Reclaim Your Mental Clarity, Thrive Professionally, and Transform Your Home Life.......Even When Navigating Through A Tough Season Of Marriage.
The truth is roughly 65% of wives struggle with the painful recurring memories of their husband's past betrayal because they have not received practical proven strategies to accelerate their emotional and mental healing.
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This affects your ability to stay focused and function as a high-capacity leader in your field of expertise.
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You are now suffering in silence as the strong friend in your circle. Unable to find a safe space to be heard, supported, and guided through this season.
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You cannot concentrate on one thing without thinking about what your husband is doing when he is at work or not in your presence.
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Marriage counseling did not give you any peace of mind. Just more talking about what had happened and bringing up the feelings/emotions again.
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You’re sitting at your desk, trying to focus, but your mind keeps drifting to the unresolved conflict at home. The strain of your marriage is seeping into your work, and it’s affecting both your productivity and peace.
Many high-capacity wives are often overwhelmed by the pressure of balancing marriage, home, and a successful career.
It's time for you to focus on YOUR healing from marital betrayal, eliminate recurring anger and regain full control of your mental and emotional clarity so you can get back to living your life as the high powered CEO.
Stop acting like you have it all together Sis!
I KNOW you are strong, ambitious, and a natural leader. But, marital betrayal has rocked you to your core. It’s made you second guess many decisions you have made and sometimes who you are as a woman.
When tough seasons of marriage hit, it feels like the weight of the world is on your shoulders—and no one’s there to help you carry it.
You’re used to being the strong one, the problem solver, but what happens when your own marriage starts to feel like too much to handle?
You are hurting emotionally and mentally. You are struggling with trusting your husband and let’s be honest….God.
Don’t get me wrong, you are ride or die TEAM JESUS! And that’s what is adding to your guilt and shame.
✂️ It is affecting how you show up at work.
✂️ You are struggling with impostor syndrome because you carry yourself as though you have it all together.
✂️ You dread people finding out about the state of your marriage, thinking about you differently, and not taking you as seriously as a leader.
There is a part of you that asks….
Why did God allow this pain in my life???
There is nothing wrong with this question or addressing your pain.
I had to learn this the hard way.
As a leader in my church and high achieving woman in my industry, I had to mask my questions, fears, and doubts as I struggled with the pain of infidelity.
I tried my best to hold it all together and encourage other women while I was SUFFERING IN SILENCE!
Until I was tired of being sick and tired. Crying myself to sleep and asking God why???
Until I realized that I am truly the master of my peace, clarity, and joy!
No one is coming to rescue me! I had to tap into the POWER God already placed inside of me!
God blessed me with the gift of using biblical principles and practical real-life STRATEGIES that help wives heal so they can confidently get off the emotional roller coaster created by infidelity and regain control of their life.

This is what I know about you.
You definitely are not choosing to stay in your marriage because you don’t have any other options.
Let’s be clear. You are completely independent and have the means to leave if you want to.
You have CHOSEN to stay because you believe in the redemptive, restorative power of God!
But, you also know.......
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You can’t restore your marriage by yourself. It takes two people intentionally putting in the effort to rebuild the marriage stronger than before.
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You know you need help navigating through this season. A safe space where you receive guidance regarding your next steps and support as you continue to follow God.
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Without the right support, tough seasons of marriage can seep into every part of your life, leaving you stuck in a cycle of frustration and exhaustion. But it doesn’t have to be that way.
So you want to focus on YOUR healing so you can regain control of your life and confidently determine your next steps.... Without any regrets!
And that's why KINGDOM WIVES ACCELERATOR is designed just for you!
This transformative program is here to help you regain control and finally experience the peace and clarity you need to thrive.
This is for high-achieving women who is a leader in both her professional and personal life that are ready to:
- Completely annihilate recurring, painful thoughts so you can experience constant peace in your professional and personal life.
- Uplevel your faith to release prayers that get answered, promote healing and permanently transform your life.
- Elevate your clarity so you can create powerful boundaries that protect you and your family from unnecessary pain.
- Confidently communicate in a way that is effective, makes you feel heard, and gets you the results you truly desire.
The Kingdom Wives Accelerator isn’t another overwhelming to-do but rather a source of relief and clarity!
We get it—you life is already full. That's why this program is designed to ease the burden, not add to it.
You'll find the mental clarity and peace you've been craving without the overwhelm.
TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS IS A COMPLETE LIE!!!
