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How to control the amount of healing, joy, and peace you experience.

You have total control of the amount of healing, joy, and peace you experience daily.  Don't over-complicate this.   Don't give your power away. "They made me mad" and "They aren't making me happy" are signs that you have given too much of your power away.  You put yourself in the position of a victim when you do that.  Plus, you won't be fully satisfied when you put all your hope and trust in your husband.   Yes, you are supposed to experience a certain level of love and peace in your marriage.  But, your husband should never be your source.  You ...
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How to Rekindle a Marriage After Cheating (Even If This Isn’t His First Affair)

Having a good marriage doesn't come by accident.  Especially after finding out your husband has cheated.  You will not want to be affectionate with your husband at first.  Honestly, it will probably make your skin crawl.  But, after he builds trust in your marriage and you heal from the affair, you will begin to desire your hubby again.  It just takes special attention to rebuild after cheating. Creating a great marriage after cheating is only done with intention.  When you intentionally do things that will bless your marriage, you create a healthy environment where love can continue to grow.  You ...
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Get rid of the stress of trying to fix your husband once and for all

Your life will be so much easier, smoother, and better If you stop trying to fix your husband.  I understand you see the greatness inside of him, or you just want him to stop doing some of the foolish things that drive you crazy.  But, there are a couple of things you need to understand.  Especially if he has a victim mentality and doesn't take responsibility for his actions. You can't fix your husband. There are people in this world who are accustomed to being the victim. They're accustomed to letting life happen to them. They're accustomed to playing the ...
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4 surefire ways to eliminate fear and anxiety during stressful seasons of life and marriage!

I am so excited about today and what God has planned for you! Believe it and receive it.   Remember, you have to see it before you see it.   That means you have to see it with God's eyes.   Whatever you are going through will pass. God's word remains true.   He will NEVER give you more than you can handle. NEVER! So if you are facing a situation that makes you feel like your back is up against the wall, this isn't the time for you to cower in the corner!   This is your time to put those boxing gloves on ...
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Is this one thing keeping you from experiencing inner healing?

Your heart has been so broken that you are stuck in survival mode.  You're trying to do everything you can to just make it through the day without breaking down.  Just make it through the next day without feeling depressed.  Experiencing inner healing now seems like an impossible dream. Check out this quick video for help, At some point, your self-esteem was shatter and now has you to a point where your self-worth was shattered.    Your husband's indiscretions now make you second guess your value and what life you need to accept for yourself.   You are questioning if you can ...
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How to trust God even when your life feels like it is falling apart.

Sometimes your life can feel like it is falling apart.  But, don’t be distracted.   Your faith starts to waver when you have spent too much time focusing on your issues instead of focusing on your creator.  Yes, you can trust God even when life feels like it is falling apart.  Realistically, if you are focused on God, he will change your perspective and view of what you are experiencing.  Don’t allow your emotions to throw you off.  Feelings can be misleading.  Get clarity and a clear vision of what God is trying to do in you and through you.  ...
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How to take charge of your life when your marriage makes you feel stuck.

Standing at a crossroad and trying to determine your next move can feel overwhelming.  Especially when you are about to make life-changing decisions that will impact your future.  When you are trying to take charge of your life, sometimes your marriage can make you feel stuck.  The bible gives you 3 clear instructions when making decisions about your life.    Trust in the Lord with all your heart     and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him,     and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6) Your first step is to trust in the Lord with ...
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How to start your healing process even if you can’t forgive your husband.

Getting past the pain of betrayal can be difficult, and forgiveness can seem impossible, which makes starting your healing process even more unrealistic. You feel locked in an endless well of bitterness, hurt, and blame that's left you feeling untrusting, depressed, and lonely.  Whether you decide to stay in your marriage or not, it is mandatory that you intentionally heal from the emotional, mental, and even spiritual pain you have experienced.  Harboring unforgiveness will cloud your judgment and affect your ability to embrace love fully.   This is why forgiveness is so important when you've been betrayed.  Forgiveness is not about ...
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2 Things To Remember When Your Husband Is Getting On Your Nerves.

I was listening to the radio as a young lady complained about her husband.  She expressed her need for a divorce and gave an extensive list of all the reasons she needed to leave.  I wasn't too shocked by her argument.  I was there before.  Feeling a void in marriage and expecting my husband to fill, it was my daily cry.  It wasn't until I matured, got a little wisdom, and truly understood who God is to me that I could view my husband the way God wanted me to.  I want to share the five things God wants you ...
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