Releasing Anger


Get off the emotional roller coaster, and use the easiest process to experience constant peace in your home, total control of your thoughts and ignite your connection with your husband.

The truth is.....

Your life can be filled with love, laughter, and joy!


You are currently struggling with unforgiveness, resentment, anger, and occasionally popping off towards your husband and children.

This makes you feel guilty and scared you are making everyone in your home miserable.

It’s like you are watching a terrible train wreck about to happen.

You want to stop the explosion from happening, but, the pain you are struggling with won’t let you stop it!

The problem is, this isn’t fully your fault.

You’ve experienced marital trauma.

You are hurting!

Your hurt is sometimes displayed as anger.

And unfortunately, if you’re not careful, your anger will push your children and husband away from you.

You no longer have the privilege of waiting to get the help you need. Your family is on the line now.

That's why I created the Releasing Anger Virtual Retreat!

Eliminate the painful recurring memories and experience peace regardless of what is going on around you.

Annihilate the resentment and anger towards your husband so you can enjoy your marriage again.

Unleash forgiveness in a way that releases anxiety and stress while rebuilding trust in your relationship.

Protect yourself from feeling heartache again while igniting a deeper connection with your husband.

See what others are saying about working with Arrettres!

Working with Arrettres gave me a safe place to vent and express my pain without feeling judged. I didn't have to act like I had it all together with her. I felt empowered to speak up for myself and create boundaries in our marriage, and hold my husband accountable for his actions without being manipulative or controlling.
God used her coaching to save my life."

"As the first lady of a very large church, I had to hide my pain and embarrassment when I found out my husband was sleeping with one of our members. I had no one to talk to. Everyone tried to guilt me into ignoring the problem and excuse him because he is a pastor.

Beverly Knight

"Before I met Arrettres, I tried everything in my power to get my husband to be the man he promised he would be. Nothing worked. We were always arguing. I kept trying to control him and every aspect of our marriage.

Working with Arrettres showed me how to get out of God's way and allow him to do what needed to be done in my husband. I learned how to release control and fully trust God. I still can't believe the change that I now see in my husband. I'm only halfway through the program and my husband and I have decided to tear up the divorce papers and keep working on our marriage.

Mellisa Miller

"I felt completely broken and humiliated when I found out about my husband's affair. I kept rehearsing my husband's affair over and over again in my head. I was consumed by constant pain and confusion because I still wanted my marriage to work. I just couldn't figure out how to make it happen. I felt alone! No one was able to help me release the emotional pain or the mental torment I was experiencing.

But, after working with Arrettres, I was able to finally feel like I was in control of my life again. I was able to let go of the assumptions of others and clearly do what I felt was best for myself and my family. My marriage has been restored.
God is good!"

Thomasina Walker

I want to share with you the ONLY faith-based consulting firm that focuses on helping wives accelerate their inner healing from infidelity while confidently restoring marriages.

💝 Completely annihilate recurring, painful thoughts so you can experience constant peace in your home and avoid a painful divorce.

💝 Uplevel your faith to release prayers that get answered, promote healing and permanently transform your life.

💝 Elevate your clarity so you can create powerful boundaries that protect you and your family from unnecessary pain while rebuilding trust.

💝 Confidently communicate in a way that is effective, makes you feel heard, and gets you the results you truly desire.

If that sounds like you....

There's a spot waiting for you in our 4-week virtual retreat!

Join us May 15th - June 10th

You've already tried therapy, books, prayer, marriage conferences, etc.., and it's not your fault none of those things worked.

If you are ready to invest in REAL solutions from the #1 infidelity recovery strategist that has helped numerous wives release resentment, anger, and frustration so they can confidently restore their marriages.....This program was designed for you!

With our proven process we take the struggle out of experiencing complete healing with simple strategies to ultimately position you to confidently restore your marriage to better than it ever was before.

What others are saying about working with Arrettres!

"Working with Arrettres changed my life! I couldn't believe how much healing occurred within the first week of receiving access to the lessons included with the mentorship.

Each coaching call made me feel empowered. The strategies Arrettres gave me were practical and easy to implement.
I was finally able to experience clarity and make tough decisions about my marriage. I feel like I am now in control of my life"

Tanisha Murrey

"My husband and I were struggling. We couldn't communicate properly and always ended up in a shouting match.

After using the strategies Arrettres covered in this program, things began to flow so much easier. I began to own my voice and communicate more effectively with my husband. He recently said he appreciated how I was speaking my mind and being clear with my requests. I totally see the difference in our relationship and feel like I am experiencing my Happily Ever After."

