but couldn’t. However, I could bring them up during coaching sessions, and Arrettres would always help me say what was on my heart in a way that my husband would receive it.The amount of peace I've been experiencing is amazing. I'm no longer triggered and the memories no longer affect me. I feel completely whole. My confidence has increased so much that it's made my husband step up his game and treat me like a queen.
Thank you so much Arrettres!

Madison Bryant

Stop acting like you have it all together Sis!

I KNOW you are strong, ambitious and a natural leader. But, infidelity has rocked you to your core. It’s made you second guess many decisions you have made and sometimes who you are as a woman.

You are hurting emotionally and mentally. You are struggling with trusting your husband and lets be honest….God. Don’t get me wrong, you are ride or die TEAM JESUS! But, there is a part of you that asks….

Why did God allow this pain in my life??

This is nothing wrong with this question or addressing your pain. I had to learn the hard way. As a leader in my church, I had to mask my questions, fears, and doubts as I struggled with the pain of infidelity.
Trying my best to hold it all together while suffering in silence.

Encouraging other women while I was SUFFERING IN SILENCE!

Until I was tired of being sick and tired! Until I was tired of crying myself to sleep asking God WHY!?!

Until I realized that I am truly the master of my peace, clarity, and joy! No one is coming to rescue me! I had to tap into the POWER God already placed inside of me!

God blessed me with the gift to use biblical principles and practical real-life STRATEGIES that help wives heal from infidelity so they can experience the LIFE & LOVE of their dreams!

Now It's Your Turn!

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After completing The Elite & Empowered Wife Program you'll be able to:

  • Know that your future is brighter as you experience constant joy.

  • Feel more confident in your ability to make clear decisions for yourself & your family.

  • Live a happier life because of the healthy boundaries you’ve created in your life and marriage.

  • Experience constant clarity and peace throughout your day.

  • Eliminate the constant mental and emotional baggage and learn to walk in healing.

  • Stop the ongoing cycle of anger and resentment that has been building up.

  • Embrace love & affection as you reconnect with your husband.

This transformational mentorship has helped wives get off the emotional roller coaster, heal from what they have experienced, and use their power to create necessary boundaries to powerfully transform their relationships.

Today you feel:

- Exhausted and feeling broken because your life and everything you've tried to confidently rebuild yourself aren’t working. You're unfulfilled, feel STUCK and unhappy. (Hint..the superwoman cape is killing you)

- Acting like a superwoman sacrificing yourself and resenting your husband because he can't rescue you from what you are feeling. You are constantly saving everyone else but secretly want to be saved, yet you can't stand asking for help.

- Numb and defensive. You're brilliant but can't seem to communicate what you really want and feel so you shut down or bottle it up until you explode and verbally destroy everyone in your path.

- You have trust issues. You don't trust yourself, your husband, and even your trust in God is a little shaky. You were taught to be silent about what goes on in your house and your heart which leaves you feeling alone and unsupported, BUT YOU CAN'T HEAL ALONE.

After The Elite & Empowered Wife:

- You are completely livin' life like it's golden! You're fulfilled, connected, and loved enjoying your family, marriage, career, and faith. You honor yourself and you are no longer afraid because you know you are loved!

- You burn the superwoman cape. You allow others to take responsibility for themselves and you honor yourself by setting boundaries to protect yourself from patterns and pain because you deserve peace in every area of your life.

- You no longer play small. You're no longer afraid of your voice. You're honest without guilt or shame. Speaking your truth and emotional maturity are your jam because you have clarity regarding your needs and desires in marriage.

- Your faith has deepened because you know and fully expect God's promises, protection, and provision. You have the tools of transformation and you apply them. You trust yourself because you've allowed yourself to be honest and vulnerable.

The Elite & Empowered Wife at a glance and why you should join!

ACCOUNTABILITY

The Elite & Empowered Wife gives you the tools to rebuild trust, heal from mental and emotional baggage while drastically transforming your mindset so that you can breakthrough barriers you are experiencing in your marriage.

