Welcome, Sis!

to the BEST Wife Intensive program, you'll ever need to boldly transform your ENTIRE life and marriage!

by the creator of

The Restorative Boundaries After Infidelity Method!


  • A wife who’s spent tough weeks, months, or years trying to rebuild yourself & you can’t quite put the pieces together

  • A wife that’s struggling to get off the emotional & mental roller coaster.

  • An ambitious wife who’s ready to step out of her comfort zone and is willing to invest to “skip the line” and accelerate restoring her marriage.

  • An independent wife with a strong personality in the corporate world that’s ready to gracefully use her power to transform her homelife.

If so, then I want you to image the following...

  • You have completely healed from your husband’s infidelity and your marriage is restored!

  • You are proud of your growth and show up daily as your best version of yourself.

  • You experience constant peace DAILY!

  • Your joy is positively impacting and changing the lives of everyone in your household.

  • Your clarity empowers you to easily make decisions for your life and marriage.

  • You have MASTERED controlling your thoughts and emotions.

  • You feel loved, worthy, and restored as you are showered with love the way God truly intended for you.

  • You enjoy your marriage and the love you’ve created in your home.

And that's exactly what will happen when you enroll in the ....

Restored & Confident Society!

This 12-month intensive is dedicated to the mental and emotional well-being of wives that have experienced trauma due to the husband's infidelity.

Explode your life with the LOVE & JOY God has ordained for you.
Have you already submitted your application and are ready to enroll today? Text us right now @ 940-268-5732 to get started.
Having a lady such as Arrettres come into my life to help guide me in the right direction, helped to build my confidence within myself, and to never give up on the gifts that were within me all along. I really thank God that I came into connection with her. She has given me great insight on how to go about not only being a successful wife, but, also how to balance being a mother, student, and woman of faith. I have accomplished so much within the year and I know I needed that support and guidance from her.
Arrettres is simply amazing!
Dee Marlow

Gain access to this prolific intensive designed to guide you into self-awareness that allows you to show up at your highest level.

You will receive:

  • Proven strategies to assess your relationship and determine if it’s still worth fighting for.

  • The groundbreaking blueprint that accelerates your healing process faster than ever.

  • Powerful steps that will create ongoing healing and restoration in your life & marriage.

  • Transformative mindset shifts used to remove the pain of unforgiveness and anxiety.

  • Uncover actionable steps that safeguard your emotions so that you are constantly experiencing peace

This transformational intensive has helped women heal from emotional baggage, rebuild their self-esteem, and use their voice to powerfully transform their marriage.

Now It's Your Turn!

Restored & Confident Society at a glance and why you should join!


Restored & Confident Society gives you the tools to heal from mental and emotional baggage while drastically transforming your mindset so that you can break through barriers you are experiencing in your life.

Join an amazing community of like-minded wives you can connect with within our private Restored & Confident Society community. You will be able to receive the support and accountability of these members for years!


The 12-month intensive provides a distinctive combination of spiritual practices and powerful resources that give you an actionable blueprint to heal from mental and emotional strongholds.

$3,500 in bonuses that will support you as you take the course which includes 21 video training, 4 ebooks, 3 guides, 1 expectation & marriage assessments.


You will have access to the course and content throughout your enrollment at the Intensive, making it easy for you to return to the lessons anytime and reinforce your learning. Plus, content is continually updated to align with developing issues of wives.

While this program is 100% online, you can participate in all weekly coaching sessions from anywhere, anytime. You'll continually receive a clear, easy plan to apply each lesson to your life and marriage.

My goodness, Restored & Confident Society I changed my perspective. I've been more googly-eyed about him. Plus he's been more intentional about leading our family well. THANK YOU, FATHER!!!❤️
The amount of peace I've been experiencing is amazing. I'm no longer triggered and the memories no longer affect me. I feel completely whole. My confidence has increased so much that it's made my husband step up his game and treat me like a queen.
Thank you so much Arrettres!
Stacy Patterson
"My husband and I were struggling with connecting. Communicating felt impossible and the romance died years ago. After using the strategies Arrettres covered in this program, things began to flow so much easier. I began to own my voice and communicate more effectively with my husband. He recently said he appreciated how I was speaking my mind and being clear with my requests. It makes it easier for him to show me love with MY love language. I totally see the difference in our relationship."
Madeline Russel

Curriculum Breakdown

Inner Healing

  • How to fully heal from heartache you have experienced in your marriage.  

  • Rebuilding your trust in God and being honest about how you feel with him.

  • Walking in constant peace and joy regardless of what life is throwing at you.

  • Building your foundational and biblical truths that will stabilize your emotions.

  • How to overcome depression and the fear of divorce.

Mental Health & Mindset

  • Releasing the memories and emotional trauma of what was done to you.

  • Anger management and how to keep your emotions from controlling your daily life.

  • Overcoming fear and anxiety so that you are no longer scared of what could happen next.

  • Become the kingdom women you were created to be.

  • Identify unresolved emotional baggage and remove mental obstacles.

Self Care

  • How to fully heal from heartache you have experienced in your marriage.  

