Master the art of inner peace and balanced life even when marriage feels chaotic!

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Have you ever been in this place?

You are an ambitious wife that is frustrated that your home life is not flowing the way you had planned.

You feel stressed, overworked and unappreciated for all that you are doing for your family.

You look amazing on the outside, but, feel completely disconnected and ready to fall apart.

You want to be an amazing wife, but, you are juggling too many hats to really connect with your husband.

Or, maybe you just can't find the time to take care of your own needs because you are too busy taking care of everyone else's.

If any of these resonate with you,

I would like to introduce you to...

What is Balanced Wife Life Academy?

Balanced Wife Life Academy is an intense group coaching program designed to help wives juggle the many hats you are wearing, remove the feeling of overwhelm and experience a constant feeling of peace.

This power-packed 4-week group coaching program will walk you through my signature system that has helped my clients achieve a Balanced Wife-Life Academy while reconnecting with their husband.

Why you need to join Balanced Wife Life Academy!

This course is for you if:

- You are ready to let go of everything that is killing your joy.

- You are just tired of the cycle of disappointment and neglect you feel daily.

- You long to model how a wife should behave so your children can follow your example and have a successful marriage.

- You've been asking God to "fix" your situation, but, he doesn't seem to be hearing you.

- Your dreams of experiencing a lifetime of happiness and overcoming tough times with your husband feel impossible.

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Balanced Wife Life Academy lessons will cover the following topics...

Rebuilding your faith

Learn the secret to finding peace and clarity regardless of what is going on around you.


Develop the art of self-love and self-improvement to bring wellness to your life.

Get the love you deserve

Create an environment where love continually nourishes your relationship.

Stability in your home

Set boundaries and create systems that will eliminate burnout and overwhelm.

Testimonials about the course!

My husband was cheating on me.  It was a 5-year relationship he had with a coworker.   I was devastated and immediately filed for a divorce.   I was embarrassed and humiliated.  I blamed the affair on myself.  My self-esteem was low before I met him.   After the affair, my self-esteem was nonexistent.   This course helped me build up my self-esteem and see that I am valuable regardless of what my husband did.   It taught me how to set healthy boundaries in relationships and set expectations for how I should be treated.   It gave me permission to speak my truth.   My husband ended up trying to come back home and I was strong enough to give him the list of dealbreakers I created in lesson 13.   He couldn’t commit to rebuilding trust, so I wished him well in life.  lol

Lakeisha Rawlings

After 6 years of a stressful marriage, I fell into a deep depression.  I would barely get out of my bed or engage with my children.   My hair started to fall out and I gained so much weight.  I couldn’t seem to shake the grief of trying to fix my marriage and not being successful at it.   Balanced Wife Life helped me begin the healing process.   The best part about it for me was the constant reminders to reconnect with God and reading the affirming scriptures daily.  It renewed my hope.  I’ve learned to embrace my size and celebrate being a full-figured girl!    It changed my perspective of my life and my husband.   I was able to prioritize my well being and while still being the wife God created me to be.  We are still working on our marriage and things have gotten so much better.

Lisa Banks

I had such a hard time asserting myself in my marriage.  With 13 years of marriage under my belt, I remained silent so much in my marriage, I didn’t know how to make sure my voice was heard.  I was spinning in circles trying to do everything for my children.  I felt like a constant doormat and had no say.   I didn’t want it to be that way anymore because I also felt like my husband was no longer respecting me as his wife.  I was neglecting him by trying to be a super mom.  Balanced Wife Life helped me find my voice.  It taught me how to delegate and no longer feel like everyone’s maid.  PLUS, the trick Arrettres taught regarding how to get your husband to help out around the house REALLY WORKED!  My husband now helps out with the laundry and cooks dinner three times a week.

Beverly Princeton

Balanced Wife Life seems to touch on every situation, conversation, emotion, every thought that I’ve experienced in all my 23 years of marriage.

I absolutely love the value you are providing through Balanced Wife Life.  Having someone who has experience take me through the step by step process of healing from my baggage was so helpful.  I never felt alone.

