The truth is roughly 65% of wives struggle with the painful recurring memories of their husband's past betrayal because they have not received practical proven strategies to accelerate their emotional and mental healing.

  • This affects your ability to stay focused and function as a high-capacity leader in your field of expertise.

  • You are now suffering in silence as the strong friend in your circle.  Unable to find a safe space to be heard, supported, and guided through this season.

  • You cannot concentrate on one thing without thinking about what your husband is doing when he is at work or not in your presence.

  • Marriage counseling did not give you any peace of mind.   Just more talking about what had happened and bringing up the feelings/emotions again.

It's time for you to focus on YOUR healing from infidelity, eliminate recurring anger and regain full control of your mental and emotional clarity so you can get back to living your life as the high powered CEO.
Stop acting like you have it all together Sis!

I KNOW you are strong, ambitious, and a natural leader.   But, infidelity has rocked you to your core.   It’s made you second guess many decisions you have made and sometimes who you are as a woman.

You are hurting emotionally and mentally.   You are struggling with trusting your husband and let’s be honest….God.

Don’t get me wrong, you are ride or die TEAM JESUS!   And that’s what is adding to your guilt and shame.

✂️ It is affecting how you show up at work.

✂️ You are struggling with impostor syndrome because you carry yourself as though you have it all together.

✂️ You dread people finding out about this affair thinking about you differently and not taking you as seriously as a leader.

There is a part of you that asks….

Why did God allow this pain in my life???

There is nothing wrong with this question or addressing your pain. 

I had to learn this the hard way.

As a leader in my church and high achieving woman in my industry, I had to mask my questions, fears, and doubts as I struggled with the pain of infidelity.

I tried my best to hold it all together and encourage other women while I was SUFFERING IN SILENCE!

Until I was tired of being sick and tired.  Crying myself to sleep and asking God why???

Until I realized that I am truly the master of my peace, clarity, and joy!

No one is coming to rescue me!  I had to tap into the POWER God already placed inside of me!

God blessed me with the gift of using biblical principles and practical real-life STRATEGIES that help wives heal so they can confidently get off the emotional roller coaster created by infidelity and regain control of their life. 

This is what I know about you.

You definitely are not choosing to stay in your marriage because you don’t have any other options.

Let’s be clear. You are completely independent and have the means to leave if you want to.

You have CHOSEN to stay because you believe in the redemptive, restorative power of God!

But, you also know.......

  1. You can’t restore your marriage by yourself. It takes two people intentionally putting in the effort to rebuild the marriage stronger than before.

  2. You know you need help navigating through this season. A safe space where you receive guidance regarding your next steps and support as you continue to follow God.

So you want to focus on YOUR healing so you can regain control of your life and confidently determine your next steps. Without any regrets!

And that's why KINGDOM WIVES is designed just for you!

Our prolific program is for high-achieving women who is a leader in both her professional and personal life that are ready to:

? Completely annihilate recurring, painful thoughts so you can experience constant peace in your professional and personal life.

? Uplevel your faith to release prayers that get answered, promote healing and permanently transform your life.

? Elevate your clarity so you can create powerful boundaries that protect you and your family from unnecessary pain.

? Confidently communicate in a way that is effective, makes you feel heard, and gets you the results you truly desire.


This is why we leverage a strategic blend of biblical principles and proven practical techniques so you can....

Eliminate the painful recurring memories affecting your clarity which increases your ability to experience constant peace and happiness.

Annihilate the relentless anger and resentment you struggle with so you can resolve conflict with your husband without "popping off".

Heal from the fear of being hurt again so you can confidently restore your marriage to being stronger than it was before.

Embrace the true meaning of forgiving yourself, others and how to truly apply it to your daily life so you can confidently move forward.

Get ready to turn your entire life around with personalized guidance that align with your busy lifestyle and strong personality!!