  • Rebuilding your trust in God and being honest about how you feel with him.

  • Walking in constant peace and joy regardless of what life is throwing at you.

  • Building your foundational and biblical truths that will stabilize your emotions.

  • How to overcome depression and the fear of divorce.

Creating Boundaries!

  • Learn better communication skills and heal from past hurt. 

  • How to get out of your own way and fully enjoy your marriage.

  • Creating safe boundaries in your marriage that align with your expectations of how you deserve to be loved.

  • Mindset & Empowerment strategies to remove all insecurities you now have due to the affair.

  • Baggage and underlying triggers that affect your emotional well-being.

  • How to respond in love instead of reacting in anger.

What others are saying about The Restored & Confident Society!
R&C Society provided clarity and helped me figure out what I want to do and how to get exactly what I want. I learned the exact words to say so that my husband understood what I was feeling. This was especially helpful as I was trying to do the work needed to successfully confront our problems.
The weekly live coaching calls gave me the support I needed! The ongoing content delivered every single week provided EASY to implement strategies to heal and have tough conversations with my husband.
Tabitha Books
I felt completely broken and humiliated before I enrolled in Restored & Confident Society. I kept rehearsing my husband's affair over and over again in my head. I was consumed by constant pain and confusion because I still wanted my marriage to work.
It was really great to have someone with so much experience so easily available to provide support and CONCRETE suggestions and strategies that aligned with my strong personality.
Working with Arrettres helped me so much. I was able to let go of the assumptions of others and clearly do what I felt was best for me and my family. My marriage has been restored. God is good!
Maria Taylor
Restored & Confident Society changed my life! I couldn't believe how much healing occurred within the first week of me receiving access to the lessons included with the mentorship.
Each coaching call made me feel empowered. The strategies Arrettres gave me were practical and easy to implement.
I was finally able to experience clarity and make tough decisions about my marriage. I feel like I am now in control of my life.
When I talked through different situations, the re-enforcement that Arrettres provided empowered and strengthen me. She confirmed that I didn't have to allow my husband to take advantage of me. I learned to be bold and get my point across in a way that also honored God.
Angela McDavid
I know you can’t predict what will happen, but, Arrettres using her expertise to tell me what she saw happening in my husband's actions and words helped me to see things better. I had to get out of the way so that I could see the bigger picture clearly. My marriage is restored!
I received tools to deal with my husband and even phrases to say which helped me deliver what I needed to say in a way that he really heard me.
I appreciated the listening aspect of this coaching. Arrettres is very good at reiterating and more clearly revealing what is going on in my life. I found it most helpful when Arrettres would offer her insight on the situation and how to quickly fix our problems.
Brittney Oyama
It is time for you to stop fighting like a victim and let me show you how to use the power that God has already placed inside of you to heal and restore your marriage!
Have you already submitted your application and are ready to enroll today? Text us right now @ 940-268-5732 to get started.
This program is not for you if:
  • You still want to point the finger at everyone else as the reason why you are hurting.

  • You want to continue playing the victim because it gets your attention.

  • You believe you already know everything and have tried it all.

  • You think you already know everything about God and don’t need to cultivate your relationship with him.  

  • You are not a problem solver and want all answers to be spoon-fed to you.  

  • You do not believe in investing in your growth and healing.

  • You like to procrastinate and not give 100% effort to your goals.

  • You resist change and being challenged to step up.


Fast Action Bonus #1

(Valued at $997)

The Healing & Rebuilding Trust Course

Gain access to a breakthrough digital training that will guide you through the 5 major concepts every wife needs to consider after she has learned her husband cheated.

We will discuss topics like:

  • Discover proven strategies to assess your relationship and determine if it’s still worth fighting for.

  • Actions that are mandatory in order to start the healing of your marriage.

  • Powerful steps that will create ongoing healing and restoration in your marriage.

  • Transformative mindset shifts use to remove the pain of forgiveness and reconciliation.

  • Uncover actionable steps that encourage him to take ownership of his offense and putting in the work needed to heal your marriage.

Frequently asked questions.

Here are more details:

  1. We will have weekly virtual group coaching sessions for 12 months.  During these sessions I will breakdown a life-changing strategy you will implement to transform your life.  We will wrap up with a Q&A session regarding the strategy or any topic-related questions you may have.  All sessions are recorded and placed inside your Restored & Confident Society Resource Center.

  2. Access me via the private platform for your daily accountability, check-ins, and impromptu lessons.

  3. You will also receive bonus access to my course Healing & Rebuilding Relationships.

  4. BONUS – Exclusive access to the Sisters Inner Circle live Coaching sessions on the 4th Wednesday of each month.

Q – When are the sessions?

A – Sessions will be held every Monday evening at 6 pm CST.

Q – How will I attend the session?

A – The sessions will be conducted via zoom.

Q – What if I am unable to attend a session?

A – Recordings of all sessions will be posted within your training platform with all your course content.  You can review the videos at your leisure.

Q – What is the format of each coaching session?

A -We will review your homework assignments and work on any problems you are currently struggling with within your marriage.  I will give you strategies to implement based on your personality and situation.

