Having a good marriage doesn’t come by accident. Great marriages are created with intention. When you intentionally do things that will bless your husband and marriage, you create a healthy environment where love can continue to grow. You want to create healthy habits that will naturally enhance your marriage and continually draw your husband closer to you. Consistency is the key!
But, don’t worry if you got distracted with life and didn’t consistently create a healthy environment for you two to stay connected. Reconnecting with your hubby doesn’t have to be expensive or time-consuming. It’s the little daily habits that will drastically impact your marriage and draw your husband closer to you.
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This will teach them how to honor and respect your husband.
Even if you don’t understand or agree with his dreams. As long as it isn’t dangerous or going to negatively impact your home, give him a break.
(Even if he is not funny, lol)
Tell him you are in it for the long haul. Remind him that you are going to stick by him during the ups and downs of marriage.
This does not have to be a hugely expensive trip. This can be a simple walk in the park while holding hands and flirting with each other.
I’m not talking about a little tap. I’m talking about reminding him of those newlywed years. Get close and make it a good one. Linger for a while. Don’t rush it.
You don’t have to be abrasive or harsh. The truth has its own sting all by itself. If you are harsh or aggressive in your presentation, you risk him shutting down and not receiving what you are saying.
Those little things he does to ignore you….learn to overlook them. If they are not going to harm you or your family, let it slide.
Thank him for something that he has done for you or your family. Show appreciation.
Give him a compliment. Boost his ego
It is so easy for us to find what is wrong with our husband, home, life, job, kids, etc. etc. Choose to be intentional about looking for and finding the good in every situation you encounter.
Just sit on the couch and cuddle.
This can be either together or alone.
I know you have 1001 things running around in your head. Your to-do list is a mile long and you feel like you don’t have time to sit still for 10 minutes while he talks to you about the basketball game he just finished watching. Make time for him. Even when you don’t care about what he is saying…ie the basketball game. Just listen. This reminds him that you are there when he needs you.
This webinar will cover:
If you are a wife that is struggling with having tough conversations with your husband, you need to attend this free event. Just enter your name and email below and I will email the webinar to you.
Stepford Wives vs. Strong Willed Wives
How to settle disagreements without losing your identity.
As seen on:
Queenish Women's Empowerment Expo
Global Power Tours
In this webinar, you will learn:
Secret #1 - The secret to resolving conflict without yelling. (This works even when you're right!)
Secret #2 - Silent treatment not working? The proven strategy that strong willed wives use to resolve conflict.
Secret #3 - The Venus Fly Trap: You'll never be accused of nagging again when you do this!
Disclaimer - This Wifey Challenge is not for women that are being physically, mentally or emotionally abused. If you are experiencing any of these, get help. There are churches and christian community organizations for women that are in abusive relationships. Seek them for guidance and assistance in creating healthy boundaries.