Trying to power through the chaos isn’t working anymore. The harder you push, the more it drains you—leaving you mentally exhausted, disconnected from your family, and unable to focus at work.
This is why we leverage a strategic blend of biblical principles and proven practical techniques so you can....

Eliminate the painful recurring memories affecting your clarity which increases your ability to experience constant peace and happiness.

Annihilate the relentless anger and resentment you struggle with so you can resolve conflict with your husband without "popping off".

Heal from the fear of being hurt again so you can confidently restore your marriage to being stronger than it was before.

Embrace the true meaning of forgiving yourself, others and how to truly apply it to your daily life so you can confidently move forward.
Get ready to turn your entire life around with personalized guidance that align with your busy lifestyle and strong personality!!
In the Kingdom Wives, you'll learn how to navigate those tough moments without losing focus at work. This program will guide you in creating lasting peace in your marriage, so you can show up powerfully in both your personal and professional life.
HERE’S THE PROOF.
Working with Arrettres gave me a safe place to vent and express my pain without feeling judged. I didn't have to act like I had it all together with her. I felt empowered to speak up for myself and create boundaries in our marriage, and hold my husband accountable for his actions without being manipulative or controlling.
God used her coaching to save my life."
"As the first lady of a very large church, I had to hide my pain and embarrassment when I found out my husband was sleeping with one of our members. I had no one to talk to. Everyone tried to guilt me into ignoring the problem and excuse him because he is a pastor.
Beverly Knight
"Before I met Arrettres, I tried everything in my power to get my husband to be the man he promised he would be. Nothing worked. We were always arguing. I kept trying to control him and every aspect of our marriage.
Working with Arrettres showed me how to get out of God's way and allow him to do what needed to be done in my husband. I learned how to release control and fully trust God. I still can't believe the change that I now see in my husband. I'm only halfway through the program and my husband and I have decided to tear up the divorce papers and keep working on our marriage.
PRAISE GOD!"
Mellisa Miller
"I felt completely broken and humiliated when I found out about my husband's affair. I kept rehearsing my husband's affair over and over again in my head. I was consumed by constant pain and confusion because I still wanted my marriage to work. I just couldn't figure out how to make it happen. I felt alone! No one was able to help me release the emotional pain or the mental torment I was experiencing.
But, after working with Arrettres, I was able to finally feel like I was in control of my life again. I was able to let go of the assumptions of others and clearly do what I felt was best for myself and my family. My marriage has been restored.
God is good!"
Thomasina Walker
I want you to know this...
Yes, it is possible for you to experience peace & happiness DAILY.
Yes, it is possible for you to once again feel loved and cherished.
Yes, it is possible for you to regain your confidence & clarity!
YOU can STILL experience a soft life filled with luxury.
Yes, YOU can be stronger than before!
Even as you are going through the healing process!
If this resonates with you....
There's a spot waiting for you in Kingdom Wives!
Everyone relies on you, but who do you rely on? When you're constantly holding it all together, who holds you?
Are you ready to place yourself at the top of your busy to-do list so you can finally accelerate your healing, experience constant peace and regain control of your life?
Imagine having a space where you don’t have to be the ‘strong friend.’ Where you can let go of the pressure, reset your mind, and realign your life.
The Kingdom Wives Accelerator offers that space—where you’ll find the clarity, support, and peace to navigate this season without sacrificing your success.
What others are saying about working with Arrettres!
"Working with Arrettres changed my life! I couldn't believe how much healing occurred within the first week of receiving access to the lessons included with the mentorship.
Each coaching call made me feel empowered. The strategies Arrettres gave me were practical and easy to implement.
I was finally able to experience clarity and make tough decisions about my marriage. I feel like I am now in control of my life"
Tanisha Murrey
"My husband and I were struggling. We couldn't communicate properly and always ended up in a shouting match.
After using the strategies Arrettres covered in this program, things began to flow so much easier. I began to own my voice and communicate more effectively with my husband. He recently said he appreciated how I was speaking my mind and being clear with my requests. I totally see the difference in our relationship and feel like I am experiencing my Happily Ever After."
Brenda Dunbar
"Having a lady such as Arrettres come into my life to help guide me in the right direction, helped to build my confidence within myself, and to never give up on the gifts that were within me all along. I really thank God that I came into a connection with her. She has given me great insight on how to go about not only being a successful entrepreneur, but, also how to balance being a mother, student, and woman of faith. I have accomplished so much within the year and I know I needed that support and guidance from her. Arrettres is amazing!
