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How to take charge of your emotional healing and start living your best life!

I have coached and mentored wives for the past 15+ years. All this experience has resulted in the development of a profound emotional healing process, called Restorative Boundaries After Infidelity Method, which anyone can learn and use throughout their marriage (free course available – see the resource box at the end of the article). The first step of this process is willingness. You cannot begin a journey without your willingness to do so. Without your willingness to do whatever it takes to heal, you will not begin the journey of healing and embracing love.  Doing whatever it takes means that ...
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How To Easily Affair Proof Your Marriage Without Feeling Overwhelmed!

Marriage is very rarely a match made in heaven, and often requires much more work than many people realize they are getting themselves into. Along with the journey of parenting, marriage is truly one of the bigger challenges in our lives.  Affairs are, unfortunately, one of the biggest reasons for separation and divorce these days. That is why it is a good idea to understand what you can do today to help affair-proof your marriage in the years to come. Sometimes, an affair might have already come between you and your spouse. This does not mean that you cannot take ...
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How to skyrocket your inner healing after the betrayal of infidelity!

In Restored & Confident Wife Life, we are focused on getting you your first quick win of experiencing inner healing. Today, I would like to share a sneak peek into the very first module of the Restored & Confident Wife Life with you... which is experiencing inner healing! As you know, the Restored & Confident Wife Life will help you to skyrocket your confidence, clarity, and inner healing, and the first step to accomplishing that would be to experience inner healing. In the Restored & Confident Wife Life, we use a 3-step process to help you to experience inner healing. We’ve had ...
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How to Rekindle a Marriage After Cheating (Even If This Isn’t His First Affair)

Having a good marriage doesn't come by accident.  Especially after finding out your husband has cheated.  You will not want to be affectionate with your husband at first.  Honestly, it will probably make your skin crawl.  But, after he builds trust in your marriage and you heal from the affair, you will begin to desire your hubby again.  It just takes special attention to rebuild after cheating. Creating a great marriage after cheating is only done with intention.  When you intentionally do things that will bless your marriage, you create a healthy environment where love can continue to grow.  You ...
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Get rid of the stress of trying to fix your husband once and for all

Your life will be so much easier, smoother, and better If you stop trying to fix your husband.  I understand you see the greatness inside of him, or you just want him to stop doing some of the foolish things that drive you crazy.  But, there are a couple of things you need to understand.  Especially if he has a victim mentality and doesn't take responsibility for his actions. You can't fix your husband. There are people in this world who are accustomed to being the victim. They're accustomed to letting life happen to them. They're accustomed to playing the ...
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Is this one thing keeping you from experiencing inner healing?

Your heart has been so broken that you are stuck in survival mode.  You're trying to do everything you can to just make it through the day without breaking down.  Just make it through the next day without feeling depressed.  Experiencing inner healing now seems like an impossible dream. Check out this quick video for help, At some point, your self-esteem was shatter and now has you to a point where your self-worth was shattered.    Your husband's indiscretions now make you second guess your value and what life you need to accept for yourself.   You are questioning if you can ...
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How to start your healing process even if you can’t forgive your husband.

Getting past the pain of betrayal can be difficult, and forgiveness can seem impossible, which makes starting your healing process even more unrealistic. You feel locked in an endless well of bitterness, hurt, and blame that's left you feeling untrusting, depressed, and lonely.  Whether you decide to stay in your marriage or not, it is mandatory that you intentionally heal from the emotional, mental, and even spiritual pain you have experienced.  Harboring unforgiveness will cloud your judgment and affect your ability to embrace love fully.   This is why forgiveness is so important when you've been betrayed.  Forgiveness is not about ...
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3 Mistakes You Never Want To Make In Your Marriage.

Marriage can be an amazing experience.  There are natural ups and downs that every couple experiences.  But, how you handle those ups and downs will determine how happy you are in your marriage and if it will eventually end in a divorce. Check out these 3 costly mistakes You Never Want To Make In Your Marriage. Mistake #1: Only praying when you need something. This will never work.  You have a 24/7 direct line to your creator and the answer to every situation you are struggling with.  Don’t treat God like a genie in a bottle.  Your prayer life needs ...
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How to control the amount of healing, joy, and peace you experience.

You have total control of the amount of healing, joy, and peace you experience daily.  Don't over-complicate this.   Don't give your power away. "They made me mad" and "They aren't making me happy" are signs that you have given too much of your power away.  You put yourself in the position of a victim when you do that.  Plus, you won't be fully satisfied when you put all your hope and trust in your husband.   Yes, you are supposed to experience a certain level of love and peace in your marriage.  But, your husband should never be your source.  You ...
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