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Society will tell you that you are being selfish w

Society will tell you that you are being selfish when you decide to take better care of yourself and focus on getting the inner healing you've been craving. They are lieing!!!!

You are your best version of yourself when you are healed! You are a better wife, lover, and friend when you have focused on getting the healing you need.

When it comes to restoring marriages after infidelity, my gift is the ability to help wives get off the emotional and mental roller coaster while accelerating their inner healing.

I am excited and grateful to use my gift to help my clients learn how to do inner work so they can release the pain.

For example, one of my clients was struggling with the ongoing thoughts that she would never allow herself to trust her husband until I helped her set healthy boundaries and confidently implement them in her marriage. As a result of these boundaries being established, their marriage is now thriving and filled with love.

I not only want to help you restore your marriage. I want to show you have to rebuild your marriage stronger than ever so you can experience peace, clarity and AMAZING love.

💕 Click the link in my bio to learn how I can help you.💕

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Intentionally look for God's presence in every area of your life. He will never leave you nor forsake you. Even when you don’t feel he is there, HE IS! But, you have to look for him.

The distractions of life can easily keep us from seeing the blessings God has provided in the midst of the storm. Turn your attention from the problem and focus on the solution. You have to fight against the distractions by diligently looking for him.

We overcome the enemy by the blood of the lamb and by word of our testimony.(Revelation 12:11) God’s word is an ongoing testimony of his love and faithfulness. Search his scriptures as a friendly reminder of what he has already done. God doesn’t have favorites. What he has done for one of his children, he can definitely do for all of his children.
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A wise wife builds up her home and everyone in it.

A wise wife builds up her home and everyone in it. A wise wife doesn’t keep a list of wrongs. She prays for her husband. She gives her husband to God. She trusts that God will do what she is unable to do.

Only God can repair the broken pieces of your husband’s heart. Only God knows the heartache and neglect your husband has endured. God knows the path he has for your husband. God is also the only God that can restore your husband.

You are not fighting against your husband. You are fighting against sin that has found a way into your husband and your marriage. (James 5:18-20)

If you are not careful, the sin of pride will have you looking down on your husband. Judging him and his mistakes. Insulting and disrespecting him because he is a fallen man. (Galatians 6:1)

You also have sin that affects your marriage.

If you have said any of the following:

“Well, it works both ways.”

“I’m not doing XYZ because He doesn’t do XYZ for me.”

“He doesn’t reciprocate all the good I have done.”

“If he would do better, then I could do better”

“It takes two….”

You are being prideful and have placed yourself above your husband.

I’m not saying you should just accept unGodly behavior from your husband. Yes, there is a standard in marriage and God wants you to be loved the way Christ loves the church.

But, your focus is to be a wife that honors God through her marriage and lifestyle. (1 Thessalonians 4:1)

I encourage you to:
1. Pray that God will open up your husband’s eyes so that he will see his sin.
2. Pray that God will renew your husband’s mind so that he will embrace and walk in truth.
3. Pray that God will align your husband’s desire with his purpose.
4. Speak life into your husband. Yes, this is hard when he isn’t 100% aligned with your expectations. But, you get more bees with honey than sour milk. Speak it until you see it.

Trust God and his process of restoration.

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Social media will have you losing your mind if you just keep scrolling. Yes, there is good content being shared on social media. But, you are also bombarded with an ongoing list of information that will raise your anxiety levels.
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Now if limiting your social media sounds like a lot of work, you’d be right. Social Media can be addictive. But there IS a way to shortcut the whole process without sacrificing your will power.
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How?
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Simple: by limiting the amount of time you will spend on social media each day. 20 minutes in the morning and 20 in the afternoon and do not log on at night. You don’t need all of those random social media facts resting on your mind before you go to bed at night. Make it a family rule. Hold each other accountable and place your phones in a designated area to remove the temptation.
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If you are serious about starting your healing process and restoring your marriage, I would love to help you.
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God’s timing is perfect.

