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Resolve conflict in your marriage and get your point across so that your husband hears your concerns?

What is Conversations That Win?

Conversations That Win is a self-paced, online Group Coaching Program

designed to help you virtually eliminate unresolved conflict in marriage

and settle disagreements without losing your identity.

Why I created the Conversations That Win Group Coaching Program?

I was tired of yelling. My blood pressure was high. My hair was falling out. I was stressed. I had to figure out how to have tough conversations with John without him shutting down and me yelling until I felt like I was going to have a stroke. Our methods to resolve conflict would either have us living like roommates or filing for divorce. We had to learn how to come up with solutions to our problems so we can stop having the same disagreements.

That’s when I got serious about learning how to resolve conflict without feeling like I was letting go of my feminine power. I read books, got a mentor, and most importantly, I allowed God to give me a specific strategy that would help us get to the root of issues that came up without John shutting down or me popping off.

AND IT WORKED!!

John and I were finally able to have tough conversations without them spiraling out of control. We focused on getting to the root of the problem without attacking each other. I learned how to control my anger and not pop off because I wasn’t getting the answers I wanted. He learned how to stay engaged in the discussion and come up with solutions to our problems. Sarcasm and hitting below the belt became a thing of the past.

I became emotionally and mentally stronger so that I could handle stressful situations better. I also learned the real secret to silence and it had NOTHING to do with the silent treatment we normally give men.

I’ve perfected this system over the years and began to teach it to other strong, independent wives that were struggling with resolving conflict better in order to save their marriage. I showed them how making a couple of tweaks could drastically transform how disagreements are resolved without feeling like they had to shrink up in order for their husband to feel like a man.

I am determined to help wives totally transform their marriage by finally mastering the art of resolving conflict so they can reconnect with their hubby without feeling like they have to lose their identity.

I Believe In Your Marriage!

Arrettres Hollins

Who is this for?

If you’ve been thinking about, crying about, frustrated about and praying for your marriage

and how you can have tough conversations with your husband

without him becoming defensive or shutting down,

then Conversations That Win Group Coaching Program is for you.

For more than a decade, I’ve worked as a speaker, author, and spiritual teacher for wives that were struggling in their marriage.   And with this transformational course and coaching,  I’ve helped women communicate so that her husband can hear her words, know her heart and resolve conflict in their marriage.

Now it’s your turn.

During the Conversations That Win Group Coaching Program I’ll guide you to:

  • Use a systematic blueprint to quickly resolve conflict.

  • Work situations out even when only one person is accountable and open to communicate.

  • Handle stressful situations better because you are mentally and emotionally stronger.

  • Resolve conflict even when you have different opinions.

  • Create a safe environment for tough conversations so neither of you feels attacked.

  • Eliminate the constant feeling of fighting for your marriage by yourself.

  • Stop the cycle of having the same argument repeatedly and it never gets resolved.

  • Manifest the best in your marriage and clarify your expectations.

  • Resolve conflict even when he gives you an attitude

  • Consistently implement solutions to problems as soon as they arise.

CONVERSATIONS THAT WIN AT A GLANCE AND WHY YOU SHOULD JOIN!

ACCOUNTABILITY

Conversations That Win Group Coaching Program gives you the confidence and practical tools to drastically transform communication in your marriage while reconnecting with your husband.

Join an amazing community of like-minded wives you can connect with in our private Facebook group. You will be able to receive the support and accountability of these members for years!

MARRIAGE & PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

The 8-module course provides a distinctive combination of spiritual practices and powerful resources that give you an actionable blueprint to have tough conversations.

$3,500 in bonuses that will support you as you take the course which includes 21 video training, 4 ebooks, 3 guides, 1 expectation & marriage assessments.

CONTINUAL & GUIDED LESSONS

You will have lifetime access to the course and content, making it easy for you to return to the lessons anytime and learn at your own pace. Plus, new lessons are added regularly so the content is always fresh.

The self-paced course is 100% online, so you can participate in the group from anywhere, anytime. You'll receive a clear, easy plan to apply each lesson into your life and marriage.

What others are saying about Arrettres?
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To have the marriage of our dreams we must RISE! Rise above that which we can not see. Rise above our own understanding. Rise above what the world tells us and choose the path of the unknown. Choose to turn it over to God and set the intention to invest in our marriage, ourself and our families. To reclaim our God-given strengths, step into our gifts and watch the miracle unfold. Coach Arrettres Hollins provides the inspiration and guidance to support this intention and empower us to see that which we can not on our own. To become the amazing and powerful women we were designed to be!!!!!

Dr. Shawn Horn

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What I have learned about marriage! Whoop!! I have learned a lot. First and foremost I have learned that marriage works! And it will always work when you put God at the center of your union. Also, I have learned a lot on the duties of a wife to a husband, (he who finds a wife, finds a good thing) and I have learned to be a prayerful wife, a prayerful partner and how to treat my husband and my marriage.