Restored & Confident Society WORKS!!
I became able to take the emotion out of our arguments so that I could get my point across more effectively.
I created healthy boundaries that protect me and my marriage from future issues. I found my voice and was able to hold my husband accountable for his actions.
This program showed me how to get out of God's way and allow him to do what needed to be done in my husband. I learned how to get out of my own way and trust God. I still can't believe the change that I now see in my husband. I'm only halfway through the program and my husband and I have decided to tear up the divorce papers and keep working on our marriage. PRAISE GOD!
Yolanda Wagner
I gained my emotional & mental strength. I was able to make clear decisions about the next steps in my marriage without any regrets.
The coaching confirmed and validated my feelings. The relief of being able to discuss the situation with a professional in a nonjudgmental atmosphere was a blessing!
Lauren Michel
I had so many unanswered questions.
Was I dealing with a serial cheater?
Is he a repeat offender?
Will he cheat again?
Does he really want to be with me?
Does he even know what he wants?
I was so confused.
The weekly empowerment lessened the pain I was experiencing. Support from someone who understood what I was feeling, her availability, and the great resources Arrettres provided gave me the clarity I needed.
After the live strategy sessions, I got all of the answers I needed. Arrettres showed me how to get clear about the questions I wanted to ask, and how to trust my gut when the answers come. The clarity I now have is amazing!
Amber Bailey

Restored & Confident Society is definitely for you if:

  • You are ready to walk in the power that God has already placed inside of you.

  • You are ready to break free from the pain you have been carrying.

  • You know you are destined for greatness.

  • You know you are a good woman and bring a lot to the table.

  • You accept that you may have unresolved baggage that is also affecting your marriage.

  • You are ready to put in the work to get the breakthrough you’ve been praying for.

  • You are ready to be held accountable for taking the steps to achieve your goals.  

  • You are ready to stop feeling alone and are ready to connect with other women on the same healing path as you.

  • You are open to learning new strategies and implementing them into your life.

  • You are ready to change from the inside out and be challenged in a way that will help you grow.

If you’ve been thinking about, crying about, frustrated

because of what you experienced in your marriage

then Restored & Confident Society is for you.

More Success Stories about The Restored & Confident Society
One benefit that I didn’t expect was the anticipation of my coaching sessions. It felt like the days between could now be handled because of what I had learned. It also gave me something to look forward to.
I was able to stay more focused. There were issues I really wanted to discuss with my husband, but couldn’t. However, I could bring them up during coaching sessions, and Arrettres would always help me say what was on my heart in a way that my husband would receive it.
Madison Bryant
I became more empowered! The strategies I learned showed me how to get my point across without resorting to yelling and cursing. My approach with my husband became less confrontational. I no longer felt guilty when we finished talking.
It was good to share my feelings and thoughts in a safe environment. Most important to me was the “feeling” that I was being supported by an expert in the field.
The Restored & Confident Society changed my life!
Nicole Dwyer

After you enroll in the Restored & Confident Society, you will be able to....

  • Overcome painful memories while becoming mentally and emotionally stronger

  • Identify and heal your toxic relationship patterns

  • Heal from childhood trauma and toxic relationships.

  • Eliminate the constant mental and emotional baggage and learn to walk in healing.

  • Stop the ongoing cycle of anger and resentment that has been building up.

  • Manifest the best in your life and experience constant joy.

  • Command respect and devotion from your husband without speaking to him like he is a child.

  • Release bitterness, and resentment you have towards him and his behavior.

Have you heard enough yet?

*** Enrollment is Limited and Will Sell Out Quickly! Enroll Today! ***

Have you already submitted your application and are ready to enroll today? Text us right now @ 940-268-5732 to get started.

Hey Sis!

I’m Arrettres Hollins, the founder of Healed To Love and the Restored & Confident University.  Over the years I’ve been labeled as a woman of influence that wears many hats.  I am a certified teacher, speaker, and faith-based relationship consultant.   As a wife, mother, and daughter of the King,  I use my gifts to inspire and encourage women to grow spiritually, practice self-care, and build a marriage you adore!    Yes, YOU can experience Endless Love AND Marriage with your hubby.   

I am practical and real.  No fluffy cliques or fillers over here.  You will always get modern solutions to your problems mixed with foundational truth.  It isn’t an accident that you have arrived on this page and connected with me.  My goal is to help you transform your life & marriage.  You will be AMAZED by what God will do in your marriage when you take the pressure and stress off of you and allow him to do the heavy lifting. 

After hanging with me, you will annihilate the obstacles that are standing between you and living the life of your dreams.   I’ve been called to help you unlock the power that God has already placed inside of you.    I’ve been helping wives achieve endless love for over 15 years, and believe even YOU can experience constant joy in your marriage.

Please know that I am praying for you, your marriage, and your husband.  I believe in YOUR MARRIAGE and what God is about to do for you!

Grab this exclusive rate and invest in your marriage today!

Remember....you need to act quickly because spots always fill up quickly when this offer is made.

Email connectingloveandmarriage@gmail.com with questions

Have you already submitted your application and are ready to enroll today? Text us right now @ 940-268-5732 to get started.