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🚨SAVE THIS POST!! 🚨 A big question I’ve b

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A big question I’ve been asked a lot is “How will I know if my husband will cheat again?”.

So what do you think?

To start, it is important to understand the reason why this question is being asked so often in the first place.

It is because wives want to restore their marriage, but, are unable to identify any red flags that would show them he might cheat again.

Here’s the thing... in order for you to see the warning signs and you have to be in a place of clarity.

This means that despite what everyone thinks, you need to focus on getting the inner healing you need so that you can be confident in your decisions.

At Connecting Love And Marriage we help wives eliminate the painful recurring memories of their husband's past affair so they can experience peace while confidently restoring their rmarriage.

We are accepting new clients, check out the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage 👈🏾 to learn more.

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💝 Ready to find the secret to accelerating your

💝 Ready to find the secret to accelerating your inner healing from infidelity?

Take the Infidelity Recovery Assessment.

This 2-minute quiz will identify exactly what milestone you are at on the road to recovering and reveal your personalized healing acceleration plan.

Click the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage for instant access.

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Stay blessed Sis❤️

🚨SAVE THIS POST!! 🚨 It doesn’t matter if y

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It doesn’t matter if you are waiting a little longer than expected.

Psalm 27:14 “Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!”

You can’t put God on a schedule and tell him when He needs to arrive.

God is fully aware of your marriage and current struggle. Trust his process. Focus on him.

Wait on God! Believe that he will do exactly what he said he will do.

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Our programs are open if you are ready to restore your marriage. Click the link in my bio to learn more.

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Hey Beautiful! . Make sure you allow yourself to h

Hey Beautiful!
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Make sure you allow yourself to heal. Get rid of the excess baggage and left over residue that could affect how you give and receive love in your marriage.
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Even if you think you are over it, or it's been a long time. Baggage has a way of silently hiding in the back of our minds and suddenly shows it's ugly head when it's triggered.
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You know what I'm talking about. Your husband might do something wrong and your reaction is waaaaaaaay over the top. You aren't just reacting to him. You could also be reacting to the other offenses that you haven't fully healed from.
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Be blessed my sister. Healing and emotional freedom is always available for you.
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Our programs are open if you are ready to confidently restore your marriage. Click the link in my bio to learn more.

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Learn to rest and trust that God has good intentio

Learn to rest and trust that God has good intentions for your life. “For I know the thoughts I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.” Jeremiah 29:11.

P.S. Our programs are open if you are ready to restore your marriage. Click the link in my bio to learn more.

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🚨SAVE THIS POST!! 🚨 How can I forgive my hu

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How can I forgive my husband when holding a grudge seems easier?
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This is a question I get asked very often.
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Regardless of what is going on in your marriage, you have to stop and decide if you are in this for better or for worse. Are you committed to putting in the work needed to have a healthy and thriving marriage? You can’t sit on the fence. One day you are willing to do the work and the next day you are filing for divorce.
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In order for you to forgive your husband and not hold a grudge, you must first decide if you are going to stay married to him. Get off the roller coaster and make a decision.
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Are you going to stay and work on your marriage, or are you going to leave?
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If you are going to stay married to him, then let’s put our big girl panties on and prepare to do the work.
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Be willing to do what it takes to make your relationship work.
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Commit to allowing God to heal your broken heart and do what needs to be done through you and your marriage.
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At Connecting Love And Marriage we help wives eliminate the painful recurring memories of their husband's past affair so they can experience peace while confidently restoring their rmarriage.

We are accepting new clients, check out the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage 👈🏾 to learn more.

https://connectingloveandmarriage.com/whatsnew/
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💝 Ready to find the secret to accelerating your

💝 Ready to find the secret to accelerating your inner healing from infidelity?

Take the Infidelity Recovery Assessment.

This 2-minute quiz will identify exactly what milestone you are at on the road to recovering and reveal your personalized healing acceleration plan.

Click the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage for instant access.

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Stay blessed Sis❤️

🚨SAVE THIS POST!! 🚨 God LOVES you and does

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God LOVES you and does not want harm to fall upon you.

Malachi 3:6 says “I, the LORD do not change. So you, O descendants of Jacob, are not destroyed.”

And my all-time favorite, James 1:17 says “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.”

God consistently loves and adores you. His plan doesn’t change and His heart’s desire remains true. Even when you fall short and or disobey His instructions. His desire is still that you turn from your sinful ways and walk into every blessing He has prepared for you.

Get to a place where you take the limits off of God and allow Him to do what He said He would do in His own timing. He knows what’s best!

P.S. There is life after infidelity. YOU can still experience the marriage of your dreams.

If you are serious about accelerating your healing, apply to work with me today!

Click the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage 👈🏾 to apply today!

Or click this link --> https://connectingloveandmarriage.com/apply/
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There is life after infidelity. YOU can still expe

There is life after infidelity. YOU can still experience the marriage of your dreams. You deserve to feel abundant joy & love!

At Connecting Love And Marriage we help confident wives heal from infidelity while empowering you to regain control of your life, happiness, and marriage.

We are accepting new clients, check out the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage 👈🏾 to learn more.

https://connectingloveandmarriage.com/whatsnew/
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💞 SHARE THIS POST💞 With the proper care and

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With the proper care and guidance, you can overcome every obstacle of distrust that has grown in your marriage. Healing is definitely possible when two people are willing to work towards it.
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Even you can be free from the hurt you feel when trusting your husband feels impossible. Over the next couple of days, I would like to share with you a couple of strategies that will help you heal and rebuild trust in your relationship.
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Instead of reacting. Talk to God. Ask him for:
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Clarity – God allowed this situation into your life. Why? What is the lesson he wants you to learn from this? What role does God want you to play in this situation? How does he want you to behave? What can you do to make sure he gets the glory out of even this situation?
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Understanding – In order for your husband to be dishonest and break the trust in your relationship, there is a struggle going on inside of him. This issue goes beyond you. The struggle is between your husband and God. It shows there is a break down in the relationship between your husband and God.

