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Isaiah 54:17 No weapon formed against you shall pr

Isaiah 54:17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper. And every tongue which rises against you in judgment, you shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and their righteousness is from ME.” Says the Lord.
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Weapons will come, but, victory remains yours.
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🌟 Hey Sis! Join me at the Reclaim Your Peace -

🌟 Hey Sis!

Join me at the Reclaim Your Peace - Virtual Summit where you'll unlock some seriously powerful strategies to safeguard your emotions and experience constant peace. 🎁✨

Ready to create a lifestyle filled with peace, happiness, joy, and love, effortlessly? This summit has got you covered! ✨

Discover a groundbreaking blueprint that will supercharge your healing process and make sure you never feel alone on your journey to restoration. 🙌💕

And guess what? We'll equip you with some seriously powerful steps that bring consistency and accountability into your life, protecting you from future pain. It's your time to take control and confidently embrace love that transforms. ❤️

But that's not all! Get ready for some mind-blowing mindset shifts. Say goodbye to the emotional and mental roller coaster, and get back to dreaming and building a life you absolutely adore. ✨

I understand you're ready to let go of the pain from the past and experience constant peace, especially during tough times in your marriage.💔

🎟️ So, don't miss out! Grab your complimentary tickets for our "Reclaim Your Peace" virtual summit and get ready to transform your life and marriage. The blueprint for an incredible transformation is just a DM away! 💌

DM the word WORKSHOP to receive the link for your complimentary tickets. Can't wait to see you there!

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What are boundaries in marriage? Grab a complimen

What are boundaries in marriage?

Grab a complimentary copy of my ebook "Confidence & Endless Love After Infidelity"

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Stay blessed Sis❤️

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Hey Sis! 😊 Are you ready to do the work and fi

Hey Sis! 😊

Are you ready to do the work and finally experience constant peace during those tough seasons of marriage?

Well, hold onto your virtual seats because we've got something special for you! Our "Reclaim Your Peace" virtual summit is just around the corner, and we're giving away complimentary tickets! 🎫✨

Join us for this incredible event where you'll receive the exact blueprint to transform your life and marriage, all from the comfort of your own couch!

Don't miss out on this amazing opportunity! ✨

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It doesn't matter what you are struggling with in

It doesn't matter what you are struggling with in your marriage. It isn't too hard for God. God's Got This!
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Hey Sis! 🌟 Are you ready to reclaim your peace

Hey Sis! 🌟

Are you ready to reclaim your peace and transform your life? Join me at the "Reclaim Your Peace" Virtual Summit, where we'll uncover actionable steps to safeguard your emotions and experience constant peace. 🙌

💖 Say goodbye to that emotional roller coaster!

At this summit, you'll also discover a groundbreaking blueprint that accelerates your healing process like never before. You won't have to go through this journey alone anymore. We're in this together. 🤝✨

But that's not all! You'll gain a clear understanding of powerful steps to create consistency and accountability, protecting yourself from future pain. It's time to take control of your life and feel comfortable giving and receiving love in a transformative way. ❤️💪

And guess what? We're going to dive deep into mindset shifts that will remove that emotional and mental roller coaster you've been on. It's time to start dreaming and building the life you truly adore. 😊

I know you're ready to release the pain and find peace, especially during tough seasons of marriage. That's why I want you to grab your complimentary tickets for our "Reclaim Your Peace" virtual summit. 🎟️ Join us and receive the exact blueprint you need to transform your life and marriage right away. 📚✨

DM me the word WORKSHOP and I'll send you the link for your complimentary tickets. Don't wait! Let's make a positive change together. 💕😃

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Rebuilding Trust & Accountability In Marriage

💝 Ready to find the secret to accelerating your inner healing from infidelity?

Take the Infidelity Recovery Assessment.

This 2-minute quiz will identify exactly what milestone you are at on the road to recovering and reveal your personalized healing acceleration plan.

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Stay blessed Sis❤️

There is absolutely nothing wrong with getting ang

There is absolutely nothing wrong with getting angry at the fact that your husband violated your trust. You both made vows and trusted your commitment to the relationship. It's how you handle the anger that really matters. During an episode of. my show, we discussed "How to work through mental triggers and anger while restoring your marriage".

Here are the tips we shared.

1. Know that you are allowed to be angry. Just don't sin because of your anger. Find healthy ways to address and express what you are feeling.

2. Understand that triggers are natural. Don't give away your power by focusing too much on the trigger. Know when you are being triggered and take captive every thought. Be extremely self-aware. Instead of looking at others, look inside.