Working with Arrettres gave me a safe place to vent and express my pain without feeling judged. I didn't have to act like I had it all together with her. I felt empowered to speak up for myself and create boundaries in our marriage, and hold my husband accountable for his actions without being manipulative or controlling.
God used her coaching to save my life."

"As the first lady of a very large church, I had to hide my pain and embarrassment when I found out my husband was sleeping with one of our members. I had no one to talk to. Everyone tried to guilt me into ignoring the problem and excuse him because he is a pastor.

Beverly Knight

"Before I met Arrettres, I tried everything in my power to get my husband to be the man he promised he would be. Nothing worked. We were always arguing. I kept trying to control him and every aspect of our marriage.

Working with Arrettres showed me how to get out of God's way and allow him to do what needed to be done in my husband. I learned how to release control and fully trust God. I still can't believe the change that I now see in my husband. I'm only halfway through the program and my husband and I have decided to tear up the divorce papers and keep working on our marriage.

Mellisa Miller

"I felt completely broken and humiliated when I found out about my husband's affair. I kept rehearsing my husband's affair over and over again in my head. I was consumed by constant pain and confusion because I still wanted my marriage to work. I just couldn't figure out how to make it happen. I felt alone! No one was able to help me release the emotional pain or the mental torment I was experiencing.

But, after working with Arrettres, I was able to finally feel like I was in control of my life again. I was able to let go of the assumptions of others and clearly do what I felt was best for myself and my family. My marriage has been restored.
God is good!"

Thomasina Walker

I want you to know this...

Yes, it is possible for you to experience peace & happiness DAILY.

Yes, it is possible for you to once again feel loved and cherished.

Yes, it is possible for you to regain your confidence & clarity!

YOU can STILL experience a soft life filled with luxury.

Yes, YOU can be stronger than before!

Even as you are going through the healing process!

If this resonates with you....

There's a spot waiting for you in Kingdom Wives!

Are you ready to place yourself at the top of your busy to-do list so you can finally accelerate your healing, experience constant peace and regain control of your life?

What others are saying about working with Arrettres!

"Working with Arrettres changed my life! I couldn't believe how much healing occurred within the first week of receiving access to the lessons included with the mentorship.

Each coaching call made me feel empowered. The strategies Arrettres gave me were practical and easy to implement.
I was finally able to experience clarity and make tough decisions about my marriage. I feel like I am now in control of my life"

Tanisha Murrey

"My husband and I were struggling. We couldn't communicate properly and always ended up in a shouting match.

After using the strategies Arrettres covered in this program, things began to flow so much easier. I began to own my voice and communicate more effectively with my husband. He recently said he appreciated how I was speaking my mind and being clear with my requests. I totally see the difference in our relationship and feel like I am experiencing my Happily Ever After."

Brenda Dunbar

"Having a lady such as Arrettres come into my life to help guide me in the right direction, helped to build my confidence within myself, and to never give up on the gifts that were within me all along. I really thank God that I came into a connection with her. She has given me great insight on how to go about not only being a successful entrepreneur, but, also how to balance being a mother, student, and woman of faith. I have accomplished so much within the year and I know I needed that support and guidance from her. Arrettres is amazing!

Olivia Henry

The truth is just asking God to fix your situation isn't enough!

I want to share with you the ONLY faith-based coaching firm that focuses on helping wives accelerate their inner healing from infidelity.

You've already tried therapy, books, prayer, marriage conferences, etc.., and it's not your fault none of those things worked.

If you are ready to invest in REAL solutions from the #1 infidelity recovery strategist that has helped numerous wives heal and confidently determine their next steps in life and love.....This program was designed for you!

With our proven process we take the struggle out of experiencing complete healing with simple personalized strategies positioning you to be stronger and experiencing the life you truly desire.

We specialize in......

Anger Management

? To help you release bitterness so you communicate without "popping off".

Conflict Resolution

? To help you resolve conflict faster and get the results you truly desire.

Eliminating Recurring Painful Thoughts

? To eliminate triggers so you experience clarity as you navigate through this season.

