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How to take charge of your emotional healing and start living your best life!

I have coached and mentored wives for the past 15+ years. All this experience has resulted in the development of a profound emotional healing process, called Restorative Boundaries After Infidelity Method, which anyone can learn and use throughout their marriage (free course available – see the resource box at the end of the article). The first step of this process is willingness. You cannot begin a journey without your willingness to do so. Without your willingness to do whatever it takes to heal, you will not begin the journey of healing and embracing love.  Doing whatever it takes means that ...
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How To Easily Affair Proof Your Marriage Without Feeling Overwhelmed!

Marriage is very rarely a match made in heaven, and often requires much more work than many people realize they are getting themselves into. Along with the journey of parenting, marriage is truly one of the bigger challenges in our lives.  Affairs are, unfortunately, one of the biggest reasons for separation and divorce these days. That is why it is a good idea to understand what you can do today to help affair-proof your marriage in the years to come. Sometimes, an affair might have already come between you and your spouse. This does not mean that you cannot take ...
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Get rid of the stress of trying to fix your husband once and for all

Your life will be so much easier, smoother, and better If you stop trying to fix your husband.  I understand you see the greatness inside of him, or you just want him to stop doing some of the foolish things that drive you crazy.  But, there are a couple of things you need to understand.  Especially if he has a victim mentality and doesn't take responsibility for his actions. You can't fix your husband. There are people in this world who are accustomed to being the victim. They're accustomed to letting life happen to them. They're accustomed to playing the ...
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There are 4 Little-Known Factors That Could Affect Your Anger.

Being angry is not a problem.  Things will happen in marriage will happen that will frustrate you. But you cant let that affect your anger. Life won’t go as planned.  Your spouse may say and do things that drive you crazy.  You will be 100% justified when you become angry.  This isn’t the problem. The problem is what you do while you are angry.  The bible tells us to be angry, but, sin not.  Ephesians 4:26.  So anger is not the problem.  It’s how far we allow our anger to take us.   Now, I do believe we need to be mindful ...
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The shocking truth about a common struggle most ambitious wives secretly have and how you can easily overcome it.

Sometimes ambitious wives have to stop and have a tough conversation with yourself.  Ask yourself the hard question “Am I contributing to the problem?”.  I know you may be tempted to point the finger at your husband.  It’s easy to blame your struggles in your marriage and life on him.  But, sometimes you are the problem.  Don’t check out on my now.  Keep reading.  I promise this will bless you and share my transparent moment. One of my biggest struggles is how ambitious I can be.  I am a ball of fire and always ready to conquer the world.  Plus, ...
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Get rid of disrespect from your husband once and for all.

Being a godly wife does not mean you have to accept disrespect from your husband. There is a difference between honoring God in your marriage and allowing your husband to destroy your life.  No, he is not going to be perfect, but there is acceptable and unacceptable behavior.  Especially if he made the mistake of betraying your vows.  You have to be intentional about making sure your decision to stay is based on your dedication to restoring the marriage. Never stay in a marriage just so you can repay an eye for an eye.  If your husband messed up and ...
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3 Little-Known Factors That Could Affect Your Faith

God wants you to be strong at times.  There are other times when God wants you to be still and watch him work.  Both of these positions require faith in God.   When you are faced with a challenge in your marriage, that is not the time for you to doubt God.  Trusting God when everything is working well is not hard.   It’s those times when your marriage feels like it is unbearable.  That's when your faith is really challenged.  Before the storm arrives in your marriage, there are a couple of things you should be doing that will ...
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How to control your anger when your hubby has gotten on your last nerve

Being angry is not a problem.  Things will happen in a marriage that will frustrate you.  Life won’t go as planned.  Your spouse may say and do things that drive you crazy.  You will be 100% justified when you become angry.  This isn’t the problem. The problem is what you do while you are angry.  The bible tells us to be angry, but, sin not.  Ephesians 4:26.  So anger is not the problem.  It’s how far we allow our anger to take us.   Now, I do believe we need to be mindful of what we are allowing ourselves to get ...
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Stop saying you are married for better or worse if you’re only committed to staying during the good times.

Yes, I said it.  Stop telling people that you got married for better or worse when you really have no intention of staying when things get worse.  In actuality, you will stay until you get tired of not getting things your way. This message is not for women that are being abused.  If you are being abused,  you need to get out and get help.  Your physical safety is your priority and you were not designed to be someone’s punching bag.  This also isn’t for you if your husband is a repeat cheater.  That’s an entire message that I can’t ...
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