Healed To Love

A 90 Day Mentorship For Wives Who Are Ready To Heal From Heartache They Have Experienced In Marriage So They Can Fully Experience The Love They Deserve.

Explode your life with the LOVE & JOY God has ordained for you.

I understand exactly where you are Sis!

Healed To Love is for you if:

  • You want to stay married, but, you can’t seem to overcome your husband’s mistakes that have broken your heart.

  • His infidelity now has you feeling insecure or questioning your self worth and you are ready to break free from doubting yourself.

  • Sometimes anger and frustration control your emotions causing you to say or do things you later regret.

  • You need to safeguard your marriage so negative behaviors no longer occur and outsiders no longer overstep boundaries.

  • You may also realize the walls of protection you’ve placed around your heart are also keeping you from enjoying your marriage, so, you are ready to mentally and emotionally break free.

  • You feel like you’re pulling teeth trying to get your husband to understand how you feel.

And that's exactly why you are going to love Healed To Love!

This 90-day mentorship is dedicated to the mental and emotional well being of wives that have experienced trauma due to neglect, manipulation, disrespect, or lies in relationships.

Gain access to this prolific mentorship designed to guide you into self-awareness that allows you to show up at your highest level.

We will discuss topics like:

  • Proven strategies to assess your relationship and determine if it’s still worth fighting for.

  • The groundbreaking blueprint that accelerates your healing process faster than ever.

  • Powerful steps that will create ongoing healing and restoration in your life & marriage.

  • Transformative mindset shifts used to remove the pain of unforgiveness and anxiety.

  • Uncover actionable steps that safeguard your emotions so that you are constantly experiencing peace

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This transformational mentorship has helped women heal from emotional baggage, rebuild their self-esteem, and use their voice to powerfully transform their lives.

Now It's Your Turn!

After completing Healed To Love 90 Day Mentorship you'll be able to:

  • Overcome painful memories while becoming mentally and emotionally stronger

  • Identify and heal your toxic relationship patterns

  • Heal from childhood trauma and toxic relationships.

  • Eliminate the constant mental and emotional baggage and learn to walk in healing.

  • Stop the ongoing cycle of anger and resentment that has been building up.

  • Manifest the best in your life and experience constant joy.

  • Command respect and devotion from your husband.

  • Consistently release bitterness, and resentment that is affecting your health and marriage.



Healed To Love Mentorship gives you the tools to heal from mental and emotional baggage while drastically transforming your mindset so that you can breakthrough barriers you are experiencing in your life.

Join an amazing community of like-minded wives you can connect within our private Healing To Love facebook group. You will be able to receive the support and accountability of these members for years!


The 90 day intensive provides a distinctive combination of spiritual practices and powerful resources that give you an actionable blueprint to heal from mental and emotional strongholds.

$3,500 in bonuses that will support you as you take the course which includes 21 video training, 4 ebooks, 3 guides, 1 expectation & marriage assessment.


You will have lifetime access to the course and content, making it easy for you to return to the lessons anytime and reinforce your learning. Plus, content is continually updated to align with developing issues of wives.

While this program is 100% online, you can participate in all 1:1 coaching sessions from anywhere, anytime. You'll continually receive a clear, easy plan to apply each lesson into your life and marriage.

Benefits of the Healed To Love 90 Day Mentorship

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Curriculum Breakdown

Module #1

Connecting with God!

  • How how to fully heal from heartache you have experienced in your marriage.  

  • Rebuilding your trust in God and being honest about how you feel with him.

  • Walking in constant peace and joy regardless of what life is throwing at you.

  • Building your foundational and biblical truths that will stabilize your emotions.

  • How to overcome depression and the fear of divorce.

Module #2

Healing From Heartache!

  • Baggage and underlying triggers that affect your emotional well being.

  • Releasing the memories and emotional trauma of what was done to you.

  • Anger management and how to keep your emotions from controlling your daily life.

  • Overcoming fear and anxiety so that you are no longer scared of what could happen next.

  • How to overcome depression and the fear of divorce.

  • Identify unresolved emotional baggage and remove mental obstacles.

Module #3

Loving Yourself!

  • Offering yourself grace during this transition because you’ve experienced a lot. 

  • Selfcare and how to properly show love to yourself while remaining positioned for greatness.

  • Creating safe boundaries in your marriage that align with your expectations of how you deserve to be loved.

  • Mindset & Empowerment strategies you will use to manifest the best in your life continually.

  • Embracing and forgiving yourself so you can reinforce your continual healing.

This program is not for you if:
  • You still want to point the finger at everyone else as the reason why you are hurting.

  • You want to continue playing the victim because it gets your attention.

  • You believe you already know everything and have tried it all.

  • You think you already know everything about God and don’t need to cultivate your relationship with him.  

  • You are not a problem solver and want all answers to be spoon-fed to you.  

  • You do not believe in investing in your growth and healing.

  • You like to procrastinate and not give 100% effort to your goals.

  • You resist change and being challenged to step up.


Fast Action Bonus #1

The Healing & Rebuilding Trust Course

Gain access to a breakthrough digital training that will guide you through the 5 major concepts every wife needs to consider after she has learned her husband cheated.

