(Video) 19 Easy Habits That Will Instantly Draw Your Husband Closer To You!


Having a good marriage doesn’t come by accident.  Great marriages are created with intention.  When you intentionally do things that will bless your husband and marriage, you create a healthy environment where love can continue to grow.  You want to create healthy habits that will naturally enhance your marriage and continually draw your husband closer to you.   Consistency is the key!

But, don’t worry if you got distracted with life and didn’t consistently create a healthy environment for you two to stay connected.   Reconnecting with your hubby doesn’t have to be expensive or time-consuming.   It’s the little daily habits that will drastically impact your marriage and draw your husband closer to you.

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1. Respect him.
2. Pray with him.
3.  Speak highly of him in front of your children.

This will teach them how to honor and respect your husband.

4.  Support his dreams and encourage him to go after them.

Even if you don’t understand or agree with his dreams.  As long as it isn’t dangerous or going to negatively impact your home, give him a break.

5. Build him up.
6. Forgive him when he falls short.
7. Learn to laugh with him.

(Even if he is not funny, lol)

8. Say I’m sorry and mean it.
9. Be determined to love each other.

Tell him you are in it for the long haul.  Remind him that you are going to stick by him during the ups and downs of marriage.

10. Schedule some alone time where you two just get away.

This does not have to be a hugely expensive trip.  This can be a simple walk in the park while holding hands and flirting with each other.

11. Kiss him like you mean it!

I’m not talking about a little tap.  I’m talking about reminding him of those newlywed years.   Get close and make it a good one.  Linger for a while.  Don’t rush it.

12. Gently tell him the truth.

You don’t have to be abrasive or harsh.  The truth has its own sting all by itself.   If you are harsh or aggressive in your presentation, you risk him shutting down and not receiving what you are saying.

13. Learn to ignore the small stuff.

Those little things he does to ignore you….learn to overlook them.  If they are not going to harm you or your family, let it slide.

14. Be grateful.

Thank him for something that he has done for you or your family.   Show appreciation.

15. Say something nice to him.

Give him a compliment.  Boost his ego

16. Find the good in every situation.

It is so easy for us to find what is wrong with our husband, home, life, job, kids, etc. etc.  Choose to be intentional about looking for and finding the good in every situation you encounter.

17. Have regular cuddle time.

Just sit on the couch and cuddle.

18. Pray for each other.

This can be either together or alone.

19. Let him talk while you actively listen.

I know you have 1001 things running around in your head.  Your to-do list is a mile long and you feel like you don’t have time to sit still for 10 minutes while he talks to you about the basketball game he just finished watching.   Make time for him.  Even when you don’t care about what he is saying…ie the basketball game.  Just listen.  This reminds him that you are there when he needs you.

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  • Silent treatment not working?  The proven strategy that strong-willed wives use to resolve conflict.
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2 thoughts on “(Video) 19 Easy Habits That Will Instantly Draw Your Husband Closer To You!

  1. Kim says:

    Love the advice. Im in a relationship that’s becoming serious. But we ate experience the communication blocks, and I don’t want to walk away as I have done in the past. I’m praying that applying some of the things I’ve read here will help. Thanks

    1. admin says:

      I am so sorry you are experiencing communication blocks. Yes, applying some of the things from this post will help you. Are there any other strategies you’re using to overcome these blocks?

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