After the betrayal of infidelity, you will most likely struggle with anxiety, chronic stress, depression, painful recurring memories, anger/rage, feeling triggered, humiliation, and a lack of trust.  It will have you asking does the pain of infidelity ever go away?   The answer to the question is a resounding YES!  These emotions are not a part of your destiny!  The life of Elijah is the perfect example to renew your hope.   Watch this video for details. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdsS0rVXkKc Your breakthrough is here! I want you to reflect on the life of Elijah in 1 Kings 18.  Elijah was a mighty prophet during a turbulent ...
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If you are super deep and spiritual, you probably won't get this conversation. But, if you've ever had to wait for God to answer your prayers...AND became frustrated at some point, you are not alone. The season of unanswered prayers for your marriage can sometimes feel hopeless. Or even worse, like God is ignoring you.  Let's address the hardest part about unanswered prayers for your marriage and how you can still experience victory during that season! Watch this video for details. Trust God during the waiting period. God knows exactly what he is doing and hasn't forgotten about you.  During ...
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I don't want to sugarcoat anything.   When you made the decision to stay with your husband, yes it was honorable.  But, the restoration process will not happen overnight.  There are many aspects that will delay the progress of your restoration.  I intend to help you avoid the most subtle hindrances that often get overlooked.  Here are the 5 Common mistakes made when restoring your marriage after Infidelity. Watch this video for details. Feeling like your situation is too big for God to heal and restore.   Do you really believe there is something too big for God to handle?  Do you ...
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The enemy wants you to feel like you are the only person struggling with anger.  especially as a believer.  But, you are not.  Especially if you have experienced any form of marital trauma.  During this post, I decided to share a glimpse into my personal struggle with anger in my marriage and the practical steps I use to start the healing process. Watch this video for details. How was I able to remove the walls that kept me on an emotional roller coaster of anger so that I could start the healing process? Accepting that it’s an ongoing journey. It ...
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Even as Christian wives, we may struggle with anger in our marriage.  There may be seasons where the frustration may become too much for your to carry.  But, God gives us clear instructions regarding how to address our anger.    I want to share foundational truths regarding how to deal with anger in marriage. Watch this video for details. Make a decision regarding if you are going to do this God’s way or your way.  You can’t be on the fence about this.  Every victory starts with a decision to pursue victory.  If you want to fully release anger, it ...
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I was tired of everyone telling me to just pray for my husband when I was ready to walk away from my marriage.  Not because I didn’t believe in prayer, but, because I was already praying.  And nothing changed.  So I felt like I was wasting my time.  It wasn’t until I sat still long enough to really get with God regarding why my prayers weren’t being answered.  I needed to be intentional about praying “the will of God”.  Not just my selfish desires.  Here are a few of the Prayer Points To Activate Peace In Your Marriage Immediately.   Watch ...
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Till death do us part?  We all stood at the altar and declared this proclamation before God, family, and friends.  But, did we REALLY know what we were signing up for?  Staying married during tough seasons??  Did we really count the cost and consider what “For better or worse” might actually include?  How to maintain peace in your marriage is not a concern when you are standing at the altar. Watch this video to view my live video discussing "How to maintain peace in your marriage during tough seasons!". No one gets married excited and ready to face the tough ...
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If you've experienced marital trauma and have chosen to stay with your husband, I commend you.  You have chosen to allow God to do what only he can do which is restore your marriage and make it stronger than it was before.  During this journey, you may experience moments where your emotions are all over the place.  You want to experience peace while you are navigating through this season.   I promise it is possible for you to experience peace.  But, we have to overcome one obstacle which is secretly stealing your peace in your marriage. Click the image below for ...
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Marriage is NOT for the weak.  This is what my friends and I normally say when we speak about the challenges of love and marriage.  Don't get me wrong, it s a BEAUTIFUL thing.  But, you have to be realistic.  There are challenges.  It doesn't matter how hard you try, you and your husband will not always agree.  Those disagreements "can" affect the level of peace you experience every day.   But, it doesn't have to be that way.  Even if you feel like it's impossible for you to experience peace in a bad marriage.  You can experience constant peace.  ...
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