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There are 4 Little-Known Factors That Could Affect Your Anger.

Being angry is not a problem.  Things will happen in marriage will happen that will frustrate you. But you cant let that affect your anger. Life won’t go as planned.  Your spouse may say and do things that drive you crazy.  You will be 100% justified when you become angry.  This isn’t the problem. The problem is what you do while you are angry.  The bible tells us to be angry, but, sin not.  Ephesians 4:26.  So anger is not the problem.  It’s how far we allow our anger to take us.   Now, I do believe we need to be mindful ...
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The shocking truth about a common struggle most ambitious wives secretly have and how you can easily overcome it.

Sometimes ambitious wives have to stop and have a tough conversation with yourself.  Ask yourself the hard question “Am I contributing to the problem?”.  I know you may be tempted to point the finger at your husband.  It’s easy to blame your struggles in your marriage and life on him.  But, sometimes you are the problem.  Don’t check out on my now.  Keep reading.  I promise this will bless you and share my transparent moment. One of my biggest struggles is how ambitious I can be.  I am a ball of fire and always ready to conquer the world.  Plus, ...
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Get rid of disrespect from your husband once and for all.

Being a godly wife does not mean you have to accept disrespect from your husband. There is a difference between honoring God in your marriage and allowing your husband to destroy your life.  No, he is not going to be perfect, but there is acceptable and unacceptable behavior.  Especially if he made the mistake of betraying your vows.  You have to be intentional about making sure your decision to stay is based on your dedication to restoring the marriage. Never stay in a marriage just so you can repay an eye for an eye.  If your husband messed up and ...
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3 Little-Known Factors That Could Affect Your Faith

God wants you to be strong at times.  There are other times when God wants you to be still and watch him work.  Both of these positions require faith in God.   When you are faced with a challenge in your marriage, that is not the time for you to doubt God.  Trusting God when everything is working well is not hard.   It’s those times when your marriage feels like it is unbearable.  That's when your faith is really challenged.  Before the storm arrives in your marriage, there are a couple of things you should be doing that will ...
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How to control your anger when your hubby has gotten on your last nerve

Being angry is not a problem.  Things will happen in a marriage that will frustrate you.  Life won’t go as planned.  Your spouse may say and do things that drive you crazy.  You will be 100% justified when you become angry.  This isn’t the problem. The problem is what you do while you are angry.  The bible tells us to be angry, but, sin not.  Ephesians 4:26.  So anger is not the problem.  It’s how far we allow our anger to take us.   Now, I do believe we need to be mindful of what we are allowing ourselves to get ...
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Stop saying you are married for better or worse if you’re only committed to staying during the good times.

Yes, I said it.  Stop telling people that you got married for better or worse when you really have no intention of staying when things get worse.  In actuality, you will stay until you get tired of not getting things your way. This message is not for women that are being abused.  If you are being abused,  you need to get out and get help.  Your physical safety is your priority and you were not designed to be someone’s punching bag.  This also isn’t for you if your husband is a repeat cheater.  That’s an entire message that I can’t ...
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Never allow anger to fuel your reaction to your husband.

​Anger can’t always be your go-to emotion.  This can't be your first reaction every time something bothers you in your marriage?  You’ve got to get a grip on this emotion and how you show it.   Never allow your anger to fuel your reaction to your husband. This isn’t healthy for yourself or your marriage.  This creates a stressful environment that could place a wedge between you and your hubby.   Instead of reacting, STOP & PRAY.  Ask God for his guidance and wisdom regarding what he wants you to DO regarding this situation.    There will be times when God will ask you to speak ...
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Hard Lessons I Learned As a Headstrong Wife

After years of being a wife, I would say that I've learned many difficult lessons the hard and a painful way. If you want to have a successful marriage, you will need to learn these lessons at some point in your journey, so let me save you some time, heartache, and money! After all, I want my hindsight to be your path forward. Here are some of the hardest lessons I had to learn: Lesson 1 - My way is not always the best way. I tend to be very analytical. Before I open my mouth with a solution to a ...
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Don’t confuse being your husband’s helpmate with being your husband’s God.

If you are carrying the load and responsibility of "helping" your husband grow in God and be a better person, you are doing too much. How do you know when you are doing too much?  When the burden is weighing you down. If you are consumed, frustrated and no longer seeking God to do the work in your husband, then you may have drifted into trying to "fix your husband". Here are a couple of signs that you may be at risk: You have given your husband a timeline for his spiritual growth. You are more focused on his lack ...
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