Join an amazing community of like-minded wives you can connect within our private The Elite & Empowered Wife group. You will be able to receive the support and accountability of these members for years!

MARRIAGE & PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

The program provides a distinctive combination of spiritual practices and powerful strategies that give you an actionable blueprint to heal and rebuild trust.

$3,500 in bonuses that will support you as you take the course which includes 21 video training, 4 ebooks, 3 guides, 1 expectation & marriage assessment.

CONTINUAL & GUIDED LESSONS

You will have access to all content and recordings for one full year, making it easy for you to return to the lessons anytime and reinforce your learning. Plus, content is continually updated to align with individual issues.

While this program is 100% online, you can participate in all weekly coaching sessions from anywhere, anytime. You'll continually receive a clear, easy plan to apply each lesson into your life and marriage.

"My husband and I were struggling with connecting. Communicating felt impossible and the romance died years ago. After using the strategies Arrettres covered in this program, things began to flow so much easier. I began to own my voice and communicate more effectively with my husband. He recently said he appreciated how I was speaking my mind and being clear with my requests. It makes it easier for him to show me love with MY love language. I totally see the difference in our relationship."

Madeline Russel

Working with Arrettres provided clarity and helped me figure out what I want to do and how to get exactly what I want. I learned the exact words to say so that my husband understood what I was feeling. This was especially helpful as I was trying to do the work needed to successfully confront our problems.
The weekly live coaching calls gave me the support I needed! The ongoing content delivered every single week provided EASY to implement strategies to heal and have tough conversations with my husband.

Tabitha Brooks

I became more empowered! The strategies I learned showed me how to get my point across without resorting to yelling and cursing. My approach with my husband became less confrontational. I no longer felt guilty when we finished talking.
It was good to share my feelings and thoughts in a safe environment. Most important to me was the “feeling” that I was being supported by an expert in the field.
Working with Arrettres changed my life and my marriage!

Nicole Dwyer

ALL wives enrolled in The Elite & Empowered Wife will receive the following bonuses:

    • BONUS #1 Elite & Empowered Mentorship (Valued at $13,979). This includes 7 months of mentorship after completion of course content.

    • BONUS #2 Weekly Strategic Advisory Sessions (Valued at $9,985). This includes 12 months of coaching calls to help you implement the content and overcome any personal challenges you may experience.

    • BONUS #3 – Marriage Restoration Accelerator (Valued at $2997). Grab the secret sauce to the 5 prolific principles needed to restore your marriage and confidently lay the foundation of trust and love.

    • BONUS #4 – The Inner Healing Intensive (Valued at $3000). This prolific intensive will help you heal from infidelity and master the art of self-love so you can become the BEST version of yourself!

    • BONUS #5 – The Marriage Restoration Summit (Valued at $97).  Receive complimentary admission to this virtual summit where you will discover the 7 laws of healing after infidelity.

    • BONUS #6 – Priority Coaching at all Inner Healing Coaching Sessions (Valued at $2997).

    • BONUS #7 –  An exclusive members-only Facebook group where you can get support, ask questions, bounce ideas off your fellow sisters, and get feedback from our team of expert coaches. (Priceless)

Enter your information to chat with us today.

Have you already submitted your application and are ready to enroll today? Text us right now @ 940-268-5732 to get started.

What others are saying about Arrettres?

I felt completely broken and humiliated before I enrolled in The Elite & Empowered Wife. I kept rehearsing my husband's affair over and over again in my head. I was consumed by constant pain and confusion because I still wanted my marriage to work.
It was really great to have someone with so much experience so easily available to provide support and CONCRETE suggestions and strategies that aligned with my strong personality.
Working with Arrettres helped me so much. I was able to let go of the assumptions of others and clearly do what I felt was best for me and my family. My marriage has been restored. God is good!