Thank you so much! Ann Kary

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I’ve learned that love takes time. If we take time for ourselves, the right person will come along. I believe God helps with that process. I am in a long distance relationship and we have decided to take things slowly through texting and long emails. The energy you put into a relationship is bound to spring forth Bliss. This is definitely new for me, but, I’ve learned a lot and I’m willing to give it a try. I’ve heard that love is what you make it. But, the truth of the matter is, I’ve learned a relationship is what you and your partner make of it. Thank you so much.

Valencia Newton

Module Breakdown

Module 1

HYP - (Husband, Yourself, Problem) This system helps you lay a stable foundation where you are no longer doing the fighting and truly allow God to repair your marriage.

Reality Check - Brings clarity to your Marriage mindset. Removing the Fairytale Syndrome and past baggage that is interrupting your current relationship.

By the time you complete module 1, you will be able to…

  • Have tough conversations without them negatively affecting you.

  • Use strategic silence to do the work for you.

  • Works situations out even when only one person is accountable and open to communicate.

  • Handle stressful situations better because you are mentally and emotionally stronger.

  • Create a safe environment for tough conversations so neither of you feel attacked.

Module 1 will help you….

  • Eliminate the constant feeling of fighting for your marriage by yourself.

  • Remove the fear that he will cheat.

  • Avoid losing interest in your marriage because you can’t see eye to eye.

  • Stop the cycle of having the same argument repeatedly and it never gets resolved.

Module 2

What's My Style? - This step involves an assessment that helps you to identify your triggers and the root of your pain points. In order to know why you react to your husband, it is important to know where the reaction stems from. You will also be challenged to know and understand your husband's triggers in order to develop a mutual respect for your individuality.

Remove Obstacles - Develop strategies that will help you overcome different roadblocks that make conflict resolution impossible. You will deal with Anger Management, how to deal with objections and different opinions, and how to create realistic expectations for each other.

By the time you complete module 2, you will be able to…

  • Manifest the best in your marriage and clarify your expectations.

  • Eliminate belief systems that are killing your conversations.

  • Identify what instigates negative emotions in your marriage.

  • Get clear regarding the origin of your pain points and Destroy potential Daddy issues that still affect you.

  • Better understand your spouse and the root of his discomfort.

  • Resolve conflict even when he gives you an attitude.

Module 2 will help you….

  • Repeating the same painful mistakes that hurt your marriage.

  • Feeling like you are a nag and your opinion isn’t valuable.

  • Responding to your husband in anger or using sarcasm as a weapon.

  • Provoking your husband’s pain points.

Module 3

Quick Resolution Process - This proven process will teach you how to drastically shorten the length of your tough conversations so your hubby doesn’t check out and you don’t become emotionally drained.

By the time you complete module 3, you will be able to…

  • Resolve conflict even when you have different opinions.

  • Consistently implement solutions to problems as soon as they arise.

  • Use a systematic blueprint to quickly resolve conflict.

  • Gain peace of mind regarding the status of your marriage.

Module 3 will help you….

  • Him shutting down or dismissing you.

  • Feeling disconnected from your husband.

  • The financial strain and embarrassment of a painful divorce.

  • Your husband dismissing your thoughts and opinions.

BONUS #1 - The 4C's !!

His Good Thang!!!  

By the time you complete The 4C's Bonus Module, you will be able to…

  • Consistently reconnect with your Boo!

  • Cultivate a no negativity zone.

  • Confidently speak life into your marriage

  • Create a safe support system for your marriage.

BUT WAIT.....THERE IS MORE!!!!

Bonus #2

Lifetime membership in a private Facebook group where you can find ongoing support from peers and mentors.

Bonus #3

Six live group video trainings with Arrettres where you can ask any questions!

Bonus #4 - The Quick Resolution Process
The Quick Resolution Process is a strategic blueprint that will help VIRTUALLY eliminate reoccurring conflict in your marriage.
- Is perfect for strong-willed wives
- You WILL resolve conflict faster than usual
- Create consistency that makes your husband feel comfortable
- Drastically shorten the length of your disagreements
End all conversations with a doable solution
- Keeps husbands from shutting down or becoming defensive.
- You WILL be mentally and emotionally stronger so you can handle stressful situations better.
- Tough conversations will be resolved with ease.
- Works even if only one person knows the process.
- Remove the #1 cause of divorce from your life and marriage.
What others are saying about Arrettres!

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Stepford Wives vs. Strong Willed Wives

How to settle disagreements without losing your identity.

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In this webinar, you will learn:

Secret #1 - The secret to resolving conflict without yelling. (This works even when you're right!)

Secret #2 - Silent treatment not working? The proven strategy that strong willed wives use to resolve conflict.

Secret #3 - The Venus Fly Trap: You'll never be accused of nagging again when you do this!

Disclaimer - This Wifey Challenge is not for women that are being physically, mentally or emotionally abused. If you are experiencing any of these, get help. There are churches and christian community organizations for women that are in abusive relationships. Seek them for guidance and assistance in creating healthy boundaries.

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