The group community created a support system to walk with me through the challenges I faced.  Having someone who is relatable in the program guiding me through, helped me feel like I was never alone and that marriages that have gone through challenges can thrive and survive.

This is the perfect gem to help rebuild you, your mindset and rekindle your marriage.

The Balanced Wife Life course will help get you on the road to overcoming the challenges you may be facing as a wife and it is well worth the investment.

This program will help you find reconnections; as it brings you back in love with the man you married and the individual you’ve always been.

This program worked even though my husband wasn’t in the program.  All of the steps & advice still helped ME be my best version of myself.  After a while, I began to see God transform my husband.

​The biblical principles outlined at the beginning of this course laid a strong foundation for me to continue being successful in my life and marriage way after being in the program.

The Balanced Wife Life course is a great source of learning and support because no matter how long you’ve been married, there are times when you can feel overwhelmed and out of balance.

But let's be clear.....this is not for everyone!

I'll be the first to let you know that this course might not be a good fit for everyone.

I am only looking for a select number of women who are ready to dig deep. Wives who are serious and ready to stop pointing the finger at their husband, or attempting other solutions that haven't produced lasting results and are delaying real transformation in their marriage.

I'm going to be totally honest with you. This customized program is being offered at a special rate because I want to make sure that I address YOUR specific needs and challenges.

If you are REALLY ready to transform your marriage by taking control of YOUR life....

Here's what's in it for you!

- Fully customized training videos that target your specific need.

- Digital training guides to support a deeper understanding of content.

- Targeted prayers and scriptures that will help you master each step.

- Unlimited growth in your marriage as the content is always being updated and added.

- An exclusive digital copy of the Balanced Wife Life Journal and Daily devotional.

Finally, stop struggling with the overwhelm of wearing too many hats and avoid burn out!

Module Breakdown!

Module #1 - Rebuilding Your Faith

(Valued at $197)

By the end of Module #1, you will be able to...

- Restore your peace of mind while allowing yourself to heal from past and current emotional pain.

- Use emotional detox to overcome past hurts and daddy issues that are negatively affecting your thought pattern.

- Understand and implement the difference between Forgiveness and Reconciliation.

- Feel confident expressing and creating healthy boundaries that protect your emotional and mental well being.

- Experience joy in your marriage as you align yourself with God’s principles and will for your life.

- Virtually eliminate constant negative thoughts about your husband and his flaws.

Module #1 will help you even if you’ve already tried….

1. Discussing issues with your husband, but, he keeps repeating the same mistakes.

2. Holding things in and ignoring the problem.

3. Praying together for your marriage, but, he stopped praying.

4. Counseling with a Pastor, Counselor, Therapist or Coach.

5. To remove depression by struggling through painful conversations when you felt it was easier to avoid it.

Module #2 - Mindset

(Valued at $197)

By the end of Module #2, you will be able to...

- Handle conflict gracefully even when it seems overwhelming.

- Have tough conversations without using your words as a weapon.

- Focus on your healing and spiritual growth.

- Leave stuff alone or know when to use your silence to effectively get better results.

- Let go of grudges while creating safe boundaries in your relationship.

Module #2 will help you even if you’ve already tried….

1. Talking & pursuing the issues until you explode.

2. Being respectful of others, but, feel you are being taken advantage of.

3. Controlling your emotions when people say and do things to provoke you.

4. Counseling, but, you feel like you are being misunderstood.

Module #3 - Get the love you deserve

(Valued at $197)

By the end of Module #3, you will be able to...

- Love yourself more so that you can freely give and receive love.

- Attract more affection from your husband.

- Speak to your husband in a tone that makes him feel safe and open to your advances.

- Thrive in your marriage and be more affectionate towards each other.

- Build your self-esteem and overcome painful insecurities.

Module #3 will help you even if you’ve already tried….

1. To be a patient, understanding and loving wife.

2. Helping your husband feel more empowered, loved and respected.

3. Lowering your expectations and accepting less than you deserve.

4. Building your self-esteem and overcome painful insecurities that are drastically affecting your marriage.

Module #4 - Stability in your home.