Maria Taylor

This program changed my life! I couldn't believe how much healing occurred within the first week of me receiving access to the lessons included with the mentorship.
Each coaching call made me feel empowered. The strategies Arrettres gave me were practical and easy to implement.
I was finally able to experience clarity and make tough decisions about my marriage. I feel like I am now in control of my life.
When I talked through different situations, the re-enforcement that Arrettres provided empowered and strengthen me. She confirmed that I didn't have to allow my husband to take advantage of me. I learned to be bold and get my point across in a way that also honored God.

Angela McDavid

I know you can’t predict what will happen, but, Arrettres using her expertise to tell me what she saw happening in my husband's actions and words helped me to see things better. I had to get out of the way so that I could see the bigger picture clearly. My marriage is restored!

I received tools to deal with my husband and even phrases to say which helped me deliver what I needed to say in a way that he really heard me.

I appreciated the listening aspect of this coaching. Arrettres is very good at reiterating and more clearly revealing what is going on in my life. I found it most helpful when Arrettres would offer her insight on the situation and how to quickly fix our problems.

Brittany Oyama

Curriculum Breakdown

Module #1

Reclaiming Your Power!

  • Strengthen your relationship with God so you can experience his constant joy.

  • Truly learn to love yourself and fully understand how valuable you are to Him!  

  • Let go of all the burdens you carry and allow God to fix your concerns.

  • Release your control issues and fully trust God again.  

  • Eliminate the fear of your next steps so you can confidently trust yourself again.  

  • Release the weight of what has happened to you so you can feel lighter, courageous, confident, and healthy. 

  • Know how to properly handle your strong emotions towards your situation.

Module #2

Reclaiming Your Peace!

  • Regain your mental and emotional health as you take back control of your life.

  • Know that you are not alone as you heal and renew your confidence.

  • Learn how to stop overanalyzing what has happened to you so you can manage your emotions in a healthy way. 

  • Eliminating the effect of triggers so you can feel more balanced and emotionally stable. 

  • Reclaim the confidence you once had in yourself as you continue evolving into your best version of yourself.   

  • Stop rehearsing the affair in your head so you can truly experience freedom and clarity.

  • Release bitterness and anger that is affecting your mental health and marriage.

Module #3

Reclaiming Your Marriage!

  • Learn how to confidently navigate through your marriage, even while recovering from the trauma associated with infidelity

  • Speak your truth while creating healthy boundaries in your relationship.  

  • Feel valued and respected as you resolve conflict more effectively.

  • Improve your mental health as you master the art of guilt-free self-care. 

  • Trust your judgment and ability to make clear decisions for yourself. 

  • Learn how to respond without reacting when challenges arise.

  • Find your way back to your husband so you can restore your marriage.

The Elite & Empowered Wife is definitely for you if:

  • You are ready to have tough conversations and create healthy boundaries in your marriage.

  • You are ready to walk in the power that God has already placed inside of you.

  • You are ready to break free from the weights you have been carrying.

  • You know you are destined for greatness.

  • You know you are a good woman and bring a lot to the table.

  • You accept that you may have unresolved baggage that is also affecting your marriage.

  • You are ready to put in the work to get the breakthrough you’ve been praying for.

  • You are ready to be held accountable for taking the steps to achieve your goals.  

  • You are ready to connect with other women on the same path as you.

  • You are open to learning new strategies and implementing them into your life.

  • You are ready to change from the inside out and be challenged in a way that will help you grow.

This program is NOT for you if:
  • You are not willing to do the work needed for you to accomplish your marital goals.

  • You are not married.

  • You don’t think anything can save your marriage.

  • You believe you already know everything and have tried it all.

  • You want all answers to be spoon-fed to you.  

  • You refuse to trust God and/or the process.

  • You do not believe in investing in your growth and healing.

  • You like to procrastinate and not give 100% effort to your goals.

  • You resist change and being challenged to step up.

  • You believe divorce is the only option for you.

If you are ready to get your marriage back on track

then The Elite & Empowered Wife is for you.

Join the Waitlist now!

Have you already submitted your application and are ready to enroll today? Text us right now @ 940-268-5732 to get started.

