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Get rid of the stress of trying to fix your husband once and for all

Your life will be so much easier, smoother, and better If you stop trying to fix your husband.  I understand you see the greatness inside of him, or you just want him to stop doing some of the foolish things that drive you crazy.  But, there are a couple of things you need to understand.  Especially if he has a victim mentality and doesn't take responsibility for his actions. You can't fix your husband. There are people in this world who are accustomed to being the victim. They're accustomed to letting life happen to them. They're accustomed to playing the ...
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Is this one thing keeping you from experiencing inner healing?

Your heart has been so broken that you are stuck in survival mode.  You're trying to do everything you can to just make it through the day without breaking down.  Just make it through the next day without feeling depressed.  Experiencing inner healing now seems like an impossible dream. Check out this quick video for help, At some point, your self-esteem was shatter and now has you to a point where your self-worth was shattered.    Your husband's indiscretions now make you second guess your value and what life you need to accept for yourself.   You are questioning if you can ...
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How to start your healing process even if you can’t forgive your husband.

Getting past the pain of betrayal can be difficult, and forgiveness can seem impossible, which makes starting your healing process even more unrealistic. You feel locked in an endless well of bitterness, hurt, and blame that's left you feeling untrusting, depressed, and lonely.  Whether you decide to stay in your marriage or not, it is mandatory that you intentionally heal from the emotional, mental, and even spiritual pain you have experienced.  Harboring unforgiveness will cloud your judgment and affect your ability to embrace love fully.   This is why forgiveness is so important when you've been betrayed.  Forgiveness is not about ...
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3 Mistakes You Never Want To Make In Your Marriage.

Marriage can be an amazing experience.  There are natural ups and downs that every couple experiences.  But, how you handle those ups and downs will determine how happy you are in your marriage and if it will eventually end in a divorce. Check out these 3 costly mistakes You Never Want To Make In Your Marriage. Mistake #1: Only praying when you need something. This will never work.  You have a 24/7 direct line to your creator and the answer to every situation you are struggling with.  Don’t treat God like a genie in a bottle.  Your prayer life needs ...
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How to stop allowing others to control the amount of healing, joy, and peace you experience.

You have total control of the amount of healing, joy, and peace you experience daily.  Don't over-complicate this.   Don't give your power away. "They made me mad" and "They aren't making me happy" are signs that you have given too much of your power away.  You put yourself in the position of a victim when you do that.  Plus, you won't be fully satisfied when you put all your hope and trust in your husband.   Yes, you are supposed to experience a certain level of love and peace in your marriage.  But, your husband should never be your source.  You ...
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There are 4 Little-Known Factors That Could Affect Your Anger.

Being angry is not a problem.  Things will happen in marriage will happen that will frustrate you. But you cant let that affect your anger. Life won’t go as planned.  Your spouse may say and do things that drive you crazy.  You will be 100% justified when you become angry.  This isn’t the problem. The problem is what you do while you are angry.  The bible tells us to be angry, but, sin not.  Ephesians 4:26.  So anger is not the problem.  It’s how far we allow our anger to take us.   Now, I do believe we need to be mindful ...
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The shocking truth about a common struggle most ambitious wives secretly have and how you can easily overcome it.

Sometimes ambitious wives have to stop and have a tough conversation with yourself.  Ask yourself the hard question “Am I contributing to the problem?”.  I know you may be tempted to point the finger at your husband.  It’s easy to blame your struggles in your marriage and life on him.  But, sometimes you are the problem.  Don’t check out on my now.  Keep reading.  I promise this will bless you and share my transparent moment. One of my biggest struggles is how ambitious I can be.  I am a ball of fire and always ready to conquer the world.  Plus, ...
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Sis, it’s time for you to get up out of that dark place and really trust God for your healing.

You definitely look the part of someone that has it all together.  Other women look up to you.  Your finances are aligned.  You’re active in ministry.  When we google #WifeGoals, your picture is there.  But, behind closed doors, you are struggling with a pain that is too heavy for you to carry by yourself.   Sis, it’s time for you to get up out of that dark place and really trust God for your healing. I understand where you are.  I was also raised to “never let them see you sweat”.  Regardless of what is going on at home, you ...
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Get rid of disrespect from your husband once and for all.

Being a godly wife does not mean you have to accept disrespect from your husband. There is a difference between honoring God in your marriage and allowing your husband to destroy your life.  No, he is not going to be perfect, but there is acceptable and unacceptable behavior.  Especially if he made the mistake of betraying your vows.  You have to be intentional about making sure your decision to stay is based on your dedication to restoring the marriage. Never stay in a marriage just so you can repay an eye for an eye.  If your husband messed up and ...
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