Olivia Henry
The truth is just asking God to fix your situation isn't enough!
I want to share with you the ONLY faith-based coaching firm that focuses on helping wives accelerate their inner healing from infidelity.
You've already tried therapy, books, prayer, marriage conferences, etc.., and it's not your fault none of those things worked.
If you are ready to invest in REAL solutions from the #1 infidelity recovery strategist that has helped numerous wives heal and confidently determine their next steps in life and love.....This program was designed for you!
With our proven process we take the struggle out of experiencing complete healing with simple personalized strategies positioning you to be stronger and experiencing the life you truly desire.
We know you’re busy, which is why the Kingdom Wives Accelerator is tailored to fit into your already full life. Each part of the program is created with your schedule in mind—giving you the tools to transform both your home and professional life without feeling overwhelmed.
We specialize in......
Anger Management
To help you release bitterness so you communicate without "popping off".
Conflict Resolution
To help you resolve conflict faster and get the results you truly desire.
Eliminating Recurring Painful Thoughts
To eliminate triggers so you experience clarity as you navigate through this season.
Mental & Emotional Healing
To help you get off the emotional and mental roller coaster and experience constant peace!
We are able to do this with The Kingdom Wife Methodology which includes.....
SAFE SPACE & COMMUNITY
In addition to coaching with Arrettres, you'll join an amazing community of like-minded wives within our private group and receive the elevated support you need!
PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
The 12-month intensive provides a distinctive combination of spiritual practices and powerful resources that give you an actionable blueprint to heal from mental and emotional strongholds.
PERSONALIZED ACTION PLAN
You will have access to all content and recordings for one full year, making it easy for you to return to the lessons anytime and reinforce your learning. Plus, content is continually updated to align with individual issues.
More Success Stories!
I've known Arrettres since I was a child. I was a very difficult child. She didn't know it, but, she was always uplifting to me. Even if she just threw me a smile. I never saw her sweat or stress when things got crazy. Arrettres has always been a self-motivator and has a strong relationship with God which perhaps carried her to help others when she was tired. As I've grown into a woman she has done NOTHING less than inspire, encourage, uplift, motivate and push me. Although I'm still very stubborn her patience and drive to see me succeed have carried me when I wasn't able to carry myself. Arrettres is truly an inspiring woman of God, mentor, mother, wife, and friend.
Tamela Johnson
"My husband was cheating on me. It was a 5-year relationship he had with a coworker. I was devastated and immediately filed for a divorce. I was embarrassed and humiliated. I blamed the affair on myself. My self-esteem was low before I met him. After the affair, my self-esteem was nonexistent. Working with Arrettres helped me build up my self-esteem and see that I am valuable regardless of what my husband did. It taught me how to set healthy boundaries in relationships and set expectations for how I should be treated. It gave me permission to speak my truth."
Kristen Bowden
"After 6 years of a stressful marriage, I fell into a deep depression. I would barely get out of my bed or engage with my children. My hair started to fall out and I gained so much weight. I couldn’t seem to shake the grief of trying to fix my marriage and not being successful at it.
Arrettres helped me begin the healing process. It renewed my hope. I’ve learned to embrace my size and celebrate being a full-figured girl! It changed my perspective of my life and my husband. I was able to prioritize my well-being and while still being the wife God created me to be. We are still working on our marriage and things have gotten so much better."
Irine Joyce
We meet you exactly where you are
I want to take away the guesswork, eliminate further failed attempts and give you the proven strategies my clients have used to experience the life you've always dreamed of.
Imagine This:
- You're fulfilled, connected, and loved enjoying your life. You honor yourself and you are no longer afraid because you know you are aligned with God's plan for your life!
- You burn the superwoman cape. You allow your husband to take responsibility for himself. You honor yourself by setting boundaries to protect yourself from patterns and pain because you deserve peace in every area of your life.
- You no longer feel the pressure to shrink up. You're no longer afraid of your voice. You're honest without guilt or shame. Speaking your truth and emotional maturity are your jam because you have clarity regarding your needs and desires in relationships.
- Your faith has deepened because you know and fully expect God's promises, protection, and provision. You have the tools of transformation and you apply them. You trust yourself because you've allowed yourself to be honest and vulnerable.
You can make these changes in your life right now!
But, YOU have to take the first step.
With Kingdom Wives, your breakthrough is right at your fingertips.


Join Kingdom Wives today!