Frequently asked questions.

I’ve bought a lot of courses...why should I enroll in The Elite & Empowered Wife?

Three reasons:

1. I think the problem with a lot of courses is people spend too much time-consuming content when they should actually be working on their inner healing.

The Elite & Empowered Wife is designed as a tool you use while you work on your inner healing. You don’t have to sit down and binge-watch the content. You don’t have to go through it sequentially.

Working on how to resolve conflict? That’s when you open up the Foolproof methods to experience abundant happiness & peace in your life RIGHT NOW! module and look at the resources, videos, and ebooks.

2. Looking to heal from the pain you’ve experienced from relationships? Check out the tutorials on that, and use the strategies to talk to your husband. More ease and more solutions. That’s why you should invest in your inner healing with The Elite & Empowered Wife.

​3. If you’re interested in the full-blown version of the Infidelity Recovery Kit that comes with accountability, community, and monthly coaching, get in on this deal.

How do I know this will work for me?

If you want God to restore your peace, clarity, joy and heal you from past experiences, this will work for you.

If you’re ready to take action, this will work for you.

The Elite & Empowered Wife will support you with resources and training for every part of restoring your inner healing.

What's the difference between this program and other coaching programs?

Most other programs focus on giving you surface solutions. For example, they will teach you how to resolve conflict and create boundaries.

But they skim over all the other things…and those other things are CRUCIAL.

Knowing the skill set is a must. But what’s the point if you don’t know how to address the ongoing memories that keep telling you to guard your heart?

How do you actually get your husband to be involved in restoring your inner healing?

The Elite & Empowered Wife teaches you everything. I give you ebooks and actual training on the strategies behind wildly successful boundaries that protect you from future pain.

The focus of The Elite & Empowered Wife is supporting you and your inner peace as a whole.

What happens if I don’t sign up?

You can take the information I’ve already shared with you and implement it on your own. But you won’t get the cutting-edge resources, tutorials, and videos the members get.

The Elite & Empowered Wife is distilled into the key, essential steps of building yourself emotionally and restoring your peace. There is no fluff in the program, no buffer content.

NO SHINY OBJECTS.

Just essential, sequential steps you need to take.

You can do it on your own, but it will probably take you longer and cost you more in the long run.

How long is the program?

The Elite & Empowered Wife is 12-month program.

What are the BONUSES that come with this program?

ALL wives enrolled in this program will receive the following bonuses:

  • BONUS #1 Elite & Empowered Mentorship (Valued at $13,979). This includes 7 months of mentorship after completion of course content.

  • BONUS #2 Weekly Strategic Advisory Sessions (Valued at $9,985). This includes 12 months of coaching calls to help you implement the content and overcome any personal challenges you may experience.

  • BONUS #3 – Marriage Restoration Accelerator (Valued at $2997). Grab the secret sauce to the 5 prolific principles needed to restore your marriage and confidently lay the foundation of trust and love.

  • BONUS #4 – The Inner Healing Intensive (Valued at $3000). This prolific intensive will help you heal from infidelity and master the art of self-love so you can become the BEST version of yourself!

  • BONUS #5 – The Marriage Restoration Summit (Valued at $97).  Receive complimentary admission to this virtual summit where you will discover the 7 laws of healing after infidelity.

  • BONUS #6 – Priority Coaching at all Inner Healing Coaching Sessions (Valued at $2997).

Are there Coaching sessions?

We will have a weekly Group Coaching Session.  During these sessions, I will break down a life-changing strategy you will implement to transform your life.  We will wrap up with a Q&A session regarding the strategy or any topic-related questions you may have.  All sessions are recorded and placed inside your Resource Center.

When are the Coaching Sessions?

 Sessions will be held every Monday evening at 6:30 pm CST.

How will I attend Coaching Sessions?

The sessions will be conducted via zoom.  The link will be emailed to you before each session.

What if I am unable to attend a live session?

Recordings of all sessions will be posted within your membership portal with all your course content.  You can review the videos at your leisure.