Mental & Emotional Healing

? To help you get off the emotional and mental roller coaster and experience constant peace!

We are able to do this with The Kingdom Wife Methodology which includes.....


In addition to the 1:1 sessions with Arrettres, you'll join an amazing community of like-minded wives within our private Kingdom Wives Inner Circle group and receive the elevated support you need!


The 12-month intensive provides a distinctive combination of spiritual practices and powerful resources that give you an actionable blueprint to heal from mental and emotional strongholds.


You will have access to all content and recordings for one full year, making it easy for you to return to the lessons anytime and reinforce your learning. Plus, content is continually updated to align with individual issues.

I've known Arrettres since I was a child. I was a very difficult child. She didn't know it, but, she was always uplifting to me. Even if she just threw me a smile. I never saw her sweat or stress when things got crazy. Arrettres has always been a self-motivator and has a strong relationship with God which perhaps carried her to help others when she was tired. As I've grown into a woman she has done NOTHING less than inspire, encourage, uplift, motivate and push me. Although I'm still very stubborn her patience and drive to see me succeed have carried me when I wasn't able to carry myself. Arrettres is truly an inspiring woman of God, mentor, mother, wife, and friend.

Tamela Johnson

"My husband was cheating on me. It was a 5-year relationship he had with a coworker. I was devastated and immediately filed for a divorce. I was embarrassed and humiliated. I blamed the affair on myself. My self-esteem was low before I met him. After the affair, my self-esteem was nonexistent. Working with Arrettres helped me build up my self-esteem and see that I am valuable regardless of what my husband did. It taught me how to set healthy boundaries in relationships and set expectations for how I should be treated. It gave me permission to speak my truth."

Kristen Bowden

"After 6 years of a stressful marriage, I fell into a deep depression. I would barely get out of my bed or engage with my children. My hair started to fall out and I gained so much weight. I couldn’t seem to shake the grief of trying to fix my marriage and not being successful at it.

Arrettres helped me begin the healing process. It renewed my hope. I’ve learned to embrace my size and celebrate being a full-figured girl! It changed my perspective of my life and my husband. I was able to prioritize my well-being and while still being the wife God created me to be. We are still working on our marriage and things have gotten so much better."

Irine Joyce

We meet you exactly where you are

I want to take away the guesswork, eliminate further failed attempts and give you the proven strategies my clients have used to experience the life you've always dreamed of.

Imagine This:

- You're fulfilled, connected, and loved enjoying your life. You honor yourself and you are no longer afraid because you know you are aligned with God's plan for your life!

- You burn the superwoman cape. You allow your husband to take responsibility for himself. You honor yourself by setting boundaries to protect yourself from patterns and pain because you deserve peace in every area of your life.

- You no longer feel the pressure to shrink up. You're no longer afraid of your voice. You're honest without guilt or shame. Speaking your truth and emotional maturity are your jam because you have clarity regarding your needs and desires in relationships.

- Your faith has deepened because you know and fully expect God's promises, protection, and provision. You have the tools of transformation and you apply them. You trust yourself because you've allowed yourself to be honest and vulnerable.

You can make these changes in your life right now!

But, YOU have to take the first step.

With Kingdom Wives, your breakthrough is right at your fingertips.

ALL wives enrolled in Kingdom Wives will receive the following bonuses:

    • BONUS #1 – Strategic Advisory Sessions via. Kingdom Wives Inner Circle(Valued at $9,985). This includes bi-weekly coaching calls to help you implement the content and overcome any personal challenges you may experience.

    • BONUS #2 – Marriage Restoration Accelerator (Valued at $2997). Grab the secret sauce to the 5 prolific principles needed to restore your marriage and confidently lay the foundation of trust and love.

    • BONUS #3 – Complimentary Access to The Inner Healing Intensive (Valued at $3000). This prolific intensive will help you heal from infidelity and master the art of self-love so you can confidently determine your next steps in life and love.

