You are sitting there.....again. Looking at your cell phone.
Confused......Dazed......Fighting back tears!
Anger rises. How could he do this to me???
He promised he wouldn't do it again.
How many tears do I have to shed?
He promised it would never happen again!
Do I stay......
or do I go???
Have you ever been in this place?
Trust has been violated. Your husband has broken your heart again.
You are standing at a crossroad, trying to determine your next step.
Or maybe you haven't even made it that far.
Maybe you are still struggling with the pain, bitterness, and resentment of experiencing a broken heart.
My sister......I am so sorry you are experiencing this.
I understand the heartache of looking into the eyes of the man that vowed to love you for the rest of your life and feeling the deepest pain you've ever experienced. Been there....done that.....wore the t-shirt......THEN SET IT ON FIRE!!!
YES....after bitterness, revenge, and resentment set in, I had to make a decision.
Am I going to allow this situation to define me? Will I allow this betrayal to take my joy.......my peace.......my edges?????
Absolutely NOT!!! I wasn't going to allow his mistake to consume me!
I made a decision that I was no longer going to allow bitterness, resentment, anger, and depression to consume me!
And, now I would like to help you finally receive the emotional and mental healing that you deserve!!
I would like to introduce you to......
Balanced Wife LIfe will teach you how to finally heal from past hurts, become mentally and spiritually stronger and while choosing to experience joy in your life. In this 3 week course, I will walk you through my 3 step system that has helped my clients achieve a Balanced Wife-Life while reconnecting with their husband.
Why do you need to join Balanced Wife LIfe?
This course is for you if you:
- Are struggling with your marriage after your husband has had an affair.
- Can't seem to overcome past hurts in relationships
- Are tired of feeling like your needs and wants don't matter.
- Can seem to remove the stress and frustration created by your marriage.
- Want to be a better wife but don't know bitterness and resentment have snatched your joy.
Balanced Wife Life includes:
- Access to over 21 videos that completely map how to become a stronger and more confident wife!
- Unlimited growth and healing as content is always being updated and added. Revisit the course anytime from the comfort of your home.
- Lifetime access to accountability and mentors in our exclusive access to our private, supportive online community
- A digital copy of "Get Your Life. A daily agenda for busy families."
- 19 Guidelines to resolving conflict in marriage.
- An exclusive digital copy of the Balanced Wife Life Journal and daily devotional.
- Daily targeted prayers and scriptures that will help you master each step.
- Resources successful wives have used to restore their marriage.
Finally, stop struggling with the overwhelm of wearing too many hats and avoid burn out!
Balance Wife Life lessons will cover the following topics...
Shift your mindset and break the cycles that harm you and your marriage.
Simple tools and practices to accept and adore yourself and own your worth as an individual.
Raising your standards and creating an environment in your marriage to match the new you.
Testimonials about the course!
After 6 years of a stressful marriage, I fell into a deep depression. I would barely get out of my bed or engage with my children. My hair started to fall out and I gained so much weight. I couldn’t seem to shake the grief of trying to fix my marriage and not being successful at it. Balanced Wife Life helped me begin the healing process. The best part about it for me was the constant reminders to reconnect with God and reading the affirming scriptures daily. It renewed my hope. It changed my perspective of my life and my husband. We are still working on our marriage and things have gotten so much better.
I had such a hard time asserting myself in my marriage. With 3 older children and 23 years of marriage under my belt, I remained silent so much in my marriage, I didn’t know how to make sure my voice was heard. I felt like a constant doormat and had no say. I didn’t want it to be that way anymore because I felt like my husband was no longer respecting me as his wife. Balanced Wife Life helped me find my voice. It taught me how to delegate and no longer feel like everyones maid. PLUS, the trick Arrettres taught regarding how to get your husband to help out around the house REALLY WORKED! My husband now helps out with the laundry and cooks dinner three times a week.
My husband was cheating on me. It was a 5 year relationship he had with a coworker. I was devastated and immediately filed for a divorce. I was embarrassed and humiliated. I blamed the affair on myself. My self esteem was low before I met him. After the the affair, my self esteem was non existent. This course helped me build up my self esteem and see that I am valuable regardless of what my husband did. It taught me how to set healthy boundaries in relationships and set expectations for how I should be treated. It gave me permission to speak my truth. My husband ended up trying to come back home and I was strong enough to give him the list of dealbreakers I created in lesson 13. He couldn’t commit to rebuilding trust, so I wished him well in life. lol
Module #1 - Mindset
By the end of Module #1, you will be able to...
- Reconnect with your source and consistent joy.
- Create healthy habits that will transform your marriage.
- Heal from past hurts that still keep you emotionally and mentally bound.
- Find peace in the midst of tough conversations you may experience as you gain closure.
- Rebuild your self-esteem and embrace your worth.
Module #2 - Self Worth
By the end of Module #2, you will be able to...
- Establish self-love habits that prevent future breakdowns and overextending yourself.
- Increase your mental and physical health with strategic self-care.
- Relieve stress by delegating and creating systems that free you from burnout and fatigue.
- Redefine love for your life and set a standard that accommodates your needs and wants.
- Feel confident expressing and creating healthy boundaries that protect your emotional and mental well being.
Module #3 - Relationships
By the end of Module #3, you will be able to...
- Understand and implement the difference between Forgiveness and Reconciliation.
- Set expectations regarding deal breakers and unacceptable behavior.
- Resolve conflict and have tough conversations more effectively.
- Create order in your marriage that establishes a safe environment for everyone.
- Determine what you must do when your situation seems beyond repair.
My method will help you finally break free from hurt and resentment so you can experience total happiness and peace.
But wait, there's more!!
You will also receive a BONUS copy of my most popular workbook Fire!
FIRE is a 30 day Daily Devotional and Journal for Wives that are trying to keep it all together. It is filled with 64 pages of daily scriptures, affirmations, prayer notes, gratitude entries and reflection time.
This downloadable ebook includes:
Scriptures reinforcing the promises that God has for you.
Mindset shifting affirmations.
Prayer and notes section
Daily release of struggles and worries
Fire is regularly priced at $29 but is a Bonus Gift for you when you enroll in Balanced Wife Life today!
Lifetime membership in a private Facebook group where you can find ongoing support from peers and mentors.
Conflict Resolution for Strong Wives That Want To Win!
This bundle includes 4 Training Videos and a Digital Guide
(Valued at $49)
To have the marriage of our dreams we must RISE! Rise above that which we can not see. Rise above our own understanding. Rise above what the world tells us and choose the path of the unknown. Choose to turn it over to God and set the intention to invest in our marriage, ourself and our families. To reclaim our God-given strengths, step into our gifts and watch the miracle unfold. Coach Arrettres Hollins provides the inspiration and guidance to support this intention and empower us to see that which we can not on our own. To become the amazing and powerful women we were designed to be!!!!!
Dr. Shawn Horn
What I have learned about marriage! Whoop!! I have learned a lot. First and foremost I have learned that marriage works! And it will always work when you put God at the center of your union. Also, I have learned a lot on the duties of a wife to a husband, (he who finds a wife, finds a good thing) and I have learned to be a prayerful wife, a prayerful partner and how to treat my husband and my marriage.
I’ve learned that love takes time. If we take time for ourselves, the right person will come along. I believe God helps with that process. I am in a long distance relationship and we have decided to take things slowly through texting and long emails. The energy you put into a relationship is bound to spring forth Bliss. This is definitely new for me, but, I’ve learned a lot and I’m willing to give it a try. I’ve heard that love is what you make it. But, the truth of the matter is, I’ve learned a relationship is what you and your partner make of it. Thank you so much.
This 3-week online program provides the crucial elements necessary for your success as a wife and healing by walking you through my transformational 3 step process.
So Let's Sum It Up!
It's important that you know the ENORMOUS value you'll get in this course.
By the end of this course, you will:
- Boldly speak up for yourself and express your expectations in marriage.
- Get clear about how to handle the current issues you have with your husband.
- Get rid of unnecessary stress and pressure created by a hefty to do list and no support from others.
- Avoid the pain & negative emotions of a strained marriage and possibly divorce.
- Finally be able to get that breakthrough in your life and marriage you have been praying for.
- Be the calm and balanced woman your family openly adores and needs.
Balanced Wife Life will help you get your ENTIRE life together!
Grab this FREE Webinar!
Stepford Wives vs. Strong Willed Wives
How to settle disagreements without losing your identity.
As seen on:
Queenish Women's Empowerment Expo
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In this webinar, you will learn:
Secret #1 - The secret to resolving conflict without yelling. (This works even when you're right!)
Secret #2 - Silent treatment not working? The proven strategy that strong willed wives use to resolve conflict.
Secret #3 - The Venus Fly Trap: You'll never be accused of nagging again when you do this!
Disclaimer - This Wifey Challenge is not for women that are being physically, mentally or emotionally abused. If you are experiencing any of these, get help. There are churches and christian community organizations for women that are in abusive relationships. Seek them for guidance and assistance in creating healthy boundaries.