Stop trying to rush God. You are not the boss of him. He knows what he is doing and will never give you something before you are ready for it. We always want to rush the breakthrough or the promise that we believe must manifest right now. Are you really ready for it though?

Many wives are praying that God will “fix” their husbands and make them the righteous man of God they can follow. But, are you the righteous women of God that can be led? Are you already functioning as a virtuous wife?

Not perfection. But, striving for God to be glorified through your life? During your time of waiting, focus on becoming the wife that follows and obeys Gods leading.

If you can’t follow God and his instructions for your life, I don’t care how anointed your husband is, you won’t be able to follow your husband either.

Use your waiting season to mature into the woman that God wants you to be. Be patient and don't rush God’s hands. He is perfecting you and your husband during this season. Stop focusing on your husband and make sure you are passing the test that God has placed in front of you.

Prepare yourself for the manifestation of everything you’ve been praying for so that you don’t mismanage the blessing once it is given to you.
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At Connecting Love And Marriage we help confident wives heal from infidelity so they can confidently experience Happily Ever After with their husband.

We are accepting new clients, check out the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage 👈🏾 to learn more.

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Are you really going to spend another year sufferi

Are you really going to spend another year suffering in silence?

It isn't too late for you to experience your Happily Ever After! Even if you are recovering from the trauma of infidelity.

For wives, we are the leading faith-based coaching firm that helps them accelerate the inner healing process while confidently restoring marriages.

Unlike other marriage coaches, we combine a strategic blend of spiritual principles with proven techniques that empower wives to boldly experience the life, love and marriage of their dreams.

Without help, our clients continue to struggle with the mental & emotional roller coaster while experiencing uncertainty regarding the future of their marriage.

I not only want to help you restore your marriage. I want to show you have to rebuild your marriage stronger than ever so you can experience peace, clarity and AMAZING love.

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We’ve all been there, one misunderstanding turns

We’ve all been there, one misunderstanding turns into a verbal war. Or maybe that is just me. LOL

If you are not careful and allow a heated discussion to continue, and uncontrollable argument can ensue. No one is listening to the other. Both people are yelling to be heard. Resolution is impossible in this environment. Peace has walked out the door. War grabbed some popcorn and sat its happy hips right on your couch.
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You have to learn to end the conversation before it gets to this point. You know when it is spiraling down a dark alley. Stop before it gets there.

You and your spouse must come up with predetermined signals to let the other person know the conversation is out of control. Do not try to identify these in the middle of an argument. This should be identified while you are both calm and rational.
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If you are serious about starting your healing process and restoring your marriage, I would love to help you.
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I'm giving away a free guide on "5 Empowering Principles Wives Must Know After Experiencing Infidelity".

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If you are serious about restoring your marriage, one helpful tip is to know your triggers.
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Triggers are dormant places inside of you that are activated when someone says or does something in particular. It is normally directly connected to a belief or painful experience from your youth or past relationships.
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Now some of our reactions are warranted because of the behavior of our spouse. Sometimes they have “done” things that would naturally trigger an emotion because of how grave the offense is.
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But, in order for you to respond rationally and allow wisdom to guide you, you must make sure your triggers are not running the show.
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So I had to address the situation and start the healing process.
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Here are 3 tips.
1 - Identify your top three emotional triggers that cause you the most pain and throw you completely off balance.
2 - Identify the root of this trigger and any lies that have become a part of your belief system.
3 - Reprogram your mind and emotions to react differently in situations that you would normally be triggered by.
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If you are serious about starting your healing process and restoring your marriage, I would love to help you.
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It is an honor to be a guest on The Sizzling Hot M

It is an honor to be a guest on The Sizzling Hot Marriage Show. Register and join us!

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Todays Prayer For Ambitious Wives.

Dear God,

You are my strength. You are my shield. You are my shepherd.

You have and are the answer to every question that I have. I understand and accept that you plan might not be exactly what I want it to be, but, I trust you know whats best for me.

I surrender my everything to you. Align my plan with your plan for my life. When I want to resist you, lovingly redirect me.

