Over the last few days, you’ve been learning how to ignite romance back into your marriage by catering to his manly ego. lol. If you missed the previous lesson –> CLICK HERE TO READ IT
Now this time you’re going to find out how to get him to love you in a way that means the most to you.
But before we do that, let me remind you about BLISS. If you’ve been trying to ignite romance into your marriage but not having much luck with it, then this is exactly what you need to turn things around.
That’s because BLISS is different from all the other guides that you’ve ever encountered. Instead of hoping and praying that one day your husband just wakes up and becomes romantic, BLISS helps you spark his curiosity by positively stroking his male ego.
And you know what?
It works like crazy. Those who’ve tried it say their husbands are more attentive.
They’re saying it’s the best way to keep your husband engaged in the relationship. And they’re even saying that this is the workbook that’s going to keep women feeling cherished by their husband even after many years of marriage.
I know those statements sound like some pretty big claims. But you don’t have to take my word for it that BLISS works. That’s why I encourage you to watch the video on this page: Marriage Minute with Arrettres
There you’ll see in this video, I am giving you 3 quick tips that will help you stay connected with your Boo.
So check it out — you’ll be glad you did. Here’s the link: Marriage Minute with Arrettres
And now for today’s tip…
Tell your husband exactly what he can do that will help you feel loved by him. Be very specific when you tell him what makes you feel emotionally connected to him. I get it. Yes, you are thinking he should know this by now. He didn’t need help when he was dating you. You want him to know what to do without you having to tell him.
Let’s be real for a minute.
Example: When I was in my twenties, I didn’t like fresh flowers or feel special when someone bought some for me. It just wasn’t my thing. But, now that I am here in my 40’s, I ADORE everything about fresh flowers. When I didn’t share this information with my husband, he based all gift-giving on our history. I was disappointed when he didn’t show up with a bouquet of flowers. When I decided to share my new expectations with him, that gave him the opportunity to rise to the occasion and show me love in a way that makes me feel most love.
When we were dating, I ALWAYS wanted to go out. Movies, dinner, night clubs, you name it, I wanted to be there with him. But, now??? Honey, let me tell you. Netflix and chill is my best friend and favorite date night. But, my hubby would only know that because I’ve expressed this to him.
So instead of expecting him to automatically know what you want for your next special occasion or how you want to be loved daily, tell him!
If you want him to ask about your day when you come home, tell him!
If you want him to cuddle with you on the couch, tell him!
If you want him to grab your bootie while your washing dishes, TELL HIM!
That’s it for this time.
Stay blessed Sis!
P.S Don’t forget to check out BLISS so you can start to ignite romance in your marriage and feel emotionally connected to your hubby.
Here’s that link again: BLISS