    • BONUS #4 – Kingdom Wives Inner Circle (Support Group).  An exclusive members-only group (NOT A FACEBOOK GROUP) where you can get support, ask questions, and receive ongoing feedback from Arrettres. (Priceless)

Join Kingdom Wives today!


Monthly Payment Plan of $875

  • VIP Coaching Session: Biweekly 1:1 sessions with Arrettres to address your individual struggles and create your customized plan that aligns with your already busy lifestyle.

  • Access to KWIC membership vault: your complete coaching platform filled with resources, guides, training videos, ebooks + more

  • Strategic Advisory with Arrettres followed by open Q&A and planning session (every 2nd & 4th Monday at 7 pm CST)

  • The Inner Healing Intensive:  This prolific intensive will help you heal from infidelity and master the art of self-love so you can confidently determine your next steps in life and love.

  • Weekly: mindset, accountability, and customized implementation + direction for your marriage.

  • Exclusive members-only support group where you can get daily support, ask questions, and get feedback from Arrettres and fellow participants.


Annual Enrollment Of $10K

(Save $500)

  • VIP Coaching Session: Biweekly 1:1 sessions with Arrettres to address your individual struggles and create your customized plan that aligns with your already busy lifestyle.

  • Access to KWIC membership vault: your complete coaching platform filled with resources, guides, training videos, ebooks + more

  • Strategic Advisory with Arrettres followed by open Q&A and planning session (every 2nd & 4th Monday at 7 pm CST)

  • The Inner Healing Intensive:  This prolific intensive will help you heal from infidelity and master the art of self-love so you can confidently determine your next steps in life and love.

  • Weekly: mindset, accountability, and customized implementation + direction for your marriage.

  • Exclusive members-only support group where you can get daily support, ask questions, and get feedback from Arrettres and fellow participants.

Frequently asked questions.

I’ve invested in a lot of programs...why should I enroll in Kingdom Wives?

Three reasons:

1. I think the problem with a lot of programs is people spend too much time-consuming content when they should actually be working on their inner healing.

Kingdom Wives Inner Circler is designed as a tool you use while you work on your inner healing. You don’t have to sit down and binge-watch the content. You don’t have to go through it sequentially.

Working on how to resolve conflict? That’s when you open up the Foolproof methods to experience abundant happiness & peace in your life RIGHT NOW!

2. Looking to heal from the pain you’ve experienced from relationships? Check out the tutorials on that, and use the strategies to talk to your husband. More ease and more solutions. That’s why you should invest in your inner healing with Kingdom Wives Inner Circle.

​3. If you’re interested in the full-blown version of the Infidelity Recovery Kit that comes with accountability, community, and monthly coaching, get in on this deal.

How do I know this will work for me?

If you want God to restore your peace, clarity, joy and heal you from past experiences, this will work for you.

If you’re ready to take action, this will work for you.

Kingdom Wives Inner Circle will support you with resources and training for every part of restoring your inner healing.

What's the difference between this program and other coaching programs?

Most other programs focus on giving you surface solutions. For example, they will teach you how to resolve conflict and create boundaries.

But they skim over all the other things…and those other things are CRUCIAL.

Knowing the skill set is a must. But what’s the point if you don’t know how to address the ongoing memories that keep telling you to guard your heart?

How do you actually get your husband to be involved in restoring your inner healing?

Kingdom Wives Inner Circle teaches you everything. I give you ebooks and actual training on the strategies behind wildly successful boundaries that protect you from future pain.

The focus of Kingdom Wives Inner Circle is supporting you and your inner peace as a whole.

What happens if I don’t sign up?

You can take the information I’ve already shared with you and implement it on your own. But you won’t get the cutting-edge resources, tutorials, and videos the members get.

Kingdom Wives Inner Circle is distilled into the key, essential steps of building yourself emotionally and restoring your peace. There is no fluff in the program, no buffer content.


Just essential, sequential steps you need to take.