Internal triggers are:
❌ Anger
❌ Anxiety
❌ Feeling overwhelmed, vulnerable, abandoned, or out of control
❌ Loneliness
❌ Muscle tension
❌ Memories tied to a traumatic event
❌ Pain
❌ Sadness

Some external triggers are:
❌ A movie, television show, that reminds you of the infidelity
❌ A person connected to the infidelity
❌ Arguing your spouse
❌ A specific time of day
❌ Significant dates (such as holidays or anniversaries)
❌ Going to a specific location that reminds you of the infidelity
❌ Smells associated with the experience, such as perfume

3. Be intentional regarding how you start your day.

If you do not have a morning routine that prepares you for the day, you are setting yourself up for failure. Your morning routine should include the following:

💕 Prayer
💕 Bible study
💕 Meditating on the word
💕 Some form of physical activity (i.e. working out, walking, yoga)
💕 Gratitude List

Be mindful of what you pour into yourself. What you watch on tv & listen to impacts how peaceful your day is. Subscribe to podcasts that uplift you. Follow those on social media that encourage you. Listen to music that makes you feel good.

You have the power to handle this season with grace, love, and peace. This does not have to be a dark season. With great intentionality, you can experience the life and love of your dreams

DM the word WORKSHOP for complimentary tickets to the Reclaim Your Peace Summit.

Drop an AMEN in the comments after you pray!

Drop an AMEN in the comments after you pray!

Join us this Monday for our next episode of the Ar

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You definitely look the part of someone that has i

You definitely look the part of someone that has it all together. Other women look up to you. Your finances are aligned. You’re active in ministry. When we google #WifeGoals, your picture is there.

But, behind closed doors, you are struggling with a pain that is too heavy for you to carry by yourself. Sis, it’s time for you to get up out of that dark place and really trust God for your healing.

I understand where you are. I was also raised to “never let them see you sweat”. Regardless of what is going on at home, you must always look like you have it together.

Even if you were just sitting in your car crying. Wipe those tears and fix your make up so no one knows there is something wrong.

But, I’m here to tell you that is the worst advice that could have been given to women. You carry the load of the world on your shoulders and in your head. Your mind is always racing trying to solve the problems of the world all while you cry on the inside.

Who is taking care of you?

Yes, I am all for Empowerment, Strength, and Women that Lead. But, I’m also for healing, transparency, and having a powerful support system that will pray you through every storm.

Imagine what life would be like.....

-You have healed from your husband's infidelity and your marriage is restored!
- You experience constant peace DAILY because you've established safe boundaries and expectations for your marriage!
- Your renewed clarity empowers you to easily make decisions for your life and marriage.
- You feel loved, worthy, and restored as you are showered with love the way God truly intended for you.
- You enjoy your marriage and the love you've created in your home.

If you are ready to release the pain of what was done to you so you can easily experience constant peace during tough seasons of marriage, grab your complimentary tickets for our "Reclaim Your Peace" virtual summit where you will receive the exact blueprint you can immediately use to transform your life and marriage.

DM the word WORKSHOP if you would like to attend.

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This one motto will CHANGE your life! This is jus

This one motto will CHANGE your life!

This is just a snippet of the gems I dropped during our last Marriage Restoration Summit.

Are you ready to accelerate your healing so you can confidently restore your marriage and live Happily Ever After?

Grab a complimentary copy of my ebook "Confidence & Endless Love After Infidelity"

Click the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage for instant access.

https://bit.ly/InfidelityRecovery

Stay blessed Sis❤️

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Struggling to restore your marriage after an affai

Struggling to restore your marriage after an affair? 😔

Been there, done that!

You tried all the tricks in the book: giving the cold shoulder, ignoring the problem, explosive arguments, therapy sessions, turning to your Pastor, girlfriends, even your mom!

But guess what? None of it worked. 😩

I understand the pain of past neglect and the fear of being disappointed all over again. It's tough.

But, I'm here to lend a helping hand! 💖

You're ready to let go of that hurt, right?
Ready to experience constant peace in those rough patches of marriage?

✨ Well, I've got something just for you! 🎉

Snag your complimentary tickets to our "Reclaim Your Peace" virtual summit, where you'll get the exact blueprint to transform your life and marriage. 📝🤩

Slide into my DMs and send me the word WORKSHOP if you want in!

Don't miss out on this opportunity to turn things around. Let's reclaim our peace, together! 💖

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Hello My Sister! . I just wanted to not only remin

Hello My Sister!
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I just wanted to not only remind you that you are always in my prayers. I also wanted to share todays prayer with you.
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Heavenly Father,
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I thank you for my sister. I thank you for her commitment and dedication to you first. Thank you for placing a desire in her to live a lifestyle that honors you.
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Continue to love on her. Remind her of how valuable she is to you. Remove all fear, doubt, worries and insecurities. Heal her from all past trauma that is still trying to torment her. Fill her with your joy that surpasses all understanding. Remind her to rest in knowing that you have her life in your hands and your desire is to bless her.
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Restore her. Hold her when she is broken and remind her she is not alone. Surround her with women that will sincerely love and support her as she continues to grow in you.
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Speak to her husband. Remove EVERY situation and person from his life that keeps him from being the man of God you created him to be. Surround him with Godly men that won't allow him to dishonor you, himself, his wife or his family. Place a desire in him to say yes to you and turn from his fleshly desires.
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Open up communication between them. Help them to fall back in love over and over again. Renew their desire to please one another and enjoy each others company.
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I thank you for doing this for my sister. Bless her so that she will give the testimony that you came in and did above and beyond what she expected.
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I thank you for all these things in the name of Jesus, AMEN!
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Be Blessed My Sister!😉
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Join us this Monday for our next episode of the Arrettres Hollins show.

