If you are willing to open up yourself to healing,

you can transform your marriage and fall in love again!

Think about where your life is right now……

Can you truly say that you’re happy with your marriage and your emotional health right now?

You might have given up on ever feeling joy in your relationship.

Maybe you're wondering...

"Will I ever get over this?"

"When will the memory of his actions stop hurting?"

"What if I forgive him and they hurt me again?"

"How can I let go of all this pain? I've carried it for so long!"

"Am I even worthy of being loved?"

Let me be honest with you, I was right where you are.

I thought I would never feel loved!

But I didn't wait for a man to repair all my broken pieces and love me.

I stepped out on faith determined to do the work so I could fully heal!

And, I was finally able to get rid of years of baggage while everything that I dreamed about and wanted for my marriage became my reality!

And Now It's Your Turn!

Ultimate Wife Academy is a 90 Day High-End Coaching and Mentorship program for wives that are ready to heal from emotional trauma, resolve conflict more effectively and restore their marriage.

What's Included?

Everything You Need (and Much More) in One Place!

Marriage Mentorship & Interactive Coaching for the duration of your enrollment.

(Valued at $3988)

Bi-weekly Group Coaching Calls for the duration of your enrollment.

(Valued at $1988)

Unlimited email coaching with 24 hour response time for the duration of your enrollment.

(Valued at $497)

Access to our Ultimate Wives 30 Day Challange

(Valued at $97)

All modules of Ultimate Wives Academy

(Lifetime access valued at $997)


My husband was cheating on me.  It was a 5 year relationship he had with a coworker.   I was devastated and immediately filed for a divorce.   I was embarrassed and humiliated.  I blamed the affair on myself.  My self esteem was low before I met him.   After the the affair, my self esteem was non existent.   This program helped me build up my self esteem and see that I am valuable regardless of what my husband did.   It taught me how to set healthy boundaries in relationships and set expectations for how I should be treated.   It gave me permission to speak my truth.   My husband ended up trying to come back home and I was strong enough to give him the list of dealbreakers I created in lesson 13.   He couldn’t commit to rebuilding trust, so I wished him well in life.  lol

Lakeisha Rawlings

After 6 years of a stressful marriage, I fell into a deep depression.  I would barely get out of my bed or engage with my children.   My hair started to fall out and I gained so much weight.  I couldn’t seem to shake the grief of trying to fix my marriage and not being successful at it.   Working with Arrettres helped me begin the healing process.   The best part about it for me was the constant reminders to reconnect with God and reading the affirming scriptures daily.  It renewed my hope.  I’ve learned to embrace my size and celebrate being a full figured girl!    It changed my perspective of my life and my husband.   I was able to prioritize my well being and while still being the wife God created me to be.  We are still working on our marriage and things have gotten so much better.

Lisa Banks

I had such a hard time asserting myself in my marriage.  With 13 years of marriage under my belt, I remained silent so much in my marriage, I didn’t know how to make sure my voice was heard.  I was spinning in circles trying to do everything for my children.  I felt like a constant doormat and had no say.   I didn’t want it to be that way anymore because I also felt like my husband was no longer respecting me as his wife.  I was neglecting him by trying to be a super mom.  This course helped me find my voice.  It taught me how to delegate and no longer feel like everyone’s maid.  PLUS, the trick Arrettres taught regarding how to get your husband to help out around the house REALLY WORKED!  My husband now helps out with the laundry and cooks dinner three times a week.

Beverly Princeton


My transformative mission is simple!

To help you quickly heal from past and current wounds that are negatively affecting your life and marriage so you can restore your marriage.

I’m going to teach you everything I know so you can experience a total transformation.

Module #1 - Mindset

(3-week lessons)

By the end of this module, you will...

- Become mentally and emotionally stronger so you can move on and no longer let negative experiences define you.

- Never experience the grief, anger, and anxiety you are struggling with because you just can’t seem to forgive your offender.

- Release the grip and effect that depression and low self-worth have and trust your ability to make the best relationship decisions for yourself.

- Eliminate negative belief systems and strongholds that are killing your marriage so you can fully experience constant joy.

Module #2 - The Healing & Restorative Process

(3-week lessons)

By the end of this module, you will...

- Use My 4 Part Formula to virtually heal from all childhood trauma and violations in your marriage.

- No longer feel neglected or taken advantage of by your husband as you create an environment where he loves and continually nourishes your relationship.

- Virtually eliminate the memories and emotions associated with your most painful experiences.

Implement consistent strategies that will help you gain peace of mind regarding the status of your marriage….even after you have lost hope.

Module #3 - Your Needs & Expectations

(3-week lessons)

By the end of this module, you will...

- Address all fears regarding negative behavior reoccurring in your marriage and eliminate the constant feeling of fighting for your marriage by yourself.

