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The Transformative Power of Forgiveness In Marriage

You may have times when you’ve been hurt or feel angry toward your husband. They may have said something that devastated you or performed some behavior without thinking that triggered feelings of frustration and anger. And yet you still hope to stay married and restore your marriage. The wisest thing to do is to forgive whenever you have these experiences.  But forgiving often proves to be more challenging than you think!  Read these points about forgiveness to better understand why it’s best to forgive: Refusing to forgive harms you more than the individual you’re upset with. There’s an old saying ...
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(Video) 5 secrets to being a loving wife even when you are mad at him.

Whoever created the term "Live happily ever after" obviously wasn't have been married.   The concept of total marital bliss is very misleading.  Don't get me wrong now.  You will have amazing times with your husband.  Sharing life with the man you love can be a dream come true.  But, be clear.  At times, it could feel like a nightmare.  Disagreements and misunderstandings are inevitable.  He will say something wrong, do something, or just BE plain old wrong.  LOL  You don't have to allow this to affect how you love on him.  I am a witness.  Here are my "5 secrets ...
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4 Strategies To Diffuse Arguments In Marriage

(Video) 4 Strategies To Diffuse Arguments In Marriage

Differences in marriage are inevitable. You two will have disagreements. Why? Because, you are two people with different upbringings, expectations, and ways of thinking. But, there are healthy ways to express your different opinions without war breaking out in your home.   Here are 4 Strategies To Diffuse Arguments In Marriage! 1.Take the emotion out of the disagreement. Remain Calm!  Do not pop off, get loud or be dramatic in your expression.  This is HARD for me because I am a New Yorker.  We are dramatic in how we express ourselves.  I am always telling people you can see two friends ...
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I'm Arrettres.

I help confident wives that excel at work & ministry, but struggle in their marriage because of the fog created by their husband’s affair.  I am gifted at discerning the root of unresolved problems while addressing overlooked red flags.  This enables wives to experience success at home and in their marriage.  My superpower is empowering wives to experience the divine clarity and healing needed to reconcile with their husband.

My coaching is a dynamic combination of biblical principles and practical solutions.  No fluffy church cliques.  Just clear and precise strategies to overcome your most pressing obstacles.   I use my signature framework, The Rapid Restorative Method to help my clients accelerate their healing & clarity.

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