(Valued at $197)

By the end of Module #4, you will be able to...

- Become more WE focused and not be selfish in your relationship.

- Create opportunities for quality time together when your husband is very busy with his career.

- Relieve stress by delegating and creating systems that free you from burnout and fatigue.

- Effectively blend families and prevent children from creating barriers in your marriage.

- Balance juggling many hats without wearing yourself out.

Module #4 will help you even if you’ve already tried….

1. To juggle all your responsibilities and are at your wit's end.

2. Talking to your husband about your hefty To Do list and getting his support.

3. Repressing your frustration, fear, and anger.

4. Putting yourself under too much pressure while trying to be Super Woman for everyone.

I love when I get messages like this from clients!!!

Sooooo, I wanted to give you a praise report.   I started doing a lot of the tips you posted for my husband like affirming him and praying for him.  To be honest, I just forgave him for all the years of hurt, pain, and anger acquired in our marriage.  I feel so free!  God is good!  My husband started going to counseling on his own.  His behavior towards me changed.  He is a Christian but was arrogant, controlling and mean.  I was going to leave, BUT God!

I began to praise and worship more and literally cry out for help, wisdom, and breakthrough.  I showed him respect when he least deserved it.  He began to change.  He use to walk away or put his hand up to my face when I had an attitude whether warranted or not.   My husband is now giving me my love language on a regular basis.  It’s not like him at all.  He was so selfish.  All I can say is, God is good and so faithful.  Thank you for your ministry, support and encouragement!

Tiffany Fields-Moore

This revolutionary course will help you finally break free from hurt and resentment so you can experience total happiness and peace in your marriage.

But wait, there's more!!

BONUS #1!!!

You will also receive a BONUS copy of my most popular workbook called Fire!

FIRE is a 30 day Daily Devotional and Journal for Wives that are trying to keep it all together.   It is filled with 64 pages of daily scriptures, affirmations, prayer notes, gratitude entries and reflection time.

This downloadable ebook includes:

  • Scriptures reinforcing the promises that God has for you.

  • Mindset shifting affirmations.

  • Prayer and notes section

  • Daily release of struggles and worries

Fire is regularly priced at $29 but is a Bonus Gift for you when you enroll in Balanced Wife Life today!


This Healing & Rebuilding Trust Bundle will show you how to heal from a broken heart and restore your marriage after a heartbreaking betrayal.

This bundle includes the following Training Videos and Ebook:

1. "5 Ways To Save A Troubled Marriage" will guide you through 5 truths that every wife should know before they say I Do.
(Digital Ebook)

2. "Why Your Worth Is Not Based On How Your Husband Treats You" will help you identify your self-worth and how to affirm yourself daily.
(7-minute training video)

3. “Painless ways to deal with in-laws that don’t like you” will give you 7 easy to apply strategies that will keep inlaws out of your marriage.
(24-minute training video)

4. “How to forgive your husband when holding a grudge seems easier.” will show you how to release the bondage of bitterness and the heartache it always leads to.
(24-minute training video)

5. “What to do when your husband stops coming home.” will help you face the harsh reality of an affair and what you can do to remain emotionally stable while you make decisions about what you must do next to protect yourself.
(22-minute training video)

6. When Trusting Your Husband Feels Impossible will take you through the 6 step process of rebuilding yourself emotionally & mentally after trust has been violated.
(26-minute training video)

(Valued at $129)


Fix My Marriage Bundle is power-packed with 5 video training and 2 digital resources to help you resolve conflict and overcome challenges in your marriage without losing your identity.