- Connect with your husband through deeper communication and remove the fear that he will cheat.

- Prevent your husband from dismissing your feelings and opinions while you convey deal-breakers and standards for your marriage.

- Love yourself more and cater to your own needs while attracting more intimacy and affection from your husband.

Module #4 - Conflict & Your Heart

(3-week lessons)

By the end of this module, you will...

- Avoid being labeled as a “nag” as you freely speak your truth and end all conversations with a doable solution.

- Eliminate the financial strain and embarrassment of a painful divorce by reconnecting with your husband.

- Create consistency and boundaries that make you feel comfortable so you can feel safe Fully forgiving your spouse.

- Stop the cycle of having the same unresolved argument so you can get out of your own head and conquer the crippling fear of being disappointed again.

This High-End Coaching and Mentorship Is For You If ...

- You feel insecure because you constantly compare yourself to other women you think your husband could be attracted to.

- You have trust issues because of negative experiences stemming from your childhood and current relationship.

- You feel broken and at the point of letting go of your self and/or your marriage because there is no hope.

- Your husband neglects you which makes it hard to look around and see others experiencing love and affection from their spouse.

You are tired of hurting and need to experience a positive change in your marriage!

But wait.... there's more!

Fast Action Bonuses!

Fast Action Bonus #1

Balanced Wife Life

Balanced Wife LIfe is a self-paced online course that will teach you my 4 step signature system to overcoming obstacles in marriage, eliminate overwhelm from being pulled in too many directions, and finally reconnecting with their husband in a meaningful.

Fast Action Bonus #2

Ultimate Wife Success Kit

Ultimate Wife Success Kit includes 4 different marriage training bundles that include 20 videos and 10 ebooks that will cover the 4 main areas that every marriage struggles with, help you restore your marriage and have your husband focused on loving you!

Meet your Marriage Mentor!

Arrettres Hollins is known as a Prayer Warrior, Wife Coach and founder of the Ultimate Wife 30 Day Challenge.

A force to be reckoned with this woman has been labeled as a Powerful Woman of Influence that wears many hats. As seen on Queenish Women's Empowerment Expo, FabWives, Global Power Tours, she is a certified teacher, speaker, and faith-based relationship consultant.

This wife, mother, and daughter of the King uses her gifts to inspire and encourage women to joyfully walk in the fullness of who God created them to be.

Due to the struggles and burdens of love and marriage, many women have lost vision. You look within and no longer see the Queen you were created to be. Arrettres believes it is her responsibility to help you take the scales of heartache and disappointment off your eyes and point you in the direction where all your healing, love and guidance is….God!

She is practical and real. You will always get a healthy dose of reality checks and eye opening moments when you engage with her. She is human with real feelings and emotions. Arrettres believes in being transparent through her journey and struggles of marriage while trying her best to follow Christ. Her mission is to empower women to find peace, love, and joy as they overcome the challenges they are facing.

What others are saying about Arrettres?

To have the marriage of our dreams we must RISE! Rise above that which we can not see. Rise above our own understanding. Rise above what the world tells us and choose the path of the unknown. Choose to turn it over to God and set the intention to invest in our marriage, ourself and our families. To reclaim our God-given strengths, step into our gifts and watch the miracle unfold. Coach Arrettres Hollins provides the inspiration and guidance to support this intention and empower us to see that which we can not on our own. To become the amazing and powerful women we were designed to be!!!!!

Dr. Shawn Horn 

What I have learned about marriage! Whoop!! I have learned a lot.   First and foremost I have learned that marriage works!  And it will always work when you put God at the center of your union. Also, I have learned a lot on the duties of a wife to a husband, (he who finds a wife, finds a good thing) and I have learned to be a prayerful wife, a prayerful partner and how to treat my husband and my marriage.

Ann Kary

I’ve learned that love takes time.   If we take time for ourselves, the right person will come along.  I believe God helps with that process.  I am in a long distance relationship and have learned how to communicate my needs and expectations clearly and allowing him to accomodate.   The energy you put into a relationship is bound to spring forth Bliss.   This is definitely new for me, but, I’ve learned a lot and I’m willing to give it a try.  I’ve heard that love is what you make it.   But, the truth of the matter is, I’ve learned a relationship is what you and your partner make of it.   Thank you so much.

Valencia Newton

Ultimate Wife Academy works for wives even if they have tried:

- Desiring your husband and ignoring how broken your marriage really is.

- Counseling, but, you were the only one putting in the work.

- The silent treatment & withholding sex, but, tension continued to build in your relationship.

- Communicating, but, you feel your husband doesn’t listen or retain what you are saying.

- Praying that God would fix your husband, but, your prayers are not being answered.

- Nothing because you’ve given up on believing that things would get better.

