4 surefire ways to eliminate fear and anxiety during stressful seasons of life and marriage!

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I am so excited about today and what God has planned for you! Believe it and receive it.   Remember, you have to see it before you see it.   That means you have to see it with God’s eyes.   Whatever you are going through will pass. God’s word remains true.   He will NEVER give you more than you can handle. NEVER!

So if you are facing a situation that makes you feel like your back is up against the wall, this isn’t the time for you to cower in the corner!   This is your time to put those boxing gloves on. Since God will never give you more than you can handle, then you have to know that victory is already yours.  

Fight Girl! Don’t be a victim of what is going on around you.

But, don’t fight like the world does. That’s not where your power lies. Your power is in the spirit. Ephesians 6:12 says, ” For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.”

Instead of lashing out at people when you are feeling stressed or worried, read your word and pray.

Don’t stay on the ground!

Things are going to happen in life that will knock the wind out of you. But, will you stay on the ground and allow it to consume you? Surely you won’t!

You are BETTER than that! You’ve never been a victim and you won’t start acting like one now!

God created you to win! He gave you victory over every situation that may come into your life. Even situations where you feel like you experienced a loss. Remember, God’s word clearly says “All things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.”

EVERYTHING! The good and the bad. God will use it all for YOUR good.

Yes, there will be obstacles. Times may feel hard and look like defeat. But, you must REMIND yourself who you are in CHRIST.

You are more than a conqueror.

There is more for you than there is against you.

You are the head and not the tail.

You WILL win and not fail.

Give it to God.

If you don’t resist it, God will use your marriage to mature you. He will use your marriage to show you areas in your life that need to grow. It has nothing to do with your spouse and everything to do with you. Develop your character and walk with him. While you are going through this refining process, cling to him.

It can seem scary at times because he will be taking you out of your comfort zone. But, that is good. Trust his process and his will. He knows exactly what you need to get your where he wants you to be. He will never give you more than you can handle.

If you have experienced heartache during your marriage or things that have occurred in your life, give that pain to God. Don’t expect your husband or anyone else to fix that pain for you. No one on this planet has enough power to fix it the broken areas of your heart that makes you live in fear or carry the load of anxiety. Only God does.

Cling to him as you go through the healing process.

Focus on increasing your faith.

One of the best ways to do this is by hearing the testimony of others.

So here is your task: Contact 3 women you trust and love. These should be women that you know and follow God. Ask each one this simple question. “Can you please share with me the greatest miracle God ever performed for you?” Then remain silent and listen to their testimony.

The word of God says that we overcome by the word of our testimony. (Revelations 12:11) Even when others testify of the goodness of God and miracles he has performed in their life, it is the power to boost your faith. It reminds you that God is still performing modern-day miracles.

God doesn’t have favorites. What he will do for one of his children, he will do for all. Don’t allow the enemy to make you think that God is no longer aware of your situation. He loves you and only wants to bless you

By the end of your conversation, you will feel empowered, strengthened, and your faith will be built.

Stay Blessed Sis!

Arrettres Hollins

Founder of, Balanced Wife Life Academy

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