Brenda Dunbar

"Having a lady such as Arrettres come into my life to help guide me in the right direction, helped to build my confidence within myself, and to never give up on the gifts that were within me all along. I really thank God that I came into a connection with her. She has given me great insight on how to go about not only being a successful entrepreneur, but, also how to balance being a mother, student, and woman of faith. I have accomplished so much within the year and I know I needed that support and guidance from her. Arrettres is amazing!

Olivia Henry

We specialize in......

Anger Management

💥 To help you release bitterness so you communicate without "popping off".

Conflict Resolution

💥 To help you resolve conflict faster and get the results you truly desire.

Eliminating Recurring Painful Thoughts

💥 To eliminate triggers so you experience clarity as you navigate through this season.

Mental & Emotional Healing

💥 To help you get off the emotional and mental roller coaster and experience constant peace!

More Success Stories!

I've known Arrettres since I was a child. I was a very difficult child. She didn't know it, but, she was always uplifting to me. Even if she just threw me a smile. I never saw her sweat or stress when things got crazy. Arrettres has always been a self-motivator and has a strong relationship with God which perhaps carried her to help others when she was tired. As I've grown into a woman she has done NOTHING less than inspire, encourage, uplift, motivate and push me. Although I'm still very stubborn her patience and drive to see me succeed have carried me when I wasn't able to carry myself. Arrettres is truly an inspiring woman of God, mentor, mother, wife, and friend.

Tamela Johnson

"My husband was cheating on me. It was a 5-year relationship he had with a coworker. I was devastated and immediately filed for a divorce. I was embarrassed and humiliated. I blamed the affair on myself. My self-esteem was low before I met him. After the affair, my self-esteem was nonexistent. Working with Arrettres helped me build up my self-esteem and see that I am valuable regardless of what my husband did. It taught me how to set healthy boundaries in relationships and set expectations for how I should be treated. It gave me permission to speak my truth."

Kristen Bowden

"After 6 years of a stressful marriage, I fell into a deep depression. I would barely get out of my bed or engage with my children. My hair started to fall out and I gained so much weight. I couldn’t seem to shake the grief of trying to fix my marriage and not being successful at it.

Arrettres helped me begin the healing process. The best part about it was the constant reminders to reconnect with God and reading the affirming scriptures daily. It renewed my hope. I’ve learned to embrace my size and celebrate being a full-figured girl! It changed my perspective of my life and my husband. I was able to prioritize my well-being and while still being the wife God created me to be. We are still working on our marriage and things have gotten so much better."

Irine Joyce

We meet you exactly where you are

I want to take away the guesswork, eliminate further failed attempts and give you the proven strategies my clients have used to experience the life and marriage of their dreams.

Imagine This:

- You're fulfilled, connected, and loved enjoying your life and marriage. You honor yourself and you are no longer afraid because you know you are aligned with God's plan for your life!

- You burn the superwoman cape. You allow your husband to take responsibility for himself. You honor yourself by setting boundaries to protect yourself from patterns and pain because you deserve peace in every area of your life.

- You no longer feel the pressure to shrink up. You're no longer afraid of your voice. You're honest without guilt or shame. Speaking your truth and emotional maturity are your jam because you have clarity regarding your needs and desires in marriage.

- Your faith has deepened because you know and fully expect God's promises, protection, and provision. You have the tools of transformation and you apply them. You trust yourself because you've allowed yourself to be honest and vulnerable.

You can make these changes in your life right now!

But, YOU have to take the first step.

Join us May 15th - June 10th for the...

Releasing Anger Virtual Retreat

The investment for this virtual retreat includes:

💖 Live weekly strategy sessions with Arrettres on everything you need to fully get off the emotional roller coaster, experience constant peace in your home, total control of your thoughts, and ignite your connection with your husband.

💖 Lifetime access to all recordings of sessions

💖 Ongoing support in our private forum for individual Q&A sessions.


Frequently asked questions.

I’ve invested in a lot of programs...why should I enroll in the Releasing Anger Virtual Retreat?

Three reasons:

1. I think the problem with a lot of courses is people spend too much time-consuming content when they should actually be working on their inner healing.

The Releasing Anger Virtual Retreat is designed as a tool you use while you work on your inner healing. You don’t have to sit down and binge-watch the content. You don’t have to go through it sequentially.

Working on how to resolve conflict? That’s when you open up the Foolproof methods to experience abundant happiness & peace in your life RIGHT NOW!

2. Looking to heal from the pain you’ve experienced from relationships? Check out the tutorials on that, and use the strategies to talk to your husband. More ease and more solutions. That’s why you should invest in yourself with The Releasing Anger Virtual Retreat.