It is time for you to stop fighting like a victim and let me show you how to use the power that God has already placed inside of you to restore your marriage!

Ultimate Wife Academy is a High-Level Mentorship with Transformative Coaching for Serious Women and Life-Changers Only!
You Have Two Options to Work with Me.

Fast Action Enrollment

This One Time Enrollment into

Ultimate Wife Academy along with both

Fast Action Bonuses #1 and #2 is.....


(Regular Price is $2997)

Monthly Enrollment

This 10-month investment plan

includes enrollment into

Ultimate Wife Academy.


(Fast action Bonuses are not included in the monthly program)

I love when I get messages like this!!!

Sooooo, I wanted to give you a praise report.   I started doing a lot of the tips you posted for my husband like affirming him and praying for him.  To be honest, I just forgave him for all the years of hurt, pain, and anger acquired in our marriage.  I feel so free!  God is good!  My husband started going to counseling on his own.  His behavior towards me changed.  He is a Christian but was arrogant, controlling and mean.  I was going to leave, BUT God!

I began to praise and worship more and literally cry out for help, wisdom, and breakthrough.  I showed him respect when he least deserved it.  He began to change.  He use to walk away or put his hand up to my face when I had an attitude whether warranted or not.   My husband is now giving me my love language on a regular basis.  It’s not like him at all.  He was so selfish.  All I can say is, God is good and so faithful.  Thank you for your ministry, support and encouragement!

Tiffany Fields-Moore

I’ve known Arrettres since I was a child. I was a very difficult child. She didn’t know it, but, she was always uplifting to me. Even if she just threw me a smile. I never saw her sweat or stress when things got crazy. Arrettres has always been a self motivator and has a strong relationship with God which perhaps carried her to help others when she was tired. As I’ve grown into a woman she has done NOTHING less than inspire, encourage, uplift, motivate and push me. Although I’m still very stubborn her patience and drive to see me succeed has carried me when I wasn’t able to carry myself. Arrettres is truly an inspiring woman of God, mother and friend.

Amber Williams

Having a lady such as Arrettres come into my life to help guide me in the right direction, helped to build my confidence within myself, and to never give up on my gifts that were within me all along. She is direct, sincere, honest and gave me the strength to face situations in my life that I have tried to ignore for years. I really thank God that I came into connection with her. She has given me great insight on how to go about not only being a successful entrepreneur, but, also how to balance being a mother, student, and woman of faith. I have accomplished so much within the year and I know I needed that support and guidance through her. Arrettres is simply amazing!

Tanecia Lewis

But let's be clear.....this is not for everyone!

I'll be the first to let you know that this high-end coaching and mentorship might not be a good fit for everyone.

I'm going to be totally honest with you. This customized course is being offered at a special rate because I want to make sure that I address YOUR specific needs and challenges.

I am only looking for a select number of women who are ready to dig deep. Wives who are serious and ready to stop pointing the finger at their husband, or attempting other solutions that haven't produced lasting results and are delaying real transformation in their marriage.

Be My Next Success Story!

I would love to be your mentor and introduce you to a better way of healing from past trauma, resolving conflict more effectively and reconnecting with your hubby!

What if Ultimate Wife Academy helps you turn your marriage into everything you have been dreaming of?

What if Ultimate Wife Academy helps you finally breakthrough and become the amazing wife you desire to be?

What if Ultimate Wife Academy helps you finally heal from the pain and memories that keep you from enjoying your marriage?

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain!

Don't miss your chance to finally start living the life that you deserve!

*** Enrollment is Limited and Will Sell Out Quickly! Enroll Today! ***

Email connectingloveandmarriage@gmail.com with questions

Fast Action Enrollment

This One Time Enrollment into

Fast Action Bonuses #1 and #2 is.....

Ultimate Wife Academy along with both


(Regular Price is $2997)

Monthly Enrollment

This 10-month investment plan

includes enrollment into

Ultimate Wife Academy.


(Fast action Bonuses are not included in the monthly program)

Hey Beautiful!

I am so glad you made it to my page.  I’m Arrettres Hollins, the founder or Connecting Love And Marriage and The Ultimate Wives Club.   I help wives that are struggling in their marriage communicate more effectively, resolve conflict faster and reconnect with their husband.   

It isn’t an accident that you have arrived on this page and connected with me.  My goal is to show 1000 women how to transform their marriage.  You will be AMAZED by what God will do in your marriage when you take the pressure and stress off of you and allow him to do the heavy lifting.

Please know that I am praying for you, your marriage, and your husband.  I believe in YOUR MARRIAGE and what God is about to do!

Grab this exclusive rate and invest in your marriage today!

Remember....you need to act quickly because spots always fill up quickly when this offer is made.

Email connectingloveandmarriage@gmail.com with questions