Month: July 2020

Stop saying you are married for better or worse if you’re only committed to staying during the good times.

Yes, I said it.  Stop telling people that you got married for better or worse when you really have no intention of staying when things get worse.  In actuality, you will stay until you get tired of not getting things your way. This message is not for women that are being abused.  If you are […]

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Being intentional in your prayers will produce the transformation you need.

Asking your husband to stop lying or doing whatever he is doing that disrupts your joy is not transformative.  That is only dealing with the fruit of the problem.   If you want true transformation in your husband, you must deal with the root of the problem.   It’s a heart thing. The Bible says […]

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Stop procrastinating or walking in fear so you can get the healing you need.

Why are you waiting to get the healing you need?  Why are you procrastinating?  There are many opportunities for you to experience a breakthrough in your life right now. Yes, healing can be a process.  But, you must actually be engaged in the process.  You should be striving towards healing. Why healing?  Because you can’t […]

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Your current season of pain does not cancel God’s promises for your life!

God's promises

Sis, I understand that you may feel like you are up against a never-ending cycle of pain.  Like you keep having the same horrible dream over and over again.  You keep trying to shake yourself away, but, you feel bound by the pain in this nightmare.    But, I need you to really believe that […]

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Embrace this powerful principle that removes anxiety.

I use to be a control freak and anxiety was my middle name.  Everything had to be done exactly how I liked it.  I despised change.  I like to follow a plan as closely as possible.  There is no grey area and absolutely no wiggle room.  I had to create a brilliant plan of execution […]

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What can you do while waiting for God to answer your prayers?

I heard you, Sis.  You are waiting and waiting and waiting for a breakthrough.  Waiting for things to change.  Praying that God will move on your behalf.   Waiting for God to answer a prayer you’ve said 1000 times can feel frustrating.   Don’t get weary in well-doing!  Don’t throw in the towel thinking that you’ve reached […]

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