Ask God to give you a heart that can pray for reconciliation between your husband and God. Pray that he is submitted and dedicated to cultivating a relationship with Christ. As your husband grows closer and closer to God, the better your husband will treat you. So give your husband to God and commit to praying for him daily.
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Wisdom – God knows your husband, his heart, and his intentions. Ask God how he wants you to handle your husband so that you two can come to a healthy resolve. God will tell you exactly what to say and how to say it. What to do and how to do it. Allow God to lead you so that your marriage can begin the healing process.
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Our programs are open if you are ready to restore your marriage. Click the link in my bio to learn more.

https://connectingloveandmarriage.com/whatsnew/
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At Connecting Love And Marriage we help wives elim

At Connecting Love And Marriage we help wives eliminate the painful recurring memories of their husband's past affair so they can experience peace while confidently restoring their rmarriage.

We are accepting new clients, check out the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage 👈🏾 to learn more.

https://connectingloveandmarriage.com/whatsnew/
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💖 SHARE THIS POST💖 When someone cheats on t

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When someone cheats on their spouse, it can feel devastating.

It can bruise your self-esteem and feelings of self-worth. Even though you are angry, you are also masking pain and fear.

There are a number of steps that must be taken after your husband cheats in order for the relationship to survive and not just be another of the infidelity recovery statistics:

1. Your husband needs to come completely clean
2. Make sure to not try and justify the cheating whatsoever; there is no excuse
3. Your husband needs to become completely transparent; share email & social passwords and check in frequently when not at home or work
4. You need to feel safe in venting your anger & frustration without fear of reprisal
5. Your husband needs to cut off all contact with the other woman; even if that means changing jobs or getting a new phone number.

Are ready to get the inner healing you need so you can confidently determine your next steps?

At Connecting Love And Marriage we help confident wives heal from infidelity while empowering you to regain control of your life, happiness, and marriage.

We are accepting new clients for our coaching program. Click the clink in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage 👈🏾 to submit your application.

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At Connecting Love And Marriage we help wives acce

At Connecting Love And Marriage we help wives accelerate their inner healing from the pain of infidelity so they can experience peace while confidently restoring their rmarriage.

We are accepting new clients, check out the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage 👈🏾 to learn more.

https://connectingloveandmarriage.com/whatsnew/
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💞 Don't allow what is going on in your marriage

💞 Don't allow what is going on in your marriage, make you doubt God.
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Ready to find the secret to accelerating your inner healing from infidelity?

Take the Infidelity Recovery Assessment.

This 2-minute quiz will identify exactly what milestone you are at on the road to recovering and reveal your personalized healing acceleration plan.

Click the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage for instant access.

https://connectingloveandmarriage.com/quiz/

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Hey Beautiful! I am so glad you made it to my page

Hey Beautiful! I am so glad you made it to my page. I'm Arrettres Hollins, the founder or Connecting Love And Marriage.

At Connecting Love And Marriage we help confident wives heal from infidelity while empowering you to regain control of your life, happiness, and marriage.

We are accepting new clients, check out the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage 👈🏾 to learn more.

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💖 SHARE THIS POST💖 Look Sis! I don’t play

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Look Sis! I don’t play with folk! Y ou have one time to show me that you are unable to have a positive conversation. ONE TIME!!
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Now, I’m not talking about someone that is going through a tough season and needs encouragement. I’m talking about the Debbie Downers, Petty Betty, Gossiping Galinda, Negative Nancy. I’m talking about the folk that can always find something negative to say or talk about.
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Those kinds of people will suck the joy out of you and leave you feeling depleted and defeated. You don’t need this kind of energy in your life.
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LEAVE THOSE PEOPLE ALONE!!!
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Get them out of your life. Free yourself from the stench of their negativity. TODAY!
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Choose to surround yourself with people that have the level of energy that gives life and uplifts.
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It is freeing and you deserve it.
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At Connecting Love And Marriage we help confident wives heal from infidelity so they can confidently experience Happily Ever After with their husband.

We are accepting new clients, check out the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage 👈🏾 to learn more.

https://connectingloveandmarriage.com/whatsnew/
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💝 Ready to accelerate your inner healing from t

💝 Ready to accelerate your inner healing from the pain of your husband's past affair and experience peace as you confidently restore your marriage?

Take the Infidelity Recovery Assessment.

This 2 minute quiz will identify exactly what milestone you are at on the road to recovering and reveal your personalized healing acceleration plan.

Click the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage for instant access.

https://connectingloveandmarriage.com/quiz/

Stay blessed Sis❤️

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Ready to do the work?💕

At Connecting Love And Marriage we help wives eliminate the painful recurring memories of their husband's past affair so they can experience peace while confidently restoring their rmarriage.

We are accepting new clients, check out the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage 👈🏾 to learn more.

https://connectingloveandmarriage.com/whatsnew/
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Healing from infidelity is not one size fits all.

Healing from infidelity is not one size fits all. The Healed & Empowered Wife Methodology identifies exactly where you land on the 5 levels of healing from infidelity. Then it lays out the specific action steps you need to fully accelerate your inner healing.

It all starts with the Infidelity Recovery Assessment. Your results will include a diagnosis of the biggest struggles you are facing and provide your next steps to eliminate the painful recurring memories so you can constantly experience peace, clarity, and joy.

Take this 2-minute assessment to identify exactly where you are on the road to recovery and receive your personalized healing acceleration plan.

Click the link in my bio @connectingloveandmarriage 👈🏾 to begin → https://bit.ly/3xPCxIO

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