From sun up to sun down, you and your spouse are running non-stop. Your busy life and everything on your to-do list consumes your time, energy and emotions. Between taking care of your children, maintaining a home and earning a living, it is easy for you to overlook connecting with your spouse daily. If you are not careful, you two will gradually drift further and further apart. That’s why it is so important that you are intentional about connecting with your spouse and wooing them the same way you did before you said I do. Here are “5 Tips To Keep Your Spouse Madly In Love With You”.
1.Be loving and affectionate
Hug often! When you hug for several seconds, you can lift your serotonin levels. Increased serotonin levels can improve your spouse’s mood.
Greet them with a kiss. Make it a good one!
Always give them a good morning and a good night kiss. That morning kiss could also damage your relationship, so choose wisely. lol
Touch him just because. Hold his hand. Play in his hair. Most men like to be caressed.
2. Encourage your spouse
If they are going through a rough season, you remain positive. Don’t allow his negative energy to bring you down. Continue to be the light in the relationship until he can work his way through this season.
Help them to see the positive side of things. Highlight the areas of his life that are working in his favor. Remind him how blessed he is.
Acknowledge where he is currently being successful. Feelings of failure attack our men on a daily basis. Tell him all the areas of his life where he is and has been successful.
Know your spouses love language. Your love language will explain your primary love language, what it means, and how you can use it to connect with your spouse. If you have not taken the love language assessment, click this link and you can take it for free. –> Learn Your Love Language
3. Show your gratitude.
Do not take them for granted. Don’t neglect or overlook who they are and what they provide for your family.
Appreciate them for the little things they do. Even if they are not doing EVERYTHING that you believe they should be doing. Let them know you are grateful for the little and big things they do for you and your family.
4. Don’t talk bad about your body.
It scares and makes them feel uncomfortable. They never know how to respond. No matter what they say, they truly feel they are going to say something wrong.
If your spouse is not complaining about your body, they most likely love your body. Trust me! He loves your body and wants to see more of it!!!
5. Compliment your spouse often.
Tell them how good they look before they go to work, church, grocery store, etc. Do you really want your man to leave your presence feeling down and unwanted? So Betty Homewrecker can shower him with compliments at his job? No ma’am! I am, IN NO WAY, condoning him entertaining Betty Homewrecker because you are not giving him compliments at home. But, I say let’s eliminate the possibility of this issue. Make sure your husband is on cloud nine when he leaves your presence.
Flattery will get you everywhere. Men go where they are respected, loved and appreciated. Flatter your man!
Get dolled up for your Boo. Whatever you did before you said “I Do”, continue to do those things. You don’t have to do this daily. But, at least once a week, present yourself to him the same way you did when you were dating. If he likes heels, whip out those heels one night. If he likes to see you in a short mini skirt, throw on a mini skirt. Basically, give your hubby something to remember when he is not in your presence.
These are all things you did early in your relationship. Don’t drop the ball now because you two are busy. If you want him to stay madly in love with you, make it easy for him and continue to do the things that first made him fall madly in love with you.
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