Get Back To The Basics Of Love And Romance With Ease

Almost every love story has the potential to begin as if it were a fairy tale. “Once upon a time, two people fell passionately in love and their love was unlike any others before theirs.” Relationship beginnings are wonderful and they can experience a ‘rebirth’ with a wedding, honeymoon, and the exciting first year of marriage. Once a couple begins to grow and their lives change with jobs, children, social activities, and other commitments, love and romance become more difficult to address.  And let’s not add serious conflict to the marriage.  Whew.  Sometimes love and romance seems to be lost altogether.  When ...
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The Transformative Power of Forgiveness In Marriage

You may have times when you’ve been hurt or feel angry toward your husband. They may have said something that devastated you or performed some behavior without thinking that triggered feelings of frustration and anger. And yet you still hope to stay married and restore your marriage. The wisest thing to do is to forgive whenever you have these experiences.  But forgiving often proves to be more challenging than you think!  Read these points about forgiveness to better understand why it’s best to forgive: Refusing to forgive harms you more than the individual you’re upset with. There’s an old saying ...
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(Video) 5 secrets to being a loving wife even when you are mad at him.

Whoever created the term "Live happily ever after" obviously wasn't have been married.   The concept of total marital bliss is very misleading.  Don't get me wrong now.  You will have amazing times with your husband.  Sharing life with the man you love can be a dream come true.  But, be clear.  At times, it could feel like a nightmare.  Disagreements and misunderstandings are inevitable.  He will say something wrong, do something, or just BE plain old wrong.  LOL  You don't have to allow this to affect how you love on him.  I am a witness.  Here are my "5 secrets ...
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4 Strategies To Diffuse Arguments In Marriage

(Video) 4 Strategies To Diffuse Arguments In Marriage

Differences in marriage are inevitable. You two will have disagreements. Why? Because, you are two people with different upbringings, expectations, and ways of thinking. But, there are healthy ways to express your different opinions without war breaking out in your home.   Here are 4 Strategies To Diffuse Arguments In Marriage! 1.Take the emotion out of the disagreement. Remain Calm!  Do not pop off, get loud or be dramatic in your expression.  This is HARD for me because I am a New Yorker.  We are dramatic in how we express ourselves.  I am always telling people you can see two friends ...
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4 Powerful strategies to increase communication in your marriage

(Video) 4 Powerful strategies to increase communication in your marriage

One of the most important lessons every married couple must learn is how to communicate effectively.  If not, you will either have one person that doesn't feel safe to express themselves or one person that doesn't feel heard or understood.   Either way, a lack of healthy communication creates a toxic environment where nothing is ever resolved.  But, it doesn't have to be that way.  Here are "4 Powerful Strategies To Increase Communication In Your Marriage".   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcmvXdb08no 1.Listen to hear, don't listen to respond Pay attention to what your spouse is saying.  Actually, listen to the words they are saying and ...
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Learning How To Overcome Self Sabotage And Internal Thoughts

It’s easy to forget just how powerful our subconscious minds can be. We are often completely unaware of how our actions (or inactions) are affecting our lives. We may complain that things never work out for us, we have bad luck, or we just don’t have what it takes to be successful. What we fail to realize is that we are actually creating our own circumstances through subconscious self-sabotage. In order to overcome self-sabotage we first have to use conscious awareness to explore our emotions and fears, and understand how they influence our actions. Once we have determined the cause ...
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30 Tips For Creating Healthy Boundaries In Your Marriage

If you are having issues with creating boundaries in your marriage, then this is perfect for you.   I created the 30 best tips that I have seen work when it comes to creating boundaries in your marriage. Here are my 30 tips to creating boundaries in your marriage & examples: Use Clear Communication. Get your thoughts together before you speak so that your husband can fully understand what you expect from him. Set Clear Consequences. Once you and your husband have discussed your boundaries—the "acceptable behaviors" and "unacceptable behaviors"—the next step is to be clear about what the consequences are ...
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9 Tips for Managing Your Marriage During the Pandemic

Marriage during the pandemic requires an effective balance of separateness and togetherness. The proper ratio varies from couple to couple. Too much time together can be as challenging as not enough. Divorce lawyers are reporting a huge increase in inquiries from unhappy people wanting a divorce. Luckily, there are steps anyone can take to decrease the odds of becoming one of those unhappy couples. Consider these tips to avoid allowing the pandemic to disrupt your marriage: 1. Have activities you do separately. Odds are that you’re spending plenty of time together. In your previous life, you might have struggled to ...
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Straight Forward Advice On Marriage That Really Works !

Let’s face it; if you’re looking for advice on marriage, you could spend DAYS researching on the internet without even scratching the surface of all the marriage advice that’s out there. But the sad fact is, that’s what most people in your situation do…they RESEARCH…but never ACT on the concepts and ideas they learn about because they come up with “excuses” for why THEIR situation is DIFFERENT. Well, let me tell you….your situation is NOT different. And as EXTREME as MY marriage was…my “situation” was NOT different either… So why am I qualified to give YOU advice on marriage? Because ...
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