We will discuss topics like:

  • Discover proven strategies to assess your relationship and determine if it’s still worth fighting for.

  • Actions that are mandatory in order to start the healing of your marriage.

  • Powerful steps that will create ongoing healing and restoration in your marriage.

  • Transformative mindset shifts use to remove the pain of forgiveness and reconciliation.

  • Uncover actionable steps that encourage him to take ownership of his offense and putting in the work needed to heal your marriage.

(Valued at $497)

Frequently asked questions.

Here are more details:

  1. We will have virtual 1:1 Coaching Sessions once a week.  During these sessions I will breakdown a life-changing strategy you will implement to transform your life.  We will wrap up with a Q&A session regarding the strategy or any topic related questions you may have.  All sessions are recorded and placed inside your Healed To Love Resource Center.

  2. Access me via private platform for your daily accountability, check-ins, and impromptu lessons.

  3. You will also receive bonus access to my course Healing & Rebuilding Relationships.

When are the sessions?

You will be able to schedule your weekly sessions for any day of the week that is convenient for you.  (Available days are Monday – Friday)  

How will I attend the session?

The sessions will be conducted via zoom.   

What if I am unable to attend a session?

Recordings of all sessions will be posted within your training platform with all your course content.  You can review the videos at your leisure. 

What is the format of each coaching session?

We will review your homework assignments and work on any problems you are currently struggling with in your marriage.  I will give you strategies to implement based on your personality and situation.  

Healed To Love is definitely for you if:

  • You are ready to walk in the power that God has already placed inside of you.

  • You are ready to break free from the weights you have been carrying.

  • You know you are destined for greatness.

  • You know you are a good woman and bring a lot to the table.

  • You accept that you may have unresolved baggage that is also affecting your marriage.

  • You are ready to put in the work to get the breakthrough you’ve been praying for.

  • You are ready to be held accountable for taking the steps to achieve your goals.  

  • You are ready to connect with other women on the same path as you.

  • You are open to learning new strategies and implementing them into your life.

  • You are ready to change from the inside out and be challenged in a way that will help you grow.

If you’ve been thinking about, crying about, frustrated

because of what you experienced in your marriage

then Healed To Love Mentorship is for you.

It is time for you to stop fighting like a victim and let me show you how to use the power that God has already placed inside of you to heal and restore your marriage!
Healed To Love is a 90-day high-end mentorship for serious women that are tired of struggling with the memories of past trauma and are ready to experience a long-lasting change in their life and marriage!

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Why I created the Healed To Love 90 Day Mentorship?

I was tired of yelling. My blood pressure was high. My hair was falling out. I was stressed. I had to figure out how to stay married and STOP the endless cycle I as experiencing without yelling until I felt like I was going to have a stroke. These issues we were having would either have us living like roommates or filing for divorce. I had to learn how to come up with solutions to my problems and stop this never-ending cycle of pain.

That’s when I got serious about healing from the heartache I had experienced without feeling like I was letting go of my feminine power. I read books, got a mentor, and most importantly, I allowed God to give me a specific strategy that would help me get to the root of my issues without emotionally shutting down or me popping off.


I was finally able to have tough conversations without them spiraling out of control. I focused on getting to the root of my problem without attacking everyone. I learned how to control my anger and not pop off because I wasn’t getting the answers I wanted. Experiencing constant peace became a part of my daily routine. Sarcasm and hitting below the belt is now a thing of the past.

I finally healed from past trauma and emotional abuse I've experienced from past relationships. Childhood trauma and neglect no longer affected how gave and received love from my husband.

I became emotionally and mentally stronger so that I could handle stressful situations better. I also learned the real secret to silence and it had NOTHING to do with the silent treatment we normally give men.

I’ve perfected this system over the years and began to teach it to other strong, independent wives that were struggling with heartache they have experienced in their marriage. I showed them how making a couple of tweaks could drastically transform the level of peace you experience on a daily basis.

I am determined to help wives totally transform their life and marriage by finally mastering the art of healing from heartache and living a life of joy.

Stay Blessed Sis!

Arrettres Hollins

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Hey Sis!

I’m Arrettres Hollins, the founder of Connecting Love And Marriage and Balanced Wife Life Academy.  Over the years I’ve been labeled as a woman of influence that wears many hats.  I am a certified teacher, speaker, and faith-based relationship consultant.   As a wife, mother, and daughter of the King,  I use my gifts to inspire and encourage women to grow spiritually, practice self-care, and build a marriage you adore!    Yes, YOU can experience Endless Love AND Marriage with your hubby.   

I am practical and real.  No fluffy cliques or fillers over here.  You will always get modern solutions to your problems mixed with foundational truth.  It isn’t an accident that you have arrived on this page and connected with me.  My goal is to help you transform your life & marriage.  You will be AMAZED by what God will do in your marriage when you take the pressure and stress off of you and allow him to do the heavy lifting. 

After hanging with me, you will annihilate the obstacles that are standing between you and living the life of your dreams.   I’ve been called to help you unlock the power that God has already placed inside of you.    I’ve been helping wives achieve endless love for over 15 years, and believe even YOU can experience constant joy in your marriage.

Please know that I am praying for you, your marriage, and your husband.  I believe in YOUR MARRIAGE and what God is about to do for you!

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