This bundle includes the following Training Videos and Ebook:

1. How to easily fix a broken marriage and avoid the heartache of divorce! (25 Minute Training Webinar)

2. “5 Easy Tips To Getting Your Spouse To Finally Hear Your Complaints” will teach you how to have tough conversations with your husband without him shutting down or becoming defensive.
(21-minute training video)

3. "4 Strategies To Diffuse Arguments In Marriage" will show you how to keep disagreements from turning into a battlefield where no one is getting heard.
(21-minute training video)

4. "4 Powerful Strategies to increase communication in your marriage" will introduce you into 4 pillars that are necessary to have effective conversations that always end with solutions.
(23-minute training video)

5. "Are these 7 habits destroying your marriage?" will take you through toxic behaviors that every wife must stop doing immediately if they want their marriage to thrive.
(18-minute training video)

6. "A digital copy of "Conflict Resolution for Strong Wives That Want To Win!" ebook"

(Valued at $129)



We have 2 bi-weekly calls where we dive deep into cultivating a marriage mindset and how to live a victorious life! I teach our community of wives live each month on building a foundation for success in every area of life. The information you learn will uplevel you instantly once implemented.

These sessions are created to address your specific struggles and customize your personal blueprint to skyrocket your breakthrough.

(Valued at $794)



Burning Questions? Looking for some feedback? Need an accountability partner? Join a community of like-minded women there for you, 24/7. In our Exclusive GroupMe Accountability Forum, your accountability partners and I will be fostering a thriving community that is here to help you!

(Valued at $594)

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What others are saying about Arrettres!

To have the marriage of our dreams we must RISE! Rise above that which we can not see. Rise above our own understanding. Rise above what the world tells us and choose the path of the unknown. Choose to turn it over to God and set the intention to invest in our marriage, ourself and our families. To reclaim our God-given strengths, step into our gifts and watch the miracle unfold. Coach Arrettres Hollins provides the inspiration and guidance to support this intention and empower us to see that which we can not on our own. To become the amazing and powerful women we were designed to be!!!!!

Dr. Shawn Horn

What I have learned about marriage! Whoop!! I have learned a lot.   First and foremost I have learned that marriage works!  And it will always work when you put God at the center of your union. Also, I have learned a lot on the duties of a wife to a husband, (he who finds a wife, finds a good thing) and I have learned to be a prayerful wife, a prayerful partner and how to treat my husband and my marriage.

Ann Kary

I’ve learned that love takes time.   If we take time for ourselves, the right person will come along.  I believe God helps with that process.  I am in a long-distance relationship and have learned the energy you put into a relationship is bound to spring forth Bliss.   This is definitely new for me, but, I’ve learned to be patient with myself.  I’ve heard that love is what you make it.   But, the truth of the matter is, I’ve learned a relationship is what you and your partner make of it.   Thank you so much.

Valencia Newton

Balanced Wife Life Academy will help you avoid…..

1. Breaking up your family and home over miscommunication.

2. Living in a miserable and loveless marriage.

3. Saying something you’ll regret or having your husband say you are nagging.

4. Doing irreparable harm to your bond and filing for an avoidable divorce.

5. Feeling like you need to hold in your frustration so you can avoid conflict.

This 4 module group coaching program provides the crucial elements necessary for your success as a wife and restoring your peace of mind by walking you through my transformational process.

So Let's Sum It Up!

It's important that you know the ENORMOUS value you'll get in this course.

By the end of this course, you will:

- Boldly speak up for yourself and express your expectations in marriage.

- Get clear about how to handle the current issues you have with your husband.

- Get rid of unnecessary stress and pressure created by a hefty to do list and no support from others.

- Avoid the pain & negative emotions of a strained marriage and possibly divorce.

- Finally be able to get that breakthrough in your life and marriage you have been praying for.

- Be the calm and balanced woman your family openly adores and needs.

Balanced Wife Life Academy will help you get your ENTIRE life together!

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Hey Beautiful!

I am so glad you made it to my page.  I’m Arrettres Hollins, the founder of Connecting Love And Marriage and The Ultimate Wives Club.   I help wives that are struggling in their marriage communicate more effectively, resolve conflict faster and reconnect with their husband.   

It isn’t an accident that you have arrived on this page and connected with me.  My goal is to show 1000 women how to transform their marriage.  You will be AMAZED by what God will do in your marriage when you take the pressure and stress off of you and allow him to do the heavy lifting.

Please know that I am praying for you, your marriage, and your husband.  I believe in YOUR MARRIAGE and what God is about to do!

Grab this exclusive rate and invest in your marriage today!

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