You can do it on your own, but it will probably take you longer and cost you more in the long run.

How long is the program?

  Kingdom Wives Inner Circle is a 12-month coaching program.

What are the BONUSES that come with this program?

ALL wives enrolled in this program will receive the following bonuses:

  • BONUS #1 Strategic Advisory Sessions (Valued at $9,985). This includes coaching calls to help you implement the content and overcome any personal challenges you may experience.

  • BONUS #2 – The Inner Healing Intensive (Valued at $3000). This prolific intensive will help you heal from infidelity and master the art of self-love so you can become the BEST version of yourself!

  • BONUS #3 – Priority Coaching at all Inner Healing Coaching Sessions (Valued at $2997).

Are there live coaching sessions where I can directly ask Arrettres my questions or get guidance for my specific struggle?

Yes.   During these sessions, I will break down a life-changing strategy you will implement to transform your life.  We will wrap up with a Q&A session regarding the strategy or any topic-related questions you may have.  All sessions are recorded and placed inside your Resource Center.

When are the Coaching Sessions?

You can schedule our 1:1 sessions bi-weekly at your convenience.

How will I attend Coaching Sessions?

The sessions will be conducted via zoom.  The link will be emailed to you when you schedule each session.

What if I am unable to attend the KWIC group session?

Attending sessions is not mandatory.  We understand that life gets busy and you might need to skip a session or two.

The program includes live coaching for you to use at your discretion.  You do not have to attend every session.   Refunds will not be given for missed/skipped sessions or lack of participation.

What is the format of each Coaching Session?

We will review your homework assignments and work on any problems you are currently struggling with.  I will give you strategies to implement based on your personality type and specific situation.  (No fluff or generic advice)

When can I start?

As soon as payment is received you will receive immediate access to all membership content and membership portal.

Are all sessions virtual?

Yes, you can attend each session from any location where you have internet access.

Do you offer crisis calls?

Yes, members can invest in 1:1 Crisis Calls if needed.  (Savings of 50% for members)  You will also receive help and support via our private Telegram group.

Is there a prayer group?

Members can submit prayer requests via our private Telegram group.  I will respond with a recorded or typed prayer pertaining to your request.  Others in the group may also respond with prayers of support and encouragement.

Is there a payment plan available?

Yes.  You can join with our flexible monthly membership or take advantage of our Best Value annual membership.

Are bonuses available to everyone that enrolls?

All bonuses are available to all members that pay in full.

Is there a guarantee?

Kingdom Wives Inner Circle works when the strategies are implemented.

So if you’re not planning on doing the work, don’t sign up because watching the training is not going to give you the life you want.

You have to put the work in. But once you put the work in, you’re going to see how powerful this is. And from what my clients tell me, this is absolutely more than fair.

Hey Sis!

I’m Arrettres Hollins, the founder of Kingdom Wives.  Over the years I’ve been labeled as a woman of influence that wears many hats.  I am a certified teacher, speaker, and faith-based relationship consultant.   As a wife, mother, and daughter of the King,  I use my gifts to inspire and encourage women to grow spiritually, practice self-care, and build a marriage you adore!    Yes, YOU can experience Endless Love AND Marriage with your hubby.   

I am practical and real.  No fluffy cliques or fillers over here.  You will always get modern solutions to your problems mixed with foundational truth.  It isn’t an accident that you have arrived on this page and connected with me.  My goal is to help you transform your life & marriage.  You will be AMAZED by what God will do in your marriage when you take the pressure and stress off of you and allow him to do the heavy lifting. 

After hanging with me, you will annihilate the obstacles that are standing between you and living the life of your dreams.   I’ve been called to help you unlock the power that God has already placed inside of you.    I’ve been helping wives achieve endless love for over 15 years, and believe even YOU can experience constant joy in your marriage.

Please know that I am praying for you, your marriage, and your husband.  I believe in YOUR MARRIAGE and what God is about to do for you!