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3 Mistakes You Never Want To Make In Your Marriage.

Marriage can be an amazing experience.  There are natural ups and downs that every couple experiences.  But, how you handle those ups and downs will determine how happy you are in your marriage and if it will eventually end in a divorce. Check out these 3 costly mistakes You Never Want To Make In Your Marriage. Mistake #1: Only praying when you need something. This will never work.  You have a 24/7 direct line to your creator and the answer to every situation you are struggling with.  Don’t treat God like a genie in a bottle.  Your prayer life needs ...
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How to stop allowing others to control the amount of healing, joy, and peace you experience.

You have total control of the amount of healing, joy, and peace you experience daily.  Don't over-complicate this.   Don't give your power away. "They made me mad" and "They aren't making me happy" are signs that you have given too much of your power away.  You put yourself in the position of a victim when you do that.  Plus, you won't be fully satisfied when you put all your hope and trust in your husband.   Yes, you are supposed to experience a certain level of love and peace in your marriage.  But, your husband should never be your source.  You ...
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There are 4 Little-Known Factors That Could Affect Your Anger.

Being angry is not a problem.  Things will happen in marriage will happen that will frustrate you. But you cant let that affect your anger. Life won’t go as planned.  Your spouse may say and do things that drive you crazy.  You will be 100% justified when you become angry.  This isn’t the problem. The problem is what you do while you are angry.  The bible tells us to be angry, but, sin not.  Ephesians 4:26.  So anger is not the problem.  It’s how far we allow our anger to take us.   Now, I do believe we need to be mindful ...
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The shocking truth about a common struggle most ambitious wives secretly have and how you can easily overcome it.

Sometimes ambitious wives have to stop and have a tough conversation with yourself.  Ask yourself the hard question “Am I contributing to the problem?”.  I know you may be tempted to point the finger at your husband.  It’s easy to blame your struggles in your marriage and life on him.  But, sometimes you are the problem.  Don’t check out on my now.  Keep reading.  I promise this will bless you and share my transparent moment. One of my biggest struggles is how ambitious I can be.  I am a ball of fire and always ready to conquer the world.  Plus, ...
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Sis, it’s time for you to get up out of that dark place and really trust God for your healing.

You definitely look the part of someone that has it all together.  Other women look up to you.  Your finances are aligned.  You’re active in ministry.  When we google #WifeGoals, your picture is there.  But, behind closed doors, you are struggling with a pain that is too heavy for you to carry by yourself.   Sis, it’s time for you to get up out of that dark place and really trust God for your healing. I understand where you are.  I was also raised to “never let them see you sweat”.  Regardless of what is going on at home, you ...
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Get rid of disrespect from your husband once and for all.

Being a godly wife does not mean you have to accept disrespect from your husband. There is a difference between honoring God in your marriage and allowing your husband to destroy your life.  No, he is not going to be perfect, but there is acceptable and unacceptable behavior.  Especially if he made the mistake of betraying your vows.  You have to be intentional about making sure your decision to stay is based on your dedication to restoring the marriage. Never stay in a marriage just so you can repay an eye for an eye.  If your husband messed up and ...
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3 Little-Known Factors That Could Affect Your Faith

God wants you to be strong at times.  There are other times when God wants you to be still and watch him work.  Both of these positions require faith in God.   When you are faced with a challenge in your marriage, that is not the time for you to doubt God.  Trusting God when everything is working well is not hard.   It’s those times when your marriage feels like it is unbearable.  That's when your faith is really challenged.  Before the storm arrives in your marriage, there are a couple of things you should be doing that will ...
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Should you stay in your marriage after your husband has cheated

Should I stay in my marriage after my husband has cheated or slept with someone else?  This is a question I get asked very often.  Finding out your husband has has an affair  on you can be devastating.  Living with betrayal can feel unbearable.  Standing at the crossroad between divorce and trying to make it work will feel impossible.   But, a decision must be made.  Ignoring the problem and acting like nothing has happened is only creating a bigger mess that you will eventually have to deal with later.  Denial will not make the problem go away.  You have to ...
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Daily acts of self-care are mandatory for the mental and emotional health of busy wives.

Life kind of feels like it’s been turned upside down.  Things aren't how they used to be.  You are accustomed to controlling your environment, tackling your hefty to-do list, and solving the problems of everyone around you all while wearing heels and a flawless face.  I get it.  But, what about what's going on inside of you?  A lack of self-care will always lead to an emotional or mental breakdown? But, when is the last time you allowed yourself to just breathe.  When is the last time you disregarded your hefty to-do list and watched the wind blow?  Filling your ...
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