How to take charge of your life when your marriage makes you feel stuck.

Standing at a crossroad and trying to determine your next move can feel overwhelming.  Especially when you are about to make life-changing decisions that will impact your future.  When you are trying to take charge of your life, sometimes your marriage can make you feel stuck.  The bible gives you 3 clear instructions when making decisions about your life.    Trust in the Lord with all your heart     and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him,     and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6) Your first step is to trust in the Lord with ...
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(Video) How to protect your marriage from negative friends.

You can’t allow the weight of someone else's marriage to keep you from experiencing the marriage of your dreams.  Yes, you should be compassionate and offer assistance to other wives that are struggling.  But, you should never sacrifice your mental and emotional well being.  Unfortunately, there are some people that just want attention and sympathy.  They don’t really want to put in the work needed for them to experience true healing and restoration.  You are different.  You are ready for real transformation and restoration.  So you have to be very careful about who you allow in your circle during this ...
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How to trust God even when your life feels like it is falling apart.

Sometimes your life can feel like it is falling apart.  But, don’t be distracted.   Your faith starts to waver when you have spent too much time focusing on your issues instead of focusing on your creator.  Yes, you can trust God even when life feels like it is falling apart.  Realistically, if you are focused on God, he will change your perspective and view of what you are experiencing.  Don’t allow your emotions to throw you off.  Feelings can be misleading.  Get clarity and a clear vision of what God is trying to do in you and through you.  ...
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God is fully aware of your situation and is not hiding from you.

I promise I tried to shake this feeling this morning, but God would not allow me to let this thing go!  God is fully aware of your situation and is not hiding from you.  Don’t be distracted by the fiery darts or the arrows.  He’s got your entire life under his control.   Even though the wind may be blowing, he’s got you.  He knows the plan for your life.  No, you don’t have to be lost regarding his plan. When was the last time you prayed?  I mean really prayed.  Not just prayed that God would fix your husband.  I mean ...
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(Video) Why this is not the time for you to doubt God and how to increase your faith!

I understand that life might feel a little overwhelming right now.  Ok, maybe it's very overwhelming.  But, don't allow your circumstances to make you doubt God.  Now is not the time for you to doubt God.  This is the perfect time for you to increase your faith. That’s the only option.  You want to see a manifestation of your dreams and desires.  Then you need to focus on God and his ability to do exceedingly, abundantly, above all you can ask or think. Watch this quick video about how to increase your faith for more details! I’ve opened up the ...
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How to stop allowing others to control the amount of healing, joy, and peace you experience.

You have total control of the amount of healing, joy, and peace you experience daily.  Don't over-complicate this.   Don't give your power away. "They made me mad" and "They aren't making me happy" are signs that you have given too much of your power away.  You put yourself in the position of a victim when you do that.  Plus, you won't be fully satisfied when you put all your hope and trust in your husband.   Yes, you are supposed to experience a certain level of love and peace in your marriage.  But, your husband should never be your source.  You ...
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Sis, it’s time for you to get up out of that dark place and really trust God for your healing.

You definitely look the part of someone that has it all together.  Other women look up to you.  Your finances are aligned.  You’re active in ministry.  When we google #WifeGoals, your picture is there.  But, behind closed doors, you are struggling with a pain that is too heavy for you to carry by yourself.   Sis, it’s time for you to get up out of that dark place and really trust God for your healing. I understand where you are.  I was also raised to “never let them see you sweat”.  Regardless of what is going on at home, you ...
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3 Little-Known Factors That Could Affect Your Faith

God wants you to be strong at times.  There are other times when God wants you to be still and watch him work.  Both of these positions require faith in God.   When you are faced with a challenge in your marriage, that is not the time for you to doubt God.  Trusting God when everything is working well is not hard.   It’s those times when your marriage feels like it is unbearable.  That's when your faith is really challenged.  Before the storm arrives in your marriage, there are a couple of things you should be doing that will ...
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How to control your anger when your hubby has gotten on your last nerve

Being angry is not a problem.  Things will happen in a marriage that will frustrate you.  Life won’t go as planned.  Your spouse may say and do things that drive you crazy.  You will be 100% justified when you become angry.  This isn’t the problem. The problem is what you do while you are angry.  The bible tells us to be angry, but, sin not.  Ephesians 4:26.  So anger is not the problem.  It’s how far we allow our anger to take us.   Now, I do believe we need to be mindful of what we are allowing ourselves to get ...
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