​3. If you’re interested in the full-blown version of the Infidelity Recovery Kit that comes with accountability, community, and weekly guidance, get in on this deal.

How do I know this will work for me?

If you want to experience peace, clarity, joy, and healing from past experiences, this will work for you.

If you’re ready to take action, this will work for you.

Releasing Anger Virtual Retreat will support you with resources and mentorship for every part of restoring your inner healing.

What's the difference between this program and other coaching programs?

Most other programs focus on giving you surface solutions. For example, they will teach you how to resolve conflict and create boundaries.

But they skim over all the other things…and those other things are CRUCIAL.

Knowing the skill set is a must. But what’s the point if you don’t know how to address the ongoing memories that keep telling you to guard your heart?

The Releasing Anger Virtual Retreat teaches you everything. I give you ebooks and actual guidance on the strategies behind wildly successful boundaries that protect you from future pain.

The focus of The Releasing Anger Virtual Retreat is supporting you and your inner peace as a whole.

What happens if I don’t sign up?

You can take the information I’ve already shared with you and implement it on your own. But you won’t get the cutting-edge resources, tutorials, and videos the members get.

The Releasing Anger Virtual Retreat is distilled into the key, essential steps of building yourself emotionally and restoring your peace. There is no fluff in the program, no buffer content.


Just essential, sequential steps you need to take.

You can do it on your own, but it will probably take you longer and risk you losing precious time with your family.

How long is the program?

The Releasing Anger Virtual Retreat is a 4 week program that runs form May 15th – June 10th

Are there weekly sessions where I can get all my questions answered?

Yes.   During these sessions, I will break down a life-changing strategy you will implement to transform your life.  We will wrap up with a Q&A session regarding the strategy or any topic-related questions you may have.  All sessions are recorded and placed inside your Resource Center.

When are the virtual Sessions?

Tuesday evenings at 7 pm CST.

How will I attend Sessions?

The sessions will be conducted via zoom.  The link will be emailed to you weekly.

What if I am unable to attend a session?

Attending weekly sessions is not mandatory.  We understand that life gets busy and you might need to skip a session or two.

You will still be able to submit questions prior to our sessions.  Your questions will be answered during our virtual sessions and uploaded to the membership portal.  

Refunds will not be given for missed/skipped weekly sessions.

What is the format of each Coaching Session?

We will review your homework assignments and work on any problems you are currently struggling with.  I will give you strategies to implement based on your personality type and specific situation.  (No fluff or generic advice)

When can I start?

As soon as payment is received you will receive immediate access to the course content and membership portal.

Are all sessions virtual?

Yes, you can attend each session from any location where you have internet access.

Do you offer crisis calls?

Yes, members can invest in 1:1 Crisis Calls if needed.  (Savings of 50% for members)  You will also receive help and support via our private Telegram group.

Is there a prayer group?

Members can submit prayer requests via our private Telegram group.  I will respond with a recorded or typed prayer pertaining to your request.  Others in the group may also respond with prayers of support and encouragement.

Is there a payment plan available?

Not at this time.

Is there a guarantee?

The Releasing Anger Virtual Retreat works when the strategies are implemented.

So if you’re not planning on doing the work, don’t sign up because watching the video is not going to give you the life you want.

You have to put the work in. But once you put the work in, you’re going to see how powerful this is. And from what my clients tell me, this is absolutely more than fair.

Hey Sis!

I’m Arrettres Hollins, the founder of The Healed & Empowered Wife Accelerator.  Over the years I’ve been labeled as a woman of influence that wears many hats.  I am a certified teacher, speaker, and faith-based relationship consultant.   As a wife, mother, and daughter of the King,  I use my gifts to inspire and encourage women to grow spiritually, practice self-care, and build a marriage you adore!    Yes, YOU can experience Endless Love AND Marriage with your hubby.   

I am practical and real.  No fluffy cliques or fillers over here.  You will always get modern solutions to your problems mixed with foundational truth.  It isn’t an accident that you have arrived on this page and connected with me.  My goal is to help you transform your life & marriage.  You will be AMAZED by what God will do in your marriage when you take the pressure and stress off of you and allow him to do the heavy lifting. 

After hanging with me, you will annihilate the obstacles that are standing between you and living the life of your dreams.   I’ve been called to help you unlock the power that God has already placed inside of you.    I’ve been helping wives achieve endless love for over 15 years, and believe even YOU can experience constant joy in your marriage.

Please know that I am praying for you, your marriage, and your husband.  I believe in YOUR MARRIAGE and what God is about to do for you!