What is the format of each Coaching Session?

We will review your homework assignments and work on any problems you are currently struggling with.  I will give you strategies to implement based on your personality type and specific situation.  (No fluff or generic advice)

When can I start?

As soon as payment is received you will receive immediate access to the course content and membership portal.  You will also be able to immediately register for our next Coaching Session.  (These are held every Monday)

Are all sessions virtual?

Yes, you can attend each session from any location where you have internet access.

Do you offer crisis calls?

Yes, members can purchase 1:1 Crisis Calls if needed.  (Savings of 50% for members)  You will also receive help and support via our private Telegram group.

Is there a prayer group?

Members can submit prayer requests via our private Telegram group.  I will respond with a recorded or typed prayer pertaining to your request.  Others in the group may also respond with prayers of support and encouragement.

Is there a payment plan available?

Yes.  We will accept a deposit followed by monthly payments.

Are bonuses available to everyone that enrolls?

All bonuses are available to all members that pay in full.

Is there a guarantee?

The Elite & Empowered Wife works when the strategies are implemented.

So if you’re not planning on doing the work, don’t sign up because watching the training is not going to give you the life you want.

You have to put the work in. But once you put the work in, you’re going to see how powerful this is. And from what my clients tell me, this is absolutely more than fair.

More Success Stories!

I was able to take the emotion out of our arguments so that I could get my point across more effectively.
I created healthy boundaries that protect me and my marriage from future issues. I found my voice and was able to hold my husband accountable for his actions.
This program showed me how to get out of God's way and allow him to do what needed to be done in my husband. I learned how to get out of my own way and trust God. I still can't believe the change that I now see in my husband. I'm only halfway through the program and my husband and I have decided to tear up the divorce papers and keep working on our marriage. PRAISE GOD!

Yolanda Wagner

I gained my emotional & mental strength. I was able to make clear decisions about the next steps in my marriage without any regrets.
The coaching confirmed and validated my feelings. The relief of being able to discuss the situation with a professional in a nonjudgmental atmosphere was a blessing!

Lauren Mitchell

I had so many unanswered questions.
Am I married to a serial cheater?
Is he a repeat offender?
Will he cheat again?
Does he really want to be with me?
Does he even know what he wants?
I was so confused.

The weekly empowerment lessened the pain I was experiencing. Support from someone who understood what I was feeling, her availability, and the great resources Arrettres provided gave me the clarity I needed.
After the live strategy sessions, I got all of the answers I needed. Arrettres showed me how to get clear about the questions I wanted to ask, and how to trust my gut when the answers come. The clarity I now have is amazing!

Amber Bailey

Hey Sis!

I’m Arrettres Hollins, the founder of The Elite & Empowered Wife.  Over the years I’ve been labeled as a woman of influence that wears many hats.  I am a certified teacher, speaker, and faith-based relationship consultant.   As a wife, mother, and daughter of the King,  I use my gifts to inspire and encourage women to grow spiritually, practice self-care, and build a marriage you adore!    Yes, YOU can experience Endless Love AND Marriage with your hubby.   

I am practical and real.  No fluffy cliques or fillers over here.  You will always get modern solutions to your problems mixed with foundational truth.  It isn’t an accident that you have arrived on this page and connected with me.  My goal is to help you transform your life & marriage.  You will be AMAZED by what God will do in your marriage when you take the pressure and stress off of you and allow him to do the heavy lifting. 

After hanging with me, you will annihilate the obstacles that are standing between you and living the life of your dreams.   I’ve been called to help you unlock the power that God has already placed inside of you.    I’ve been helping wives achieve endless love for over 15 years, and believe even YOU can experience constant joy in your marriage.

Please know that I am praying for you, your marriage, and your husband.  I believe in YOUR MARRIAGE and what God is about to do for you!

Join The Waitlist!

Remember....you need to act quickly because spots always fill up quickly when this offer is made.

Have you already submitted your application and are ready to enroll today? Text us right now @ 940-268-5732 to get started.