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I remember when we got a notification that a terri

I remember when we got a notification that a terrible storm was headed our way. Unfortunately, as soon as the wind started blowing outside, we remembered my hubby had a lot of stuff sitting outside of our backyard shed.

Before the fear of what "could" go wrong, we had to make a couple of quick decisions or everything was going to be ruined. So we ran outside and started grabbing things as quickly as we could and placed them back into the shed.

My daughter was transfixed on the wind. She wouldn’t budge. It was as though she kept spinning in circles yelling “This storm is going to be bad. It is so windy. Everything is going to be blown away.”

Sometimes in life, you might see warning signs that something bad is going to happen. There are a couple of very important factors you must consider before and during every storm.

1. Will you prepare for the moment and safeguard everything that can be damaged during the impending storm? Or will you sit in worry and anxiety about what MIGHT happen?
2. Once the storm comes, will you focus on the storm? Or will you focus on your source of strength and joy?

During every crossroad you are given an opportunity to trust God or doubt him. It's always a choice. Even if you subconsciouly make a decision. You get to chose if you will believe God or not.

Choose to focus on God and keep trusting him Sis!

I know you're ready to let go of the pain from your past and experience constant peace in your marriage, especially during those tough seasons. 🌸

That's why I'm super excited to invite you to our "Reclaim Your Peace" virtual summit!

🎉 It's gonna be a game-changer, girl!

You'll get all the deets on how to transform your life and marriage with our amazing blueprint. Trust me, it's gonna rock your world!

DM us the word WORKSHOP to score your FREE ticket now! Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity, Sis! 😘

https://connectingloveandmarriage.com/workshop/

What does Happily Ever After Really look like? Th

What does Happily Ever After Really look like?

This is just a snippet of the gems I dropped during our last Marriage Restoration Summit.

Are you ready to accelerate your healing so you can confidently restore your marriage and live Happily Ever After?

Grab a complimentary copy of my ebook "Confidence & Endless Love After Infidelity"

Click the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage for instant access.

https://bit.ly/InfidelityRecovery

Stay blessed Sis❤️

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Emotional and mental healing is a process that you

Emotional and mental healing is a process that you must "allow" yourself to do.

Healing doesn't happen just because you keep going through life like nothing is wrong. Denial does not equal healing. Healing is intentional and is an activity you must participate in. Take these 2 steps to speed up the process.

1. Reconnect with your foundational truth.

When you are betrayed, it sometimes throws off your emotional alignment. You get consumed in the offense and how you feel. If you are not careful, those emotions will consume you.

Get with God asap through prayer and reading his word. You need to stabilize yourself and your emotions. This will help you think and hear clearly so that you can make decisions from a place of wholeness instead of brokenness.

2. Allow yourself to process how you feel.

This is not the time for you to act like you have it all together. Ignoring how you feel will only create a lake of unresolved issues in your heart. Cry, scream, yell, eat ice cream in a dark room. Whatever you need to do allows you to process the full extent of your emotions.

3. Be willing to stop nursing your wound.

It’s easy to play the victim when your husband has violated your trust. Yes, you were violated. But, at some point, you have to stop allowing that offense to control your emotions.

In order for you to heal, you will have to stop carrying the offense. Stop going back to it as a point a reference. Stop using it as a shield.

You must choose to allow yourself to heal. It’s an intentional process that you have to participate in. And the first step is being open to letting go of the offense so the healing process can begin.

Don't worry about learning how to trust the person that hurt you while you are going through this process.

If you are serious about starting your healing process and restoring your marriage, I would love to help you.

Grab your complimentary tickets for our "Reclaim Your Peace" virtual summit where you will receive the exact blueprint you can immediately use to transform your life and marriage.

DM the word WORKSHOP today and I'll send you your tickets!

https://connectingloveandmarriage.com/workshop/

Yes, your marraige can be restored after infidelit

Yes, your marraige can be restored after infidelity!

If you are ready to annihilate the toxic memories of your husband's past affair so you can control your emotions and experience constant peace daily, just schedule a call with me today so we can get to know each other and see how I can help you accomplish your goals.

DM me now so we can schedule your call today!

It doesn't matter what you are struggling with in

It doesn't matter what you are struggling with in your marriage. It isn't too hard for God. God's Got This!
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Type AMEN if you agree.

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