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How to take charge of your life when your marriage makes you feel stuck.

Standing at a crossroad and trying to determine your next move can feel overwhelming.  Especially when you are about to make life-changing decisions that will impact your future.  When you are trying to take charge of your life, sometimes your marriage can make you feel stuck.  The bible gives you 3 clear instructions when making decisions about your life.    Trust in the Lord with all your heart     and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him,     and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6) Your first step is to trust in the Lord with ...
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How to start your healing process even if you can’t forgive your husband.

Getting past the pain of betrayal can be difficult, and forgiveness can seem impossible, which makes starting your healing process even more unrealistic. You feel locked in an endless well of bitterness, hurt, and blame that's left you feeling untrusting, depressed, and lonely.  Whether you decide to stay in your marriage or not, it is mandatory that you intentionally heal from the emotional, mental, and even spiritual pain you have experienced.  Harboring unforgiveness will cloud your judgment and affect your ability to embrace love fully.   This is why forgiveness is so important when you've been betrayed.  Forgiveness is not about ...
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2 Things To Remember When Your Husband Is Getting On Your Nerves.

I was listening to the radio as a young lady complained about her husband.  She expressed her need for a divorce and gave an extensive list of all the reasons she needed to leave.  I wasn't too shocked by her argument.  I was there before.  Feeling a void in marriage and expecting my husband to fill, it was my daily cry.  It wasn't until I matured, got a little wisdom, and truly understood who God is to me that I could view my husband the way God wanted me to.  I want to share the five things God wants you ...
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What can you do when your husband no longer makes you feel happy?

I didn't sign up for this!  This isn't what I expected!  Who is this person that I married??  These are all questions most women have asked at some point in their marriage.  At least I have.  And, I know I've made my husband ask these questions 1000 times.  LOL, It's inevitable.  The honeymoon is officially over, and reality hits.  And it hits hard!  You have two different people from two different backgrounds with two different upbringings and tell them they are now one.  What the world??   I have cried out, "My husband no longer makes me feel happy!" way more ...
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Are you a victim of self-sabotage?

Warning!  I have seen self-sabotage stumble my subscribers again and again, so I thought about writing a quick email to ensure that none of you end up being an unwitting victim of self-sabotage. Here are 3 phrases you may say that hint you could be a victim of self-sabotage. First, “I can’t control this situation.” Before you make any attempts to fix your problems, you convince yourself that you won’t’ win. Why?   Because you can’t control all aspects of your situation. You may even overthink because you are afraid and only see failure as the end result. This tragic mindset ...
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4 surefire ways to eliminate fear and anxiety during stressful seasons of life and marriage!

I am so excited about today and what God has planned for you! Believe it and receive it.   Remember, you have to see it before you see it.   That means you have to see it with God's eyes.   Whatever you are going through will pass. God's word remains true.   He will NEVER give you more than you can handle. NEVER! So if you are facing a situation that makes you feel like your back is up against the wall, this isn't the time for you to cower in the corner!   This is your time to put those boxing gloves on ...
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(Video) “10 Habits Of An Extremely Irresistible Wife!”

Why a habit?  A habit is something you do that is hard to give up.   It's a part of your life and comes naturally.   We have good habits and bad habits.   I want you to think about your habits within your marriage.   Hopefully, you already have good habits that draw your husband closer and closer to you.   But, we all have room for growth and having a little extra sweetness in our bag of tricks  So here are “10 Habits of Extremely Irresistible Wives!" Check out my full video here. So let's jump right on into the “10 Habits Of ...
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Never give up on having the marriage of your dreams

Never give up on having the marriage of your dreams All successful wives have had the words "give up" pop into their minds.  Most wives have thought about giving up.   Whether you are in the middle of a heated debate with your hubby or enjoying the Happy Wife Life.  At some point, you questioned your position in marriage.    That small voice (or sometimes LOUD voice) telling us to give up.  The journey is too hard, I will never make it, I am not good enough, maybe Gods' promise isn't for me.  In order to get over the desire to ...
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(Video) 5 Tips To Keep Your Spouse Madly In Love With You

From sun up to sundown, you and your spouse are running non-stop. Your busy life and everything on your to-do list consumes your time, energy, and emotions.   Between taking care of your children, maintaining a home, and earning a living, it is easy for you to overlook connecting with your spouse daily.   If you are not careful, you two will gradually drift further and further apart.   That's why it is so important that you are intentional about connecting with your spouse and wooing them the same way you did before you said I do.  Here are "5 Tips To Keep ...
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