Choose the tier that best fits your goals and the level of support you’re looking for.
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BONUS #3 – Marriage Restoration Accelerator (Valued at $2997). Grab the secret sauce to the 5 prolific principles needed to restore your marriage and confidently lay the foundation of trust and love.
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Frequently asked questions.
I’ve invested in a lot of programs...why should I enroll in Kingdom Wives?
How do I know this will work for me?
Great question! Kingdom Wives is intentionally designed for high-achieving wives who, like you, are navigating the challenges of life and marriage while still striving for personal and professional success. What sets this program apart is its focus on addressing the root causes of your struggles, helping you regain mental clarity, peace, and spiritual strength. With practical strategies, personalized support, and a community of like-minded women, you’ll have everything you need to experience real transformation. If you’re committed to doing the work, I’m confident this will work for you.
What's the difference between this program and other coaching programs?
Kingdom Wives stands apart from other coaching programs because it’s specifically tailored to high-achieving wives who are balancing the demands of their personal and professional lives while navigating the challenges of marriage. Unlike many programs that offer general advice, Kingdom Wives provides a unique combination of practical strategies, personalized support, and a deep spiritual foundation. It’s not just about temporary fixes—it’s about creating lasting transformation, helping you reclaim your peace, mental clarity, and spiritual strength so you can thrive in every aspect of your life.
What happens if I don’t sign up?
If you choose not to sign up, you may continue to face the same struggles that are holding you back—feeling overwhelmed, lacking clarity, and not fully experiencing the peace and strength you desire. Kingdom Wives is designed to help you break free from those patterns and equip you with the tools to thrive, both personally and professionally. Without the support, practical strategies, and community we offer, it might take longer to find the healing and transformation you’re seeking. The question is: how much longer are you willing to wait to reclaim your peace and purpose?
How long is the program?
Kingdom Wives is a 12-month coaching program.
Are there live coaching sessions where I can directly ask Arrettres my questions or get guidance for my specific struggle?
Yes.
When are the Coaching Sessions?
ACCELERATOR LEVEL can schedule 1:1 sessions bi-weekly at your convenience.
How will I attend Coaching Sessions?
All sessions will be conducted via zoom.
What if I am unable to attend the group session?
Attending sessions is NOT mandatory. We understand that life gets busy and you might need to skip a session or two.
The program includes live coaching for you to use at your discretion. You do not have to attend every session. Refunds will not be given for missed/skipped sessions or lack of participation.
What is the format of each Coaching Session?
Each Kingdom Wives coaching session is designed to be powerful and focused. We start with high-level teaching on a specific strategy that addresses the challenges you’re facing, followed by personalized implementation guidance to ensure you can apply it to your life immediately. After that, we open the floor for a Q&A session, giving you the opportunity to ask questions and receive direct feedback on your unique situation. This format ensures you walk away with both the knowledge and the practical steps to create real, lasting change.
When can I start?
You can start as soon as you’re ready to take that next step toward reclaiming your peace and clarity. Once you enroll in Kingdom Wives, you’ll gain immediate access to all the resources, tools, and support within the program. Whether it’s through our live coaching sessions, exclusive content, or the supportive community, everything you need to begin your transformation is ready for you the moment you join.
Are all sessions virtual?
Yes, you can attend each session from any location where you have internet access.
Do you offer crisis calls?
Yes, I understand that sometimes you need immediate support during difficult moments. While Kingdom Wives focuses on long-term healing and growth, I do offer crisis calls for members who need urgent guidance. These calls provide a safe space to address immediate concerns, gain clarity, and receive personalized support when you need it most.
Is there a prayer group?
Yes, Kingdom Wives includes an exclusive prayer group where we come together to support each other in faith, share prayer requests, and cover one another in prayer. It’s a powerful, faith-filled community designed to help you stay spiritually grounded as you navigate your healing journey.
Is there a payment plan available?
Yes. You can join with our flexible monthly membership or take advantage of our Best Value annual membership. Contact me at connectingloveandmarriage@gmail.com for annual membership rates.
What if I need to cancel my membership early?
Is there a guarantee?
While I can’t guarantee specific outcomes since your transformation depends on your commitment and effort, what I can promise is that Kingdom Wives provides the tools, support, and personalized guidance you need to experience real, lasting change. With a proven framework, practical strategies, and a strong community, you’ll be fully equipped to reclaim your peace, clarity, and strength. Your success is our priority, and we’re here to walk with you every step of the way.