Give me clarity regarding the next couple of steps you want me to take. Give me the confidence to do what you are telling me to do. Give me the heart that will love everyone you place in my life.

In Jesus Name, Amen!
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I not only want to help you restore your marriage. I want to show you have to rebuild your marriage stronger than ever so you can experience peace, clarity and AMAZING love.

💕 Click the link in my bio to learn how I can help you.💕

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💖 SHARE THIS POST!💖 Ever wonder if you can

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Ever wonder if you can actually heal emotionally and mentally from your husband's affair?

Deciding to work on your marriage after infidelity isn't enough.

Yes, your marriage can be restored after infidelity. But, what about YOUR emotional and mental healing?

Here is the truth....

Time does NOT heal all wounds!

You must be intentional about healing emotionally and mentally from the betrayal of infidelity.

1. With intentional mindset shifts, you can overcome the painful memories of his indiscretion.
2. A consistent and authentic connection with God will help you experience daily peace while rebuilding yourself.
3. Clarity gives you the ability to establish safe boundaries and expectations so you can feel safe in your marriage again.

These steps are necessary for you to heal, reconcile, and eventually reconnect with your husband.
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I not only want to help you restore your marriage. I want to show you have to rebuild your marriage stronger than ever so you can experience peace, clarity and AMAZING love.

💕 Click the link in my bio to learn how I can help you.💕

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Emotional and mental healing is a process that you must "allow" yourself to do.

Healing doesn't happen just because you keep going through life like nothing is wrong. Denial does not equal healing. Healing is intentional and is an activity you must participate in. Take these 2 steps to speed up the process.

1. Reconnect with your foundational truth.

When you are betrayed, it sometimes throws off your emotional alignment. You get consumed in the offense and how you feel. If you are not careful, those emotions will consume you.

Get with God asap through prayer and reading his word. You need to stabilize yourself and your emotions. This will help you think and hear clearly so that you can make decisions from a place of wholeness instead of brokenness.

2. Allow yourself to process how you feel.

This is not the time for you to act like you have it all together. Ignoring how you feel will only create a lake of unresolved issues in your heart. Cry, scream, yell, eat ice cream in a dark room. Whatever you need to do allows you to process the full extent of your emotions.

3. Be willing to stop nursing your wound.

It’s easy to play the victim when your husband has violated your trust. Yes, you were violated. But, at some point, you have to stop allowing that offense to control your emotions.

In order for you to heal, you will have to stop carrying the offense. Stop going back to it as a point a reference. Stop using it as a shield.

You must choose to allow yourself to heal. It’s an intentional process that you have to participate in. And the first step is being open to letting go of the offense so the healing process can begin. Don't worry about learning how to trust the person that hurt you while you are going through this process.
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If you are serious about starting your healing process and restoring your marriage, I would love to help you.
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I've gotten a couple DM's from ladies that need to talk about what is going on in their marriage and get answers that will help them fix these issues. I heard you and I got you Boo.😉

I am going to send an email with an opportunity that you do not want to miss. I promise this will be good.

1. Click the link in my bio.
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3. Tag a friend that needs to talk.

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🚨SAVE THIS POST!! 🚨 Know when to walk away

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Know when to walk away from a situation.
All problems won’t be solved immediately. Sometimes you need to walk away from an issue and give yourself time to calm down and gather your thoughts. Don’t walk away and gather more ammunition for the argument. Walk away and get with God. Ask him to show you if you’ve done anything to fuel the issue and how you can resolve the problem.

Stop taking everything as a personal attack against you. Most husbands do not wake up looking for ways to make you angry. But, every once in a while, they will do dumb things. You must learn how to have tough conversations without cussing and fussing.

Yelling will never get you the results you truly desire.
Learn how to express yourself in a way that makes it easier for your husband to receive from you. I’m not saying you have to become an extremely docile wife. I’m just saying speak in the same tone that you want him speaking to you in. Speak in a way that honors God. Express yourself without embarrassing yourself.

Don’t become disrespectful.

Don’t attack his manhood.

Be intentional about coming up with a solution to the problem. Not pointing the finger and playing the blame game. Create healthy boundaries that prevent the same issue from coming up again. Offer the same amount of grace you would like offered to you the next time you mess up.

The bottom line is controlling your anger does not start when issues arise. It starts inside of you. Way before an issue presents itself, you must be in a position of peace. You will be more rational and prepared to resolve the conflict instead of fueling the issue with your emotions.

Stay Blessed Sis!

P.S. If you are serious about starting your healing process and restoring your marriage, I would love to help you.
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Part of your evening routine should be you spending time in a quiet place, reflecting on your behavior towards your spouse throughout the day.
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Were you loving, kind and compassionate?
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Warm, inviting and romantic?
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Were your words comforting, encouraging and attractive?
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If you want a marriage that is filled with love and romance, be intentional about being a wife that is filled with love and romance.
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I not only want to help you restore your marriage. I want to show you have to rebuild your marriage stronger than ever so you can experience peace, clarity and AMAZING love.

💕 Click the link in my bio to learn how I can help you.💕

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In reality, marriage can be one of the most diffic

In reality, marriage can be one of the most difficult relationships to navigate through. Choosing to stay married is not enough.

Yes, Happily Ever After is still possible after the heartache of infidelity. It takes intentionality.

But some couples are not able to get to a place of love in their marriage again. So I wanted to share highlight what's really keeping you from enjoying your marriage and how to fix it within the next 24 hours.

1. Stop waiting for your husband to turn into the perfect husband.

Are you waiting for your husband to evolve into everything you want him to be? You need to love him exactly where he is right now and encourage him as he continues to grow.

You will grow. It takes intentionality and proper communication to make sure you grow TOGETHER.

2. Stop withholding forgiveness!

There is absolutely no way for you to enjoy an environment where you are harboring resentment and bitterness. Many people are reluctant to show mercy because they don’t understand the difference between trust and forgiveness. Forgiveness is letting go of the past. Trust has to do with future behavior.

When you withhold forgiveness, you are nurturing bitterness, resentment, and strife. This is not your goal. Love will never grow from unforgiveness. Romance will never grow from unforgiveness.

Your Happily Ever After is rooted in forgiving your hubby for what he has done, healing from what was done, and communicating your wants and desires effectively.

3. Give yourself permission to enjoy your marriage.

Sometimes we get so caught up in trying to punish our spouse that we are also punishing ourselves. Stop that! You two are grown adults that communicate very effectively. Let go of this need to punish your spouse and give yourself permission to experience marriage the way you desire.

4. Freely become the wife that enjoys her marriage.

Choose to show the love you want to experience. PERIOD!

Embody the wife you want to be. Don't wait for a magical moment where things seem perfect. Starting now will catapult your relationship onto the path that leads to you experiencing the love you desire in your marriage.

Stay Blessed Sis!
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Whew, Chile!! I sincerely felt this in my core. What we have witnessed and learned from adults in our life can bless our marriage or taint our view of love. It can keep us from trusting people, being vulnerable, or open to receiving anything beyond surface love.
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I witnessed a lot growing up. My view about marriage, love, and men was extremely jaded. And rightfully so. I didn’t always have the best examples.
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It created this internal vow in me that said...

“I’ll get married, but, I’ll never submit to a man. He will always know that I don’t need him and can live without him”
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This vow grew from fear and pain that I never addressed as a child.
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It wasn’t until I allowed myself to do honest internal work and face my pain.
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I had to look at the examples in my life and how they affected me.
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The hardest part was accepting that the adults in my life did the best they could with what they had. They were broken and hurting in their own way. Of course, we want them to do and know better because they are adults. But, sometimes people can’t see beyond their own pain. Sometimes their pain guides them into doing things that harm others. People that are hurting only know how to hurt others. They don’t know how to walk in healing and love others while they are hurting.
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I’m not making excuses for them at all! I just want you to process the situation so that you can break the cycle. This is needed so that you can make sure your life and marriage doesn